The following is going to be my GF’s point of view. Since so many of you obviously didn’t read hardly anything I wrote I hope you’ll READ this time.
Don’t talk about your trauma stories, while they may be important, make your own thread if you want to do that because it derails the discussion and makes it hard for newcomers to know wtf is going on.
GF: I am not going to reiterate the entire story. My boyfriend told the story accurately enough so if you are new to this topic or are not but actually want to read it this time you can go to his original post here http://www.T-Nation.com/free_online_forum/music_movies_girls_life/weird_night?id=2484079&pageNo=0
First and foremost I want to make one thing perfectly clear. My boyfriend would never do anything like that. He is not that kind of guy.
He would never hit a girl unless it was absolutely necessary ie: needing to protect loved ones or innocent bystanders. If he was the kind of guy most of you think he is I wouldn’t be with him. It was a joke. Get over it.
Secondly, to all of the self-righteous, self absorbed “traumatized” people on this forum did you ever take your heads out of your own behinds long enough to think about what I am going through?
Did you ever stop to think about the fact that I don’t feel safe in my own home anymore? Can any of you even imagine what that feels like? Some stranger violated my home and my piece of mind and all you are concerned with is condemning my boyfriend for a joke when you didn’t even read the entire story.
How about you empathize with the real victim here instead of your imagined victimization of the person who forced their way into my home and committed assault.
And no, I didn’t feel like I was in any danger after it all happened. But when some person, drunk or not, female or not, tries to grab you by the throat to hurt you, trust me, you feel threatened. I shook uncontrollably and cried for hours afterwords and the only reason I was able to sleep at all is because my boyfriend held me while I slept.
And please if you don’t want to read this entire thing, I understand it’s long, don’t comment. Thank you.