[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
Airtruth wrote:
OctoberGirl wrote:
Airtruth wrote:
WE MAKE OUR OWN DECISIONS!
My family was poor. When I was a kid I picked fruit in the summers for money in the heat and sweat with bugs and I hated it, but we needed the money.
your FAMILY was poor? Exactly!!!
Say what you want but I would bet all of my money you take a 100 kids of any race and any gender with no family let the streets raise them, and 90% of them will have a life filled with wrong decisions.
I’d then bet double or nothing that after they turn 25 you tell them well that was the past you have to change your life now still 75% won’t be able to just switch and be the great person that you are.
I never robbed a convenience store, I never sold drugs, I never hosted a dog fight OR FINANCED ONE.
so played,
It is this type of delusional rationalization for criminal behavior that has people setting standards low for some, and excusing unexcusable behavior.
This discussion wasn’t even about why criminals do what they do(Does anybody read what I say?) This was specifically why Bill Cosby and Oprah are out of touch with the young black urban community.
And not to go in to your age but things were ALOT different when you were younger. $10,000 dollars a year while you could not live like a movie star can afford at the least rent and food enough so your Mother can come home and nurture you into a quality person.
What do you think all kids are just born evil nowadays? Too many black kids maybe? maybe black kids are just demented? Or better yet something in the water? Theres a reason why kids act the way they do, yes TV raises a lot of kids and thats because parents can not be home the way they used to.
And so now it is a race issue.
My dad was born in Watts and my mom in Detroit. They were the minority. They aren’t criminals.
And how old do you think I am! Get a grip.
Stop making excuses!
I’ve worked for the District Attorney’s office, I’ve volunteered at the family law clinic. These aren’t the noble poor that you are portraying.
They aren’t victims of society turning their backs. They aren’t just BLACK!
And you would be surprised how many of these households have both parents NOT WORKING but getting paid to stay home and raise their kids while the Middle Class gets the shaft and work two jobs to support their family and have to have their kids raised by strangers.
I don’t know where you get your statistics but they aren’t accurate. Maybe I shouldn’t use the word statistic and use your reasoned guess.
You keep making excuses for bad behavior. You do, there is no getting around that statment. They act that way because they are poor, they act that way because they were raised by tv, they act that way because daddy wasn’t home, they act that way because mama was mean to them.
Excuse, excuse, excuse. Enabling excuses. Worse, a society riding the wave of these enabling excuses and justifying their lack of moral integrity, their lack of self-determination and accountability, and a society that believes they are owed more than what they want to legally work for and that laws are only for those people who haven’t SUFFERED the way they have.
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YOUR TELLING ME TO GET A GRIP?
PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT BEFORE YOU TELL ME TO GET A GRIP?
I’ll cut and past and quote again for you
"This discussion wasn’t even about why criminals do what they do(Does anybody read what I say?) This was specifically why Bill Cosby and Oprah are out of touch with the young black urban community. "
I’ll rephrase it. Bill Cosby and Oprah do not relate to the young black urban community.
Rephrase it again, Bill Cosby does not relate to the black youth, nor does Oprah.
Rephrase it again Oprah doesn’t relate to the young Hip-Hop Community.
Better yet The Young Black Hip-Hop Community does not feel they have anything in common with Oprah or Bill Cosby.
Is this about race? Must be, since you think Me and Bill Cosby can relate to each other. What else do we have in common besides being black? Let me guess you would plan an education summit where Jesse Jackson tells a bunch of KKK teens that blacks aren’t stealing their jobs, they’re just a bunch of lazy excuse ladden teens?(That’s real smart)
Where did I make an excuse for Michael Vick again? Please state where I said he fights dogs because he was poor? Senators fight dogs. Majority of them sure aren’t poor or black.