Thanks big dawg.
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Looking Lean and strong man. 100% Not natty!!!
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Thank you but I promise that is 101% attainable natty lol even though I’m not 
I think it’s about time to change the name of your log bud
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Pictures only tell half the story. I promise they are more flattering than real life. But thank you for the compliment! Trying to get there lol
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Went to a Christmas party last night. Had the best night of my life. The girl I’ve been dating looked absolutely stunning and she was a huge hit with all my friends. Later in the night she came over and said hey, I’m tired of telling people we are dating. I want to tell them you’re my boyfriend! She the. Jokingly got down on one knee and asked me to be her boyfriend. It was the cutest thing ever.
We got home late, had killer sex and passed out.
This morning we are laying in bed and she’s like oh, it’s my friends birthday I need to text him. I happen to catch a glimpse of the screen and dude has the same last name as her ex boyfriend. I ask her about it and she says another one of her friends has the Same last name. Ok cool, last names are common. Later when my brain won’t stop I go to his Instagram and low and behold it’s his birthday
I call her on it and she admits she lied and felt bad but promises there’s nothing there LOL!!!
Fuck boys. I was so unbelievably happy with this woman. I honestly can’t believe this shit. Fuck
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I dunno dude, is it the lie that is the problem, or the fact that she is friends with him? Is this a case where you give her the benefit of the doubt?
The lie and texting him from my bed. She assures me she doesn’t have feelings for him and they never talk. Waking up first thing to text him happy birthday leads me to believe I don’t have the whole picture.
In my mind she’s not over him. Still upset he chose another girl over her and is still playing the friendly card in hopes he will come back. She also has loaned him money in the past, after they were broken up.
Just not typical behavior of someone who “has nothing for someone”. I also despise liars. I know it’s hard to always tell the hard truths, but I’m not down with someone who can look me in the eye and lie.
It suck’s so bad dude. She was so special
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I don’t want it to be over. Like at all. But I can’t see myself getting past this. Working through trust issues is something married people do, not new relationships.
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Would not be a bad idea to tell her exactly all of that and see what she says.
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I did. She assures me he means nothing but her behavior proves other wise.
I feel you, man. Had something similar happen a few years ago with somebody I was trying to nudge out of the friend zone. One small lie that didn’t even have anything to do with me/us, but I couldn’t let it go. Turns out, there were other untruths told over the years, so I don’t blame you if you’re not able to get over it.
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It sucks man. Like I know I’m gonna be fine and I’ll get over it but damn it hurts
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This is all your fault bro.
Seek and ye shall find.
You gotta ghost her now. No explaining, no bargaining, ghost.
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Gonna take a forum hiatus for a bit! No idea how long. Maybe 5 hours, maybe a week
Still be out there killin it, just won’t have all my awesome online friends cheering me on. I’ll be thinking about y’all though 
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Take the time you need, but don’t take too long! Haha. Seriously, the situation with her sucks, so take the time you need to process. Similarly, we’re here when you need to vent or talk things through.
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Damn brother, that’s rough. Good on you for recognizing it and staying true to yourself.
I guess the silver lining is finding out now, rather than sometime down the line when the topic is a much bigger issue. A blatant lie in a situation where you don’t need to lie is a big red flag.
Talk soon man!
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IMO you should tell her that for her to retain the “girlfriend” status she just asked for, that she needs to cease communication with her ex… Those are extremely basic requirements for literally any relationship.
I agree, but this is where trust enters the relationship too though. You shouldn’t have to work through trust issues, but laying down ground rules for a relationship is not the same thing. If she hesitates to cease communication, then it’s your time to bail.
Regardless, I’m sorry to hear about this.
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Wow that sucks. I am team give her a chance though.
I think requesting that she cease communication with ex is probably not the way to go either (because that was my initial thought as well).
How long ago were they dating?
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