[quote]countingbeans wrote:
[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
Thanks Myosin thats a very well put statement. Its nice to see someone see it that way. Weather people want to agree or disagree on how race was used in Travons case will be forever debated. Im kinda done dealing with it now. And have come to the conclusion that there is such a gigantic divide on race perceptions and gun control that you will be on one side of the fence or the other no matter what.
That is how it is but for black people and fathers of black & brown kids it?s a much more complex and fucked up situation then what most white people can grasp. Which is how can I protect my son from a world where non-trained, un-identified, gun packing citizens have the ability to do their own police work based on their non trained non professional assessments Thats where race is a MEGA issue…
So as a father of a brown or black kid how do we train them to deal with that world? I now have to introduce my son to the neighborhood watch guy not only in my neighborhood but the neighborhoods of friends he could possibly go? WTF!! I have to make sure his clothing is up to the standards of middle age white people? WTF! How do I teach him whats suspicious walking? If hes too slow its suspicious if hes running will someone will chase him. If someone chases him does he freeze, or does he try to defend himself? Is something going to happen if hes at a new friends house and people dont recognize him.
White people with white sons for the most part wont have that fear. Im not a Navy seal with a law degree so how fuck am I supposed to make sure my son lives to see me die? Its hard enough having to worry about the police shooting an unarmed black or brown kid. Now we have to worry about everyone else. My father never had to teach me how to deal with police so I dont get shot, as a white man thats a non issue. For that matter he sure as shit didnt bring up armed citizens.
For black fathers teaching their kids about police is pretty normal. The perception of being safe because of police is not shared by all. Things like street sweeps, and corruption do exist but largely not in suburban or rural communities which are predominantly white. Add in the now fear of average possibly uniformed want to be cops and the fear level has just gone red alert for all parents of black & brown kids. Worst of all we have no way to protect them.
In regards to race on this matter?When everyones packing that?s why race tolerance, understanding, and reason are so god damn important.
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This is such a melodramatic appeal to emotion any truth contained within is rendered moot by the horseshit.
This isn’t the first time a democrat has shot a black person.
This isn’t the first time a Hispanic man has shot a black person.
This isn’t the first time an ambitious prosecutor fucked up and went after fame rather than justice.
This isn’t the first time bad judgment has lead to tragedy.
This case does not, did not, nor ever will mean “open season” on liberals “hunting” black people.
This utterly false notion that white people just “have it so easy” is nonsense to the highest degree. All I have to do is cross the river by my house and there are entire neighborhoods I can’t walk in because I’m white, unless I want to invite trouble.
Statistically your kids, my kids and everyone’s kids are more likely to die in a drunk driving accident, eating themselves to death, smoking, drug over dose or any other event than shot by a neighborhood watchman.
I’m white and was raised to hate/not trust police. (I’ve sense grown up to judge individuals not entire groups by any one individual, but hey that is just me.)
My son is biracial and not a single thing you’ve mentioned here are the lessons he has learned from this event…
Good lord. [/quote]
Good lord indeed…You can see it however you want its your right. But dismissing my view as the father of a brown skinned son in a stand your ground state as melodramatic appeal to emotion is exactly what Myosin was talking about. When we disregard & denigrate each others views and perspectives we alienate each other and further the race divide. If you dont feel that way about your brown skinned son ok maybe the environment you live in is different than mine… But consider asking your black relatives and friends from large metro areas how they feel about their sons safety. Im not putting down your views just trying to show you the other side of the coin.
I never said all whites have it easier then all blacks in every aspect of life. As country we have certainly made progress and in most case the playing field has been leveled. But in regards to how we as different races interact with the police is very different. If you want to deny that white people dont have it easier with the police fine you can stay in your cave. How many times have you been caught up in random street sweeps, got stopped and frisked, or just pulled over and harassed. Probably not much but I would bet your black relatives or friends from larger metro areas have a different story to tell. As a white person growing up in Washington DC I can promise you these things happen, and as a white person I walked by it every time. Once in a street sweep they even let me go my black friends were doing the same shit I was. Smoking weed, drinkinking, skipping school. I caught the metro home while they all had to go to jail and get picked up by their parents.
Sure statistically its more likely any teen would die from a car wreck. But ponder this in a large metro area with 1) Black on black crime 2) Police harassment in the community 3) Armed citizens on patrol All 3 potential life threaten to black or brown teens… Most white male teens just dont have that issue to contend with. If you want to throw satisitcs around its probably way more likely a innocent black/brown teen dies from police miss conduct or a stray bullet. Now add to the mix armed citizens on patrol and mortality rates change some more.
As far as lessons go I never said I learned or was teaching anything from it. I said just the opposite that now we dont know really what to teach him. Maybe I should send him to negro survival camp for his 15th bday. What I did say is in a new world where untrained armed citizens make their own police decisions we now have a new fear that we now have to contend with. You can play it off all you want but your lovely brown boy you love so much wont be viewed the same by all. Especially when you are not neer by& hes 13-18.
On another note someone said if I dont like the law in my state move… Thats the very definition of insensitive and shows lack of tolerance. So I dont even need to bother to explain how backwoods, hillbilly retard that is. Maybe I should move to a magic place in the USA where theres no racism, discrimination by our protectors, or crime. I guess that would be Disneyland.