[quote]benos4752 wrote:
Again, a mistake was made. They have ten tables…three of you ordered the ribs…they’re supposed to remember that you wanted no bbq sauce on them
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Uhm, yes?
Mistakes can happen obviously, but they are supposed to remember. That’s part of their job.
You are just MADDD that I told the TRUTH about what REALLY happens in restaurants. If you don’t care, don’t read then. WHY are you on this board responding if you don’t care, huh? Obviously you do care, otherwise you wouldn’t respond, would you?
“And if you can’t, please stop writing a book for every response…and stop with all the God damn random capitalization. Just type like a normal person, not a MORON.”
ANYONE with common sense I wouldn’t HAVE TO tell you these things with emphasis, but the knowledgeable ones I seem to have to. YOU are one of them it seems.
[quote]Springs1 wrote:
You are just MADDD that I told the TRUTH about what REALLY happens in restaurants. If you don’t care, don’t read then. WHY are you on this board responding if you don’t care, huh? Obviously you do care, otherwise you wouldn’t respond, would you?
“And if you can’t, please stop writing a book for every response…and stop with all the God damn random capitalization. Just type like a normal person, not a MORON.”
ANYONE with common sense I wouldn’t HAVE TO tell you these things with emphasis, but the knowledgeable ones I seem to have to. YOU are one of them it seems. [/quote]
Actually, typing in all caps mean yelling or shouting and is really, really annoying.
If you want to emphasize your words, please use italics or bold. You can even use [b]both[/b]. It is easy to do and much less annoying to read.
Springs, you are a self righteous, self entitled retard. Plain and simple.
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
Springs, you are a [b]self righteous, self entitled retard[/b]. Plain and simple.[/quote]
Fixed it for you.
See how easy it is to emphasize words without shouting.
[quote]Christine wrote:
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
Springs, you are a [b]self righteous, self entitled retard[/b]. Plain and simple.[/quote]
Fixed it for you.
See how easy it is to emphasize words without shouting.
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How did you do that?
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
Springs, you are a [b]self righteous, self entitled retard[/b]. Plain and simple.[/quote]
Fixed it for you.
See how easy it is to emphasize words without shouting.
[/quote]
How did you do that?[/quote]
Seriously, big guy! I thought you knew everything.
Just look at the post when you hit reply.
[ b ] bold [ /b ]
[ i ] italics [ /i]
[ b ] [ i ] [i]bold and italics[/i] [ /b ] [ /i ]
With no spaces.
[quote]Springs1 wrote:
You are just MADDD that I told the TRUTH about what REALLY happens in restaurants. If you don’t care, don’t read then. WHY are you on this board responding if you don’t care, huh? Obviously you do care, otherwise you wouldn’t respond, would you?
“And if you can’t, please stop writing a book for every response…and stop with all the God damn random capitalization. Just type like a normal person, not a MORON.”
ANYONE with common sense I wouldn’t HAVE TO tell you these things with emphasis, but the knowledgeable ones I seem to have to. YOU are one of them it seems. [/quote]
WHAT do you do for a living? What FIELD is your job in? Its a rare field where mistakes are of such a LiFe AnD DeAtH NaTurE ThAt You SeEm To be GiViNg ThE ForGetTiNg of CoNdImEntS.
I AcTuAlLy dOn’T thInK EnGliSh iS YoUr NaTiVe TonguE. i’D LaY sOMe mOnEy oN it. You KnOw NoThing About WhAT hApPeNs In a ReStaurAnt. The Simple CLaIm YoU kNoW MoRe AbouT A MeNu than A SERVER shOWS ThIs. BoTtom LiNe Is YoU aRe a fUcking cUnT. ThE oNlY enjOyaBle TimEs yOuR HusBaNd HaS IN restaurants, Is WhEn…,!!! He tAkEs hIs MisTress oUT. I cAn oNlY ImagInE tHe heLL tHe PoOr SonoFaBitCh GoEs ThrOuGH oN a DaIly BaSis. I lOvE TyPinG lIke This!.
Let me help you : I wouldn’t have to emphasize these things to anyone with common sense. The fact that I have to do this for you is telling. Though I find you are a goddamn fucking moron much more pithy. Please tell me English is a second or third language for you.
ThIs Is ThE wAy I sHaLl tYPe aLl oF mY fUtuRe PoSt’S I thInk.
But let me enumerate my points.
[quote]Christine wrote:
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
Springs, you are a [b]self righteous, self entitled retard[/b]. Plain and simple.[/quote]
Fixed it for you.
See how easy it is to emphasize words without shouting.
[/quote]
How did you do that?[/quote]
Seriously, big guy! I thought you knew everything.
Just look at the post when you hit reply.
[ b ] bold [ /b ]
[ i ] italics [ /i]
[ b ] [ i ] [i]bold and italics[/i] [ /b ] [ /i ]
With no spaces.[/quote] I know how to turn on the internet. I was going to type “how about them apples” with them in bold but my phone doesn’t have brackets.
You are acting like you you are the only person that needs a tip or something, that somehow your money is the ONLY thing important, but the customer isn’t. That’s the way you act.
FIRST OFF, the server is supposed to WRITE****** EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY DETAIL DOWN FOR EACH PERSON AT EACH TABLE***************** so they can remember it. THAT IS WHY I HAVE TO WRITE IN ALL CAPS, because this is COMMON SENSE*!!
YOU DON’T HAVE TO REMEMBER EVERY DETAIL IF YOU WRITE EVERY DETAIL DOWN, DO YOU?***
QUIT BEING SO LAZY AND UNCARING ABOUT EVERY CUSTOMER. DON’T YOU EXPECT A TIP OR A GOOD TIP FROM ALL CUSTOMERS, THEREFORE, THEY SHOULDN’T REMEMBER ANYTHING, THEY SHOULD BE REREADING THEIR WRITTEN ORDERS OR TASKS THAT WAS ASKED FOR.
To counteract you attitude, so every customers should have tip you well if you forget details about their stuff they asked for???
In other words, ***YOU HAVE TO CARE ABOUT US IN ORDER FOR US TO CARE ABOUT YOUR TIP, OTHERWISE, WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT YOU IF YOU WERE TOO LAZY TO WRITE THINGS DOWN TO AT LEAST GIVE THE FIRST STEP OF **EFFORT INTO YOUR JOB, HUH
SO you expect ALL customers to tip you well? If you do, we expect EVERY DETAIL TO AT LEAST OUR SERVERS TO TRY***** to get them all correct as far as the stuff they can control.
You expect a good tip, we expect good service for our money, what’s the problem with THAT, HUH?
********THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE TO “REMEMBER” IS **WHERE YOU WROTE DOWN THE TASKS THAT WAS ASKED FOR, SO THERE’S NO “REMEMBERING” THINGS FROM MEMORY ALONE.
WHY ARE YOU SO LAZY TO NOT WRITE ALL REQUESTS DOWN AND ACTUALLY EXPECT RESPECT BACK WHEN YOU DIDN’T GIVE CARING AND RESPECT FROM THE GET GO TO TRY**** YOUR BEST TO GET EVERYTHING THAT THE PERSON ASKED FOR?
I DESPISE UNCARING AND LAZY PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT EXPECT US TO CARE, BUT THEY DON’T CARE, WELL WHAT DO YOU EXPECT BACK, A GOLD MEDAL?
SERVERS ARE AT OUR MERCY IF THEY WANT GOOD MONEY IN THE TIP. YOU HAVE TO BE NICE TO US, THAT’S WHY THE TIP IS AT THE END TO SEE IF THE SERVER WAS TRYING THEIR BEST AND CARING OR NOT. IF THE TIP WAS AT THE BEGINNING, NO ONE WOULD HAVE GOOD SERVICE MOST LIKELY, BECAUSE NO INCENTIVE WOULD BE THERE AT ALL.
WHY DO YOU EXPECT CARING, BUT YET DON’T WANT TO CARE FIRST, HUH?
YOU EXPECT A TIP, A GOOD ONE AT LEAST MINIMUM 20%, RIGHT? WELL, WE EXPECT SOME GOOD SERVICE FOR THAT 20% JUST AS YOU EXPECT THAT IF YOU WORKED YOUR BUTT OFF, BUT YOU AREN’T. THAT’S WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. YOU ARE SAYING: “So one server with 10-15 tables is supposed to remember every little detail? Especially when they’re at the end of their shift?”
So if you are at the end of your shift, you are being SO DAMN SELFISH to say such an INCONSIDERATE thing. SO WHAT IT’S AT THE END OF YOUR SHIFT, so you stop caring then? WHAT A MEAN, UNCARING person you are.
Secondly, if you have 10-15 tables, COMMON SENSE COMMON SENSE should come into play here that you cannot possibly remember from memory alone all of that to **********QUIT BEING SO LAZY AND ****WRITE THE STUFF DOWN, DUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH~~ TRY YOUR BEST~~!!!
I don’t get it, you expect to remember that, I can’t remember ONE order if they wanted cheese or cajun or regular fries at a donut shop/diner if I didn’t write down ONE order, how can you expect to remember stuff if you don’t write it down, huh?
If I knew I had 10-15 tables, I’d write EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY** request down and that means if the person wanted a check and a box, I’d write that down. I couldn’t remember it just from my memory, but if I wrote for example:
Table 6 wants
mozzarella sticks
burger with cheese medium well
mayo mustard ranch
chicken sandwich with just cheese and lettuce only
fries no seasoning
Table 7 asks for their check, a bag, and a box.
Table 8 asks for a brownie, their check.
Table 9 asks for 5 refills, 1 coke, 3 diet cokes, 1 sweet tea.
Table 11 asks for a side of ranch, extra napkins, and more bread.
See, HOW HARD IS THAT TO WRITE EVERY*** DETAIL DOWN SO YOU CAN** at least TRY TO GET THEM RIGHT, huh?
See, for example, I have forgotten some things on grocery lists, but guess what, I have forgotten them MUCH MORE TIMES if I never wrote it down.
So my point is, DO YOU TRULY TRY**** to not forget every single solitary thing?
I bet your answer is the lazy one, OF COURSE NOT. Therefore, that proves how UNCARING AND LAZY YOU ARE, then have the GALL to expect a good tip?
Seriously, you aren’t supposed to remember from memory alone, that’s why you write ALL requests down so you won’t forget things nearly as often.
My grocery lists around 98% of the time I don’t forget stuff I have written down and that’s when I go after work when I have eaten dinner yet, so I am thinking about coming home I am hungry even and sometimes there for around an hour at times shopping. My point is, if you aren’t willing to write *EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY requests down, then HOW can you complain then? YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO COMPLAIN IF YOU DON’T TRY YOUR VERY BEST. WHY can’t you see how UNCARING YOU ARE IN THE FIRST PLACE?
You say we can’t expect our server to remember every detail, well you can’t expect us to give a CARE about your tip then? HOW ABOUT THAT? What goes around comes around. YOU as a server have to care first in order for us to care about you.
If you don’t care about every detail by at least TRYING*** by not only the first step writing things down, but also REREADING the written tasks or orders and comparing them to WHAT you are bringing out, then HOW IN THE WORLD CAN YOU EXPECT A TIP OR A GOOD TIP BACK, HUH?
You are uncaring, but then expect others to care about your details with your low pay. How uncaring and selfish are you?
I doubt that you say that how can we expect you to “remember” every detail that you write EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY requests down, because otherwise, WHY would you say “REMEMBER”, huh?
You only have to remember WHERE you wrote it down and of course have to decipher your own handwriting, but otherwise, of course we expect you to, we are PAYING** YOU TO UNCARING PERSON! Seriously, servers in our state make only $2.13/hr, but how can you expect us to care if they don’t care, huh? Caring is a 2-way street, so if you don’t care about every detail to not A. Write things down, B. Compare the written order or requests to any obvious errors, then HOW can you expect someone else to care about your money if you don’t care about them, huh?
I don’t get it, I really don’t WHY you expect to not write things down knowing you have 10-15 tables? Then, when things are forgotten, you spend MORE TIME with having to go back each time to get the forgotten items, and I bet your type doesn’t even say you are sorry even, am I right?
“Are you telling me you have never made a mistake or forgotten something? You’ve never let something slip your mind? Lord knows I have.”
As I said above, I have forgotten more things when I didn’t write things down and reread my lists than when I did. So that means writing things down and then reading them again DOES HELP AT LEAST 90% of the time honestly. Some times I forgotten stuff is when I didn’t write it down neatly enough or I skimmed too quickly, but hey, at least I wrote things down, because most of the time, there’s NO WAY I would have remember some of the things.
I know you think that your tip is the end all be all, but it’s not. You show you could care less, I will in the tip. WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND. Treat me like crap, so your tip will be just that, crap. You seem to think the world OWES YOU 20% no matter what you do that you can be UNCARING to not TRY YOUR BEST to try to remember “10-15” tables and expect a good tip when you didn’t even TRY your best to remember them to at least take the FIRST STEP IN FRONT OF THE CUSTOMER WHICH SHOWS YOU CARE IF YOU REMEMBER WHICH IS WRITE THE THINGS DOWN~~
I will tip much better if I see my server wrote things down, then forgot and apologize vs. no writing things down, then forgot and then didn’t say they were sorry. It’s not the mistake, but the lack of showing you CARE**** about someone else besides yourself.
There’s a huge difference in what you call a mistake and what a mistake really is. If you didn’t write things down and got things wrong that you had control over whether it was put in the order wrong and/or brought out the wrong item or forgot something obvious, then NO, that’s not a mistake, that’s YOU being TOO LAZY TO HAVE *TRIED YOUR BEST to have gotten the order correct. If I saw my server wrote my order down, that’s more points already added to the tip just that it shows “I CARE IF I REMEMBER WHAT MY CUSTOMERS ASKED FOR.” IT conveys that vs. being too lazy to write it down and then a good 90% of the time they don’t write it down, they mess up or forget something.
If they got it right, I won’t count off, because well, they have a good enough short term memory, but most servers don’t.
A real mistake is one where the server writes down EVERY DETAIL that was asked and reread their written tasks, then forgot. If you didn’t do so, it’ honestly PURE LAZINESS AND I WON’T FEEL SORRY FOR YOU WHEN TIP TIME COMES THAT YOU SHOWED YOU DIDN’T CARE BY NOT EVEN AS YOU ARE CONVEYING THAT YOU CAN’T “REMEMBER” THINGS, YET, it sounds like you won’t WRITE THEM DOWN**.
WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU?
It tells me:
A. You are being too lazy to TRY to remember what I said.
B. You are a VERY UNCARING, SELFISH person that you aren’t willing to try your best not to write things down and then reread them.
We have, even when we were more polite than they were. Most servers don’t say they are sorry. Also, some actually blame the kitchen staff when you can clearly see DUHH, it’s our server’s fault such as once our waitress that brought out our food blamed the cooks for plating 2 sets of beans when my husband ordered the food as it came off the menu. I mean, ok, it came with RICE AND BEANS, that means DUHH, that waitress didn’t verify by blaming the cooks, because she would have never did that. Think about it, you see a plate with 2 sets of beans and another with beans and rice, well DUHH, our waitress could have noticed that BEFORE she decided to leave the kitchen.
I have also had where I saw while on the tray and asked about my potato salad, which the waitress said something about the kitchen blaming others.
Another time, we had our waitress forgot a baked potato my husband ordered and she read the ticket on the tray and left. HOW RUDE. I mean, he wasn’t mean, he just was very NICE about it and instead of admitting whether she forgot to put it into the computer or bring it out, either way, it was HER FAULT 100% that she decided to leave the kitchen without the side dish.
I would have immediately apologized said I was SO SORRY and not have taken up my customer time to look at the ticket. I would have verified my written order instead which would have been more accurate more than likely in the KITCHEN.
She didn’t apologize even when she brought it back and my husband even told her “Thank you” even.
SO YES, WE HAVE HAD CRAP when things had gone wrong. You don’t eat out enough apparently.
The beans and rice issue was at On the Border just to say and it was our FIRST TIME THERE EVEN, but WE KNEW THE MENU BETTER** than she did and it was like 4p.m. on a Sunday, so it was pretty slow. That’s how uncaring and lazy she was.
It does make sense. ANY condiments, like mayo, ranch, mustard, tartar sauce, etc. can be BROUGHT OUT NO MATTER WHO BRINGS OUT THE FOOD ********** BEFORE THE FOOD IS READY. NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
For example, I had a waiter bring out our appetizer that isn’t going to see any of our tip which is honestly unfair, but anyway, our WAITRESS THAT IS SUPPOSED TO EARN HER OWN TIP COULD HAVE BROUGHT OUT THE 2 ranches BEFORE* the appetizer came out and not depended on someone that isn’t receiving any money from us that isn’t going to care.
NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
It was to show that the original person that claimed most of the issues weren’t the server’s fault were VERY WRONG is all. That’s the ONLY reason WHY I said this. The thing is, if I were a server KNOWING I messed up pretty badly, just as a waiter did for us, he asked for a comp. That waiter forgot to put in our appetizer order. I feel in that case, at least a coke off the bill for our inconvenience. We got $5 off our check and tipped 16% BEFORE the discounted amount. It was because our waiter profusely apologized and acted like he cared about us by offering us something for free to make-up for it. I did see the reason why. At one point before we found out, I saw him hugging someone he knew, so you see, he was playing, so in turn, we got our stuff messed up, so YEAH, I don’t think we owe him the full 20% when he wasn’t busting butt, but at the same time, we tipped that due to NO ONE will asks for a comp for the customer to get in trouble with their manager and they only care about themselves instead of being nice and acting like it was THEIR dining experience that was ruined.
Yes, because the were supposed to ******WRITE ALL DETAILS DOWN AND THEN ***********NO BE SO LAZY TO COMPARE THE WRITTEN ORDERS TO THE PLATES OF FOOD FOR DETAILS THAT ARE DUHHHS LIKE DUHHH, sauce is on ribs. Come on now, a customer can see that on the freakin tray even. COME ON NOW, that’s a DUHHH MISTAKE.
WE ARE (((((((((((PAYING**))))))))))))))))) OUR SERVERS TO GIVE A CARE MORE THAN JUST LIKE MCDONALD’S TO HAND US SOMETHING AND NOT GIVE A CARE IF IT APPEARS RIGHT OR WRONG.
YOU AREN’T PAYING US, SO WE AREN’T SUPPOSED TO VERIFY OUR ORDER, (OUR SERVER) IS. That’s what most of the tip is for why we don’t tip fast food workers(unless it’s sonic) and why we tip our servers at non-fast food restaurants.
WHY ARE YOU SO UNCARING AND LAZY, then YET, EXPECT GOOD PAYMENT, HUH?
YOU ARE UNCARING FIRST, WHY IS THAT? WHY ARE YOU SO LAZY ASS?
Because a good 90% of the time it’s not a mistake. It’s laziness.
Please answer these with honestly please:
Do you WRITE ALL things down?
Do you COMPARE THE WRITTEN ORDERS OR ALL REQUEST TO THE FOOD OR WHAT YOU ARE BRINGING OUT for any obvious errors such as bbq sauce not on ribs or a wrong side dish or a missing side of ranch or a missing side dish, etc., huh?
If you don’t, it’s not a mistake, is it, it’s pure laziness and being VERY UNCARING about WHAT YOU ARE DELIVERING TO YOUR TABLE as far as anything you don’t have to touch the food to notice the mistakes or mistake.
The fact that most servers are like you DON’T WRITE THE THINGS FUCKING THINGS DOWN AND THEN EXPECT TO REMEMBER THEM, THEN DON’T THEN MOST SERVERS NO MATTER HOW NICE YOU ARE, MOST DON’T SAY THEY ARE SORRY EVEN.
The problem is mostly the ******LACK OF EFFORT FROM THE GET GO.
HOW CAN YOU HONESTLY EXPECT TO REMEMBER THINGS IF YOU DON’T WRITE THEM DOWN AND THEN REREAD THEM, HUH?
IT’S NOT A MISTAKE IF YOU DON’T TRY** YOUR BEST TO REMEMBER WHAT IS SAID BY WRITING THEM DOWN, IS IT?
HOW CAN YOU SAY IT’S A MISTAKE IF LET’S SAY FOR EXAMPLE, I ASKED FOR A BOX, A CHECK, SOME CONTAINERS FOR MY CONDIMENTS AND A BAG, IF MY SERVER DOESN’T WRITE THOSE DOWN, THEN SHE ONLY REMEMBERED THE CONTAINERS. HOW CAN YOU CALL THOSE MISTAKES IF SHE DIDN’T *******AT LEAST TAKE THE FIRST STEP IN TRYING TO SHOW YOU CARE TO REMEMBER WHAT THE PERSON SAID BY WRITING THEM DOWN, huh? THEN, THE SECOND STEP IS GOING BACK TO THE PAPER AND SEE, TABLE 4 WANTED 1. A BOX, 2. THE CHECK, 3. A BAG, 4. 2 CONTAINERS FOR THE CONDIMENTS.
HOW CAN YOU TRULY SAY IT’S A MISTAKE IF YOU DIDN’T TRY**** TO REMEMBER ANY OF WHAT THE FUCK I ASKED FOR, HUH?
IT’S NOT, THAT IS WHAT BOTHERS ME. THAT PISSES ME OFF TO NO END TO SEE IF THE SERVER SUCKS AT RMEMEBERING SHORT TERM MEMORY, THEY SHOULD BE COMING AT EVERY FUCKING TABLE TO WRITE *****EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY REQUESTS THAT IS ASKED FOR CONSIDERING THEY SUCK AT IT. If YOU DON’T CARE why the fuck should i give a care about your tip?
[quote]Springs1 wrote:
You are acting like you you are the only person that needs a tip or something, that somehow your money is the ONLY thing important, but the customer isn’t. That’s the way you act.
FIRST OFF, the server is supposed to WRITE****** EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY DETAIL DOWN FOR EACH PERSON AT EACH TABLE***************** so they can remember it. THAT IS WHY I HAVE TO WRITE IN ALL CAPS, because this is COMMON SENSE*!!
YOU DON’T HAVE TO REMEMBER EVERY DETAIL IF YOU WRITE EVERY DETAIL DOWN, DO YOU?***
QUIT BEING SO LAZY AND UNCARING ABOUT EVERY CUSTOMER. DON’T YOU EXPECT A TIP OR A GOOD TIP FROM ALL CUSTOMERS, THEREFORE, THEY SHOULDN’T REMEMBER ANYTHING, THEY SHOULD BE REREADING THEIR WRITTEN ORDERS OR TASKS THAT WAS ASKED FOR.
To counteract you attitude, so every customers should have tip you well if you forget details about their stuff they asked for???
In other words, ***YOU HAVE TO CARE ABOUT US IN ORDER FOR US TO CARE ABOUT YOUR TIP, OTHERWISE, WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT YOU IF YOU WERE TOO LAZY TO WRITE THINGS DOWN TO AT LEAST GIVE THE FIRST STEP OF **EFFORT INTO YOUR JOB, HUH
SO you expect ALL customers to tip you well? If you do, we expect EVERY DETAIL TO AT LEAST OUR SERVERS TO TRY***** to get them all correct as far as the stuff they can control.
You expect a good tip, we expect good service for our money, what’s the problem with THAT, HUH?
********THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE TO “REMEMBER” IS **WHERE YOU WROTE DOWN THE TASKS THAT WAS ASKED FOR, SO THERE’S NO “REMEMBERING” THINGS FROM MEMORY ALONE.
WHY ARE YOU SO LAZY TO NOT WRITE ALL REQUESTS DOWN AND ACTUALLY EXPECT RESPECT BACK WHEN YOU DIDN’T GIVE CARING AND RESPECT FROM THE GET GO TO TRY**** YOUR BEST TO GET EVERYTHING THAT THE PERSON ASKED FOR?
I DESPISE UNCARING AND LAZY PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT EXPECT US TO CARE, BUT THEY DON’T CARE, WELL WHAT DO YOU EXPECT BACK, A GOLD MEDAL?
SERVERS ARE AT OUR MERCY IF THEY WANT GOOD MONEY IN THE TIP. YOU HAVE TO BE NICE TO US, THAT’S WHY THE TIP IS AT THE END TO SEE IF THE SERVER WAS TRYING THEIR BEST AND CARING OR NOT. IF THE TIP WAS AT THE BEGINNING, NO ONE WOULD HAVE GOOD SERVICE MOST LIKELY, BECAUSE NO INCENTIVE WOULD BE THERE AT ALL.
WHY DO YOU EXPECT CARING, BUT YET DON’T WANT TO CARE FIRST, HUH?
YOU EXPECT A TIP, A GOOD ONE AT LEAST MINIMUM 20%, RIGHT? WELL, WE EXPECT SOME GOOD SERVICE FOR THAT 20% JUST AS YOU EXPECT THAT IF YOU WORKED YOUR BUTT OFF, BUT YOU AREN’T. THAT’S WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. YOU ARE SAYING: “So one server with 10-15 tables is supposed to remember every little detail? Especially when they’re at the end of their shift?”
So if you are at the end of your shift, you are being SO DAMN SELFISH to say such an INCONSIDERATE thing. SO WHAT IT’S AT THE END OF YOUR SHIFT, so you stop caring then? WHAT A MEAN, UNCARING person you are.
Secondly, if you have 10-15 tables, COMMON SENSE COMMON SENSE should come into play here that you cannot possibly remember from memory alone all of that to **********QUIT BEING SO LAZY AND ****WRITE THE STUFF DOWN, DUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH~~ TRY YOUR BEST~~!!!
I don’t get it, you expect to remember that, I can’t remember ONE order if they wanted cheese or cajun or regular fries at a donut shop/diner if I didn’t write down ONE order, how can you expect to remember stuff if you don’t write it down, huh?
If I knew I had 10-15 tables, I’d write EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY** request down and that means if the person wanted a check and a box, I’d write that down. I couldn’t remember it just from my memory, but if I wrote for example:
Table 6 wants
mozzarella sticks
burger with cheese medium well
mayo mustard ranch
chicken sandwich with just cheese and lettuce only
fries no seasoning
Table 7 asks for their check, a bag, and a box.
Table 8 asks for a brownie, their check.
Table 9 asks for 5 refills, 1 coke, 3 diet cokes, 1 sweet tea.
Table 11 asks for a side of ranch, extra napkins, and more bread.
See, HOW HARD IS THAT TO WRITE EVERY*** DETAIL DOWN SO YOU CAN** at least TRY TO GET THEM RIGHT, huh?
See, for example, I have forgotten some things on grocery lists, but guess what, I have forgotten them MUCH MORE TIMES if I never wrote it down.
So my point is, DO YOU TRULY TRY**** to not forget every single solitary thing?
I bet your answer is the lazy one, OF COURSE NOT. Therefore, that proves how UNCARING AND LAZY YOU ARE, then have the GALL to expect a good tip?
Seriously, you aren’t supposed to remember from memory alone, that’s why you write ALL requests down so you won’t forget things nearly as often.
My grocery lists around 98% of the time I don’t forget stuff I have written down and that’s when I go after work when I have eaten dinner yet, so I am thinking about coming home I am hungry even and sometimes there for around an hour at times shopping. My point is, if you aren’t willing to write *EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY requests down, then HOW can you complain then? YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO COMPLAIN IF YOU DON’T TRY YOUR VERY BEST. WHY can’t you see how UNCARING YOU ARE IN THE FIRST PLACE?
You say we can’t expect our server to remember every detail, well you can’t expect us to give a CARE about your tip then? HOW ABOUT THAT? What goes around comes around. YOU as a server have to care first in order for us to care about you.
If you don’t care about every detail by at least TRYING*** by not only the first step writing things down, but also REREADING the written tasks or orders and comparing them to WHAT you are bringing out, then HOW IN THE WORLD CAN YOU EXPECT A TIP OR A GOOD TIP BACK, HUH?
You are uncaring, but then expect others to care about your details with your low pay. How uncaring and selfish are you?
I doubt that you say that how can we expect you to “remember” every detail that you write EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY requests down, because otherwise, WHY would you say “REMEMBER”, huh?
You only have to remember WHERE you wrote it down and of course have to decipher your own handwriting, but otherwise, of course we expect you to, we are PAYING** YOU TO UNCARING PERSON! Seriously, servers in our state make only $2.13/hr, but how can you expect us to care if they don’t care, huh? Caring is a 2-way street, so if you don’t care about every detail to not A. Write things down, B. Compare the written order or requests to any obvious errors, then HOW can you expect someone else to care about your money if you don’t care about them, huh?
I don’t get it, I really don’t WHY you expect to not write things down knowing you have 10-15 tables? Then, when things are forgotten, you spend MORE TIME with having to go back each time to get the forgotten items, and I bet your type doesn’t even say you are sorry even, am I right?
“Are you telling me you have never made a mistake or forgotten something? You’ve never let something slip your mind? Lord knows I have.”
As I said above, I have forgotten more things when I didn’t write things down and reread my lists than when I did. So that means writing things down and then reading them again DOES HELP AT LEAST 90% of the time honestly. Some times I forgotten stuff is when I didn’t write it down neatly enough or I skimmed too quickly, but hey, at least I wrote things down, because most of the time, there’s NO WAY I would have remember some of the things.
I know you think that your tip is the end all be all, but it’s not. You show you could care less, I will in the tip. WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND. Treat me like crap, so your tip will be just that, crap. You seem to think the world OWES YOU 20% no matter what you do that you can be UNCARING to not TRY YOUR BEST to try to remember “10-15” tables and expect a good tip when you didn’t even TRY your best to remember them to at least take the FIRST STEP IN FRONT OF THE CUSTOMER WHICH SHOWS YOU CARE IF YOU REMEMBER WHICH IS WRITE THE THINGS DOWN~~
I will tip much better if I see my server wrote things down, then forgot and apologize vs. no writing things down, then forgot and then didn’t say they were sorry. It’s not the mistake, but the lack of showing you CARE**** about someone else besides yourself.
There’s a huge difference in what you call a mistake and what a mistake really is. If you didn’t write things down and got things wrong that you had control over whether it was put in the order wrong and/or brought out the wrong item or forgot something obvious, then NO, that’s not a mistake, that’s YOU being TOO LAZY TO HAVE *TRIED YOUR BEST to have gotten the order correct. If I saw my server wrote my order down, that’s more points already added to the tip just that it shows “I CARE IF I REMEMBER WHAT MY CUSTOMERS ASKED FOR.” IT conveys that vs. being too lazy to write it down and then a good 90% of the time they don’t write it down, they mess up or forget something.
If they got it right, I won’t count off, because well, they have a good enough short term memory, but most servers don’t.
A real mistake is one where the server writes down EVERY DETAIL that was asked and reread their written tasks, then forgot. If you didn’t do so, it’ honestly PURE LAZINESS AND I WON’T FEEL SORRY FOR YOU WHEN TIP TIME COMES THAT YOU SHOWED YOU DIDN’T CARE BY NOT EVEN AS YOU ARE CONVEYING THAT YOU CAN’T “REMEMBER” THINGS, YET, it sounds like you won’t WRITE THEM DOWN**.
WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU?
It tells me:
A. You are being too lazy to TRY to remember what I said.
B. You are a VERY UNCARING, SELFISH person that you aren’t willing to try your best not to write things down and then reread them.
We have, even when we were more polite than they were. Most servers don’t say they are sorry. Also, some actually blame the kitchen staff when you can clearly see DUHH, it’s our server’s fault such as once our waitress that brought out our food blamed the cooks for plating 2 sets of beans when my husband ordered the food as it came off the menu. I mean, ok, it came with RICE AND BEANS, that means DUHH, that waitress didn’t verify by blaming the cooks, because she would have never did that. Think about it, you see a plate with 2 sets of beans and another with beans and rice, well DUHH, our waitress could have noticed that BEFORE she decided to leave the kitchen.
I have also had where I saw while on the tray and asked about my potato salad, which the waitress said something about the kitchen blaming others.
Another time, we had our waitress forgot a baked potato my husband ordered and she read the ticket on the tray and left. HOW RUDE. I mean, he wasn’t mean, he just was very NICE about it and instead of admitting whether she forgot to put it into the computer or bring it out, either way, it was HER FAULT 100% that she decided to leave the kitchen without the side dish.
I would have immediately apologized said I was SO SORRY and not have taken up my customer time to look at the ticket. I would have verified my written order instead which would have been more accurate more than likely in the KITCHEN.
She didn’t apologize even when she brought it back and my husband even told her “Thank you” even.
SO YES, WE HAVE HAD CRAP when things had gone wrong. You don’t eat out enough apparently.
The beans and rice issue was at On the Border just to say and it was our FIRST TIME THERE EVEN, but WE KNEW THE MENU BETTER** than she did and it was like 4p.m. on a Sunday, so it was pretty slow. That’s how uncaring and lazy she was.
It does make sense. ANY condiments, like mayo, ranch, mustard, tartar sauce, etc. can be BROUGHT OUT NO MATTER WHO BRINGS OUT THE FOOD ********** BEFORE THE FOOD IS READY. NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
For example, I had a waiter bring out our appetizer that isn’t going to see any of our tip which is honestly unfair, but anyway, our WAITRESS THAT IS SUPPOSED TO EARN HER OWN TIP COULD HAVE BROUGHT OUT THE 2 ranches BEFORE* the appetizer came out and not depended on someone that isn’t receiving any money from us that isn’t going to care.
NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
It was to show that the original person that claimed most of the issues weren’t the server’s fault were VERY WRONG is all. That’s the ONLY reason WHY I said this. The thing is, if I were a server KNOWING I messed up pretty badly, just as a waiter did for us, he asked for a comp. That waiter forgot to put in our appetizer order. I feel in that case, at least a coke off the bill for our inconvenience. We got $5 off our check and tipped 16% BEFORE the discounted amount. It was because our waiter profusely apologized and acted like he cared about us by offering us something for free to make-up for it. I did see the reason why. At one point before we found out, I saw him hugging someone he knew, so you see, he was playing, so in turn, we got our stuff messed up, so YEAH, I don’t think we owe him the full 20% when he wasn’t busting butt, but at the same time, we tipped that due to NO ONE will asks for a comp for the customer to get in trouble with their manager and they only care about themselves instead of being nice and acting like it was THEIR dining experience that was ruined.
Yes, because the were supposed to ******WRITE ALL DETAILS DOWN AND THEN ***********NO BE SO LAZY TO COMPARE THE WRITTEN ORDERS TO THE PLATES OF FOOD FOR DETAILS THAT ARE DUHHHS LIKE DUHHH, sauce is on ribs. Come on now, a customer can see that on the freakin tray even. COME ON NOW, that’s a DUHHH MISTAKE.
WE ARE (((((((((((PAYING**))))))))))))))))) OUR SERVERS TO GIVE A CARE MORE THAN JUST LIKE MCDONALD’S TO HAND US SOMETHING AND NOT GIVE A CARE IF IT APPEARS RIGHT OR WRONG.
YOU AREN’T PAYING US, SO WE AREN’T SUPPOSED TO VERIFY OUR ORDER, (OUR SERVER) IS. That’s what most of the tip is for why we don’t tip fast food workers(unless it’s sonic) and why we tip our servers at non-fast food restaurants.
WHY ARE YOU SO UNCARING AND LAZY, then YET, EXPECT GOOD PAYMENT, HUH?
YOU ARE UNCARING FIRST, WHY IS THAT? WHY ARE YOU SO LAZY ASS?
Because a good 90% of the time it’s not a mistake. It’s laziness.
Please answer these with honestly please:
Do you WRITE ALL things down?
Do you COMPARE THE WRITTEN ORDERS OR ALL REQUEST TO THE FOOD OR WHAT YOU ARE BRINGING OUT for any obvious errors such as bbq sauce not on ribs or a wrong side dish or a missing side of ranch or a missing side dish, etc., huh?
If you don’t, it’s not a mistake, is it, it’s pure laziness and being VERY UNCARING about WHAT YOU ARE DELIVERING TO YOUR TABLE as far as anything you don’t have to touch the food to notice the mistakes or mistake.
The fact that most servers are like you DON’T WRITE THE THINGS FUCKING THINGS DOWN AND THEN EXPECT TO REMEMBER THEM, THEN DON’T THEN MOST SERVERS NO MATTER HOW NICE YOU ARE, MOST DON’T SAY THEY ARE SORRY EVEN.
The problem is mostly the ******LACK OF EFFORT FROM THE GET GO.
HOW CAN YOU HONESTLY EXPECT TO REMEMBER THINGS IF YOU DON’T WRITE THEM DOWN AND THEN REREAD THEM, HUH?
IT’S NOT A MISTAKE IF YOU DON’T TRY** YOUR BEST TO REMEMBER WHAT IS SAID BY WRITING THEM DOWN, IS IT?
HOW CAN YOU SAY IT’S A MISTAKE IF LET’S SAY FOR EXAMPLE, I ASKED FOR A BOX, A CHECK, SOME CONTAINERS FOR MY CONDIMENTS AND A BAG, IF MY SERVER DOESN’T WRITE THOSE DOWN, THEN SHE ONLY REMEMBERED THE CONTAINERS. HOW CAN YOU CALL THOSE MISTAKES IF SHE DIDN’T *******AT LEAST TAKE THE FIRST STEP IN TRYING TO SHOW YOU CARE TO REMEMBER WHAT THE PERSON SAID BY WRITING THEM DOWN, huh? THEN, THE SECOND STEP IS GOING BACK TO THE PAPER AND SEE, TABLE 4 WANTED 1. A BOX, 2. THE CHECK, 3. A BAG, 4. 2 CONTAINERS FOR THE CONDIMENTS.
HOW CAN YOU TRULY SAY IT’S A MISTAKE IF YOU DIDN’T TRY**** TO REMEMBER ANY OF WHAT THE FUCK I ASKED FOR, HUH?
IT’S NOT, THAT IS WHAT BOTHERS ME. THAT PISSES ME OFF TO NO END TO SEE IF THE SERVER SUCKS AT RMEMEBERING SHORT TERM MEMORY, THEY SHOULD BE COMING AT EVERY FUCKING TABLE TO WRITE *****EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY REQUESTS THAT IS ASKED FOR CONSIDERING THEY SUCK AT IT. If YOU DON’T CARE why the fuck should i give a care about your tip?[/quote]
Yep. Cuntbag.
[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:
[quote]Springs1 wrote:
You are acting like you you are the only person that needs a tip or something, that somehow your money is the ONLY thing important, but the customer isn’t. That’s the way you act.
FIRST OFF, the server is supposed to WRITE****** EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY DETAIL DOWN FOR EACH PERSON AT EACH TABLE***************** so they can remember it. THAT IS WHY I HAVE TO WRITE IN ALL CAPS, because this is COMMON SENSE*!!
YOU DON’T HAVE TO REMEMBER EVERY DETAIL IF YOU WRITE EVERY DETAIL DOWN, DO YOU?***
QUIT BEING SO LAZY AND UNCARING ABOUT EVERY CUSTOMER. DON’T YOU EXPECT A TIP OR A GOOD TIP FROM ALL CUSTOMERS, THEREFORE, THEY SHOULDN’T REMEMBER ANYTHING, THEY SHOULD BE REREADING THEIR WRITTEN ORDERS OR TASKS THAT WAS ASKED FOR.
To counteract you attitude, so every customers should have tip you well if you forget details about their stuff they asked for???
In other words, ***YOU HAVE TO CARE ABOUT US IN ORDER FOR US TO CARE ABOUT YOUR TIP, OTHERWISE, WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT YOU IF YOU WERE TOO LAZY TO WRITE THINGS DOWN TO AT LEAST GIVE THE FIRST STEP OF **EFFORT INTO YOUR JOB, HUH
SO you expect ALL customers to tip you well? If you do, we expect EVERY DETAIL TO AT LEAST OUR SERVERS TO TRY***** to get them all correct as far as the stuff they can control.
You expect a good tip, we expect good service for our money, what’s the problem with THAT, HUH?
********THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE TO “REMEMBER” IS **WHERE YOU WROTE DOWN THE TASKS THAT WAS ASKED FOR, SO THERE’S NO “REMEMBERING” THINGS FROM MEMORY ALONE.
WHY ARE YOU SO LAZY TO NOT WRITE ALL REQUESTS DOWN AND ACTUALLY EXPECT RESPECT BACK WHEN YOU DIDN’T GIVE CARING AND RESPECT FROM THE GET GO TO TRY**** YOUR BEST TO GET EVERYTHING THAT THE PERSON ASKED FOR?
I DESPISE UNCARING AND LAZY PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT EXPECT US TO CARE, BUT THEY DON’T CARE, WELL WHAT DO YOU EXPECT BACK, A GOLD MEDAL?
SERVERS ARE AT OUR MERCY IF THEY WANT GOOD MONEY IN THE TIP. YOU HAVE TO BE NICE TO US, THAT’S WHY THE TIP IS AT THE END TO SEE IF THE SERVER WAS TRYING THEIR BEST AND CARING OR NOT. IF THE TIP WAS AT THE BEGINNING, NO ONE WOULD HAVE GOOD SERVICE MOST LIKELY, BECAUSE NO INCENTIVE WOULD BE THERE AT ALL.
WHY DO YOU EXPECT CARING, BUT YET DON’T WANT TO CARE FIRST, HUH?
YOU EXPECT A TIP, A GOOD ONE AT LEAST MINIMUM 20%, RIGHT? WELL, WE EXPECT SOME GOOD SERVICE FOR THAT 20% JUST AS YOU EXPECT THAT IF YOU WORKED YOUR BUTT OFF, BUT YOU AREN’T. THAT’S WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. YOU ARE SAYING: “So one server with 10-15 tables is supposed to remember every little detail? Especially when they’re at the end of their shift?”
So if you are at the end of your shift, you are being SO DAMN SELFISH to say such an INCONSIDERATE thing. SO WHAT IT’S AT THE END OF YOUR SHIFT, so you stop caring then? WHAT A MEAN, UNCARING person you are.
Secondly, if you have 10-15 tables, COMMON SENSE COMMON SENSE should come into play here that you cannot possibly remember from memory alone all of that to **********QUIT BEING SO LAZY AND ****WRITE THE STUFF DOWN, DUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH~~ TRY YOUR BEST~~!!!
I don’t get it, you expect to remember that, I can’t remember ONE order if they wanted cheese or cajun or regular fries at a donut shop/diner if I didn’t write down ONE order, how can you expect to remember stuff if you don’t write it down, huh?
If I knew I had 10-15 tables, I’d write EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY** request down and that means if the person wanted a check and a box, I’d write that down. I couldn’t remember it just from my memory, but if I wrote for example:
Table 6 wants
mozzarella sticks
burger with cheese medium well
mayo mustard ranch
chicken sandwich with just cheese and lettuce only
fries no seasoning
Table 7 asks for their check, a bag, and a box.
Table 8 asks for a brownie, their check.
Table 9 asks for 5 refills, 1 coke, 3 diet cokes, 1 sweet tea.
Table 11 asks for a side of ranch, extra napkins, and more bread.
See, HOW HARD IS THAT TO WRITE EVERY*** DETAIL DOWN SO YOU CAN** at least TRY TO GET THEM RIGHT, huh?
See, for example, I have forgotten some things on grocery lists, but guess what, I have forgotten them MUCH MORE TIMES if I never wrote it down.
So my point is, DO YOU TRULY TRY**** to not forget every single solitary thing?
I bet your answer is the lazy one, OF COURSE NOT. Therefore, that proves how UNCARING AND LAZY YOU ARE, then have the GALL to expect a good tip?
Seriously, you aren’t supposed to remember from memory alone, that’s why you write ALL requests down so you won’t forget things nearly as often.
My grocery lists around 98% of the time I don’t forget stuff I have written down and that’s when I go after work when I have eaten dinner yet, so I am thinking about coming home I am hungry even and sometimes there for around an hour at times shopping. My point is, if you aren’t willing to write *EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY requests down, then HOW can you complain then? YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO COMPLAIN IF YOU DON’T TRY YOUR VERY BEST. WHY can’t you see how UNCARING YOU ARE IN THE FIRST PLACE?
You say we can’t expect our server to remember every detail, well you can’t expect us to give a CARE about your tip then? HOW ABOUT THAT? What goes around comes around. YOU as a server have to care first in order for us to care about you.
If you don’t care about every detail by at least TRYING*** by not only the first step writing things down, but also REREADING the written tasks or orders and comparing them to WHAT you are bringing out, then HOW IN THE WORLD CAN YOU EXPECT A TIP OR A GOOD TIP BACK, HUH?
You are uncaring, but then expect others to care about your details with your low pay. How uncaring and selfish are you?
I doubt that you say that how can we expect you to “remember” every detail that you write EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY requests down, because otherwise, WHY would you say “REMEMBER”, huh?
You only have to remember WHERE you wrote it down and of course have to decipher your own handwriting, but otherwise, of course we expect you to, we are PAYING** YOU TO UNCARING PERSON! Seriously, servers in our state make only $2.13/hr, but how can you expect us to care if they don’t care, huh? Caring is a 2-way street, so if you don’t care about every detail to not A. Write things down, B. Compare the written order or requests to any obvious errors, then HOW can you expect someone else to care about your money if you don’t care about them, huh?
I don’t get it, I really don’t WHY you expect to not write things down knowing you have 10-15 tables? Then, when things are forgotten, you spend MORE TIME with having to go back each time to get the forgotten items, and I bet your type doesn’t even say you are sorry even, am I right?
“Are you telling me you have never made a mistake or forgotten something? You’ve never let something slip your mind? Lord knows I have.”
As I said above, I have forgotten more things when I didn’t write things down and reread my lists than when I did. So that means writing things down and then reading them again DOES HELP AT LEAST 90% of the time honestly. Some times I forgotten stuff is when I didn’t write it down neatly enough or I skimmed too quickly, but hey, at least I wrote things down, because most of the time, there’s NO WAY I would have remember some of the things.
I know you think that your tip is the end all be all, but it’s not. You show you could care less, I will in the tip. WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND. Treat me like crap, so your tip will be just that, crap. You seem to think the world OWES YOU 20% no matter what you do that you can be UNCARING to not TRY YOUR BEST to try to remember “10-15” tables and expect a good tip when you didn’t even TRY your best to remember them to at least take the FIRST STEP IN FRONT OF THE CUSTOMER WHICH SHOWS YOU CARE IF YOU REMEMBER WHICH IS WRITE THE THINGS DOWN~~
I will tip much better if I see my server wrote things down, then forgot and apologize vs. no writing things down, then forgot and then didn’t say they were sorry. It’s not the mistake, but the lack of showing you CARE**** about someone else besides yourself.
There’s a huge difference in what you call a mistake and what a mistake really is. If you didn’t write things down and got things wrong that you had control over whether it was put in the order wrong and/or brought out the wrong item or forgot something obvious, then NO, that’s not a mistake, that’s YOU being TOO LAZY TO HAVE *TRIED YOUR BEST to have gotten the order correct. If I saw my server wrote my order down, that’s more points already added to the tip just that it shows “I CARE IF I REMEMBER WHAT MY CUSTOMERS ASKED FOR.” IT conveys that vs. being too lazy to write it down and then a good 90% of the time they don’t write it down, they mess up or forget something.
If they got it right, I won’t count off, because well, they have a good enough short term memory, but most servers don’t.
A real mistake is one where the server writes down EVERY DETAIL that was asked and reread their written tasks, then forgot. If you didn’t do so, it’ honestly PURE LAZINESS AND I WON’T FEEL SORRY FOR YOU WHEN TIP TIME COMES THAT YOU SHOWED YOU DIDN’T CARE BY NOT EVEN AS YOU ARE CONVEYING THAT YOU CAN’T “REMEMBER” THINGS, YET, it sounds like you won’t WRITE THEM DOWN**.
WHAT DOES THAT TELL YOU?
It tells me:
A. You are being too lazy to TRY to remember what I said.
B. You are a VERY UNCARING, SELFISH person that you aren’t willing to try your best not to write things down and then reread them.
We have, even when we were more polite than they were. Most servers don’t say they are sorry. Also, some actually blame the kitchen staff when you can clearly see DUHH, it’s our server’s fault such as once our waitress that brought out our food blamed the cooks for plating 2 sets of beans when my husband ordered the food as it came off the menu. I mean, ok, it came with RICE AND BEANS, that means DUHH, that waitress didn’t verify by blaming the cooks, because she would have never did that. Think about it, you see a plate with 2 sets of beans and another with beans and rice, well DUHH, our waitress could have noticed that BEFORE she decided to leave the kitchen.
I have also had where I saw while on the tray and asked about my potato salad, which the waitress said something about the kitchen blaming others.
Another time, we had our waitress forgot a baked potato my husband ordered and she read the ticket on the tray and left. HOW RUDE. I mean, he wasn’t mean, he just was very NICE about it and instead of admitting whether she forgot to put it into the computer or bring it out, either way, it was HER FAULT 100% that she decided to leave the kitchen without the side dish.
I would have immediately apologized said I was SO SORRY and not have taken up my customer time to look at the ticket. I would have verified my written order instead which would have been more accurate more than likely in the KITCHEN.
She didn’t apologize even when she brought it back and my husband even told her “Thank you” even.
SO YES, WE HAVE HAD CRAP when things had gone wrong. You don’t eat out enough apparently.
The beans and rice issue was at On the Border just to say and it was our FIRST TIME THERE EVEN, but WE KNEW THE MENU BETTER** than she did and it was like 4p.m. on a Sunday, so it was pretty slow. That’s how uncaring and lazy she was.
It does make sense. ANY condiments, like mayo, ranch, mustard, tartar sauce, etc. can be BROUGHT OUT NO MATTER WHO BRINGS OUT THE FOOD ********** BEFORE THE FOOD IS READY. NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
For example, I had a waiter bring out our appetizer that isn’t going to see any of our tip which is honestly unfair, but anyway, our WAITRESS THAT IS SUPPOSED TO EARN HER OWN TIP COULD HAVE BROUGHT OUT THE 2 ranches BEFORE* the appetizer came out and not depended on someone that isn’t receiving any money from us that isn’t going to care.
NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
It was to show that the original person that claimed most of the issues weren’t the server’s fault were VERY WRONG is all. That’s the ONLY reason WHY I said this. The thing is, if I were a server KNOWING I messed up pretty badly, just as a waiter did for us, he asked for a comp. That waiter forgot to put in our appetizer order. I feel in that case, at least a coke off the bill for our inconvenience. We got $5 off our check and tipped 16% BEFORE the discounted amount. It was because our waiter profusely apologized and acted like he cared about us by offering us something for free to make-up for it. I did see the reason why. At one point before we found out, I saw him hugging someone he knew, so you see, he was playing, so in turn, we got our stuff messed up, so YEAH, I don’t think we owe him the full 20% when he wasn’t busting butt, but at the same time, we tipped that due to NO ONE will asks for a comp for the customer to get in trouble with their manager and they only care about themselves instead of being nice and acting like it was THEIR dining experience that was ruined.
Yes, because the were supposed to ******WRITE ALL DETAILS DOWN AND THEN ***********NO BE SO LAZY TO COMPARE THE WRITTEN ORDERS TO THE PLATES OF FOOD FOR DETAILS THAT ARE DUHHHS LIKE DUHHH, sauce is on ribs. Come on now, a customer can see that on the freakin tray even. COME ON NOW, that’s a DUHHH MISTAKE.
WE ARE (((((((((((PAYING**))))))))))))))))) OUR SERVERS TO GIVE A CARE MORE THAN JUST LIKE MCDONALD’S TO HAND US SOMETHING AND NOT GIVE A CARE IF IT APPEARS RIGHT OR WRONG.
YOU AREN’T PAYING US, SO WE AREN’T SUPPOSED TO VERIFY OUR ORDER, (OUR SERVER) IS. That’s what most of the tip is for why we don’t tip fast food workers(unless it’s sonic) and why we tip our servers at non-fast food restaurants.
WHY ARE YOU SO UNCARING AND LAZY, then YET, EXPECT GOOD PAYMENT, HUH?
YOU ARE UNCARING FIRST, WHY IS THAT? WHY ARE YOU SO LAZY ASS?
Because a good 90% of the time it’s not a mistake. It’s laziness.
Please answer these with honestly please:
Do you WRITE ALL things down?
Do you COMPARE THE WRITTEN ORDERS OR ALL REQUEST TO THE FOOD OR WHAT YOU ARE BRINGING OUT for any obvious errors such as bbq sauce not on ribs or a wrong side dish or a missing side of ranch or a missing side dish, etc., huh?
If you don’t, it’s not a mistake, is it, it’s pure laziness and being VERY UNCARING about WHAT YOU ARE DELIVERING TO YOUR TABLE as far as anything you don’t have to touch the food to notice the mistakes or mistake.
The fact that most servers are like you DON’T WRITE THE THINGS FUCKING THINGS DOWN AND THEN EXPECT TO REMEMBER THEM, THEN DON’T THEN MOST SERVERS NO MATTER HOW NICE YOU ARE, MOST DON’T SAY THEY ARE SORRY EVEN.
The problem is mostly the ******LACK OF EFFORT FROM THE GET GO.
HOW CAN YOU HONESTLY EXPECT TO REMEMBER THINGS IF YOU DON’T WRITE THEM DOWN AND THEN REREAD THEM, HUH?
IT’S NOT A MISTAKE IF YOU DON’T TRY** YOUR BEST TO REMEMBER WHAT IS SAID BY WRITING THEM DOWN, IS IT?
HOW CAN YOU SAY IT’S A MISTAKE IF LET’S SAY FOR EXAMPLE, I ASKED FOR A BOX, A CHECK, SOME CONTAINERS FOR MY CONDIMENTS AND A BAG, IF MY SERVER DOESN’T WRITE THOSE DOWN, THEN SHE ONLY REMEMBERED THE CONTAINERS. HOW CAN YOU CALL THOSE MISTAKES IF SHE DIDN’T *******AT LEAST TAKE THE FIRST STEP IN TRYING TO SHOW YOU CARE TO REMEMBER WHAT THE PERSON SAID BY WRITING THEM DOWN, huh? THEN, THE SECOND STEP IS GOING BACK TO THE PAPER AND SEE, TABLE 4 WANTED 1. A BOX, 2. THE CHECK, 3. A BAG, 4. 2 CONTAINERS FOR THE CONDIMENTS.
HOW CAN YOU TRULY SAY IT’S A MISTAKE IF YOU DIDN’T TRY**** TO REMEMBER ANY OF WHAT THE FUCK I ASKED FOR, HUH?
IT’S NOT, THAT IS WHAT BOTHERS ME. THAT PISSES ME OFF TO NO END TO SEE IF THE SERVER SUCKS AT RMEMEBERING SHORT TERM MEMORY, THEY SHOULD BE COMING AT EVERY FUCKING TABLE TO WRITE *****EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY REQUESTS THAT IS ASKED FOR CONSIDERING THEY SUCK AT IT. If YOU DON’T CARE why the fuck should i give a care about your tip?[/quote]
Yep. Cuntbag.[/quote]
And clearly ESL or just horrible with idiom.
Seriously,
STOP SHOUTING!
When it happens to you at NEARLY ALMOST ALL RESTAURANTS NO MATTER WHAT STATE, DOWN, FINE DINING, ANY RESTAURANT, THEN YOU’D UNDERSTAND if you only enjoyed your food with these condiments. You don’t, so clearly you can’t relate, can you?
NO, I am much nicer than most servers to even tell them “Thank you” when they mess up even times when they remembered all on their own at the table when I NEVER said ANYTHING MEAN to them at all even. YET, NO SORRY TO SPEAK OF, so they are the assholes, not us.
Also, if I tip poorly, it’s because they were the uncaring bitch or bastard first. I mean, why should we pour money on them and let them ride all over us? HOW IS THAT FAIR that the server can always be happy, but the customer can’t? What kind of service is that?
HOW, when I proved you wrong and you have NO PROOF I am wrong? You are a moron that doesn’t realize most of the problems WHY you get the problem is mostly due to your server or another server, NOT anyone else.
You are just MADDD I proved you the hell wrong with REAL EXAMPLES, which YOU DON’T HAVE TO GIVE ME BACK, DO YOU MORON?
If that were so true, WHY do we have servers that come to talk to us even if they aren’t serving us even or when we can get them(sometimes it could be that they have another server we like that we can be seated immediately vs. another server we like that we’d have to wait a long time), they chit chat with us, huh, mostly ME? It’s because they like us, that’s why. WE TIP WELL, because we get treated well just about if not every single solitary time they serve us. So NO, most servers like us, not hate us.
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[quote]Christine wrote:
Seriously,
STOP SHOUTING![/quote]
HOW am I supposed to educate the stupids with these COMMON SENSE ISSUES, huh? NO ONE HAS TO SERVE TO KNOW DUH, if you server doesn’t write things down, chances are they might mess your order up or forget something, DUHHH.
[quote]Springs1 wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
Seriously,
STOP SHOUTING![/quote]
HOW am I supposed to educate the stupids with these COMMON SENSE ISSUES, huh? NO ONE HAS TO SERVE TO KNOW DUH, if you server doesn’t write things down, chances are they might mess your order up or forget something, DUHHH.
[/quote]
Because shouting always helps?
[quote]Springs1 wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
Seriously,
STOP SHOUTING![/quote]
HOW am I supposed to educate the stupids with these COMMON SENSE ISSUES, huh? NO ONE HAS TO SERVE TO KNOW DUH, if you server doesn’t write things down, chances are they might mess your order up or forget something, DUHHH.
[/quote]
Your lack of common decency is the issue here, slut bag.
So we have to ONLY cater to our server’s tip and NEVER EVER, consider our own feelings and dining experience that we should feel our servers should ONLY CARE about themselves?
That’s your attitude. YOU are an uncaring asshole. I mean, WHY should I care about my server’s money as much if they didn’t care about me?
WHY are you so selfish? At least I don’t expect good service if I would be not willing to pay for it. I don’t why you think that the server’s money is the end all, be all, but yet, our dining experience should mean nothing, but expect that 20% or more, right? What a SELFISH, SELF-SERVING ASSHOLE YOU ARE!
[quote]Springs1 wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
Seriously,
STOP SHOUTING![/quote]
HOW am I supposed to educate the stupids with these COMMON SENSE ISSUES, huh? NO ONE HAS TO SERVE TO KNOW DUH, if you server doesn’t write things down, chances are they might mess your order up or forget something, DUHHH.
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You clearly don’t appreciate my wit…thats ok I often feel I am the only one to enjoy the sound of my own voice much the same as you do in all likelihood. You have proven me wrong on nothing because to be frank we are merely discussing matters of opinion and perception.
But let me ask again. What do you do for a living?
Is English your first language?
If not are you white?
Does your husband cheat on you?
Are you bigger than a size 16?
Why do you feel you can only enjoy food saturated with ranch.
Why do you think god’s gift to man Bacon must be burnt beyond recognition? This is kind of a follow up to my question 3.
Why do you think I am angry? Do I need to slap a bitch?
Why does HoustonGuy have a shitty cellphone?
Why do I find Christine’s fascination with the animaniacs so fetching?
Why does my true love alcohol always welcome me back with open arms?
Why did you start an account to respond to a thread about tipping?
Why do you think you come off as nice to the servers when your demeanor online is of a frightful bitch?
Do you think you should tip strippers if they give you a handy, or is it more part of the full service?