Things You Hate About Yourself

  1. I have this nasty habit of saying how things are and not thinking about how fragile most people’s egos are. This one’s especially gotten me in trouble with women whether as lover, family, or boss at work.

  2. I procrastinate but at least I’ve gotten better with this one as time goes on.

  3. I’m cynical and sometimes even a little misanthropic.

  4. I get really edgy and sensitive when there’s a ton going on.

  5. I don’t deal with emotional trauma very well. I don’t really deal with it until I see how it effects me months to years down the road because I just keep on kicking the can down the road.

  6. I have a slightly to moderately addictive personality.

  7. Sometimes a pro sometimes a con, but I think over decisions very carefully. Sometimes it means I miss the boat and sometimes it keeps away from big trouble.

[quote]QuadasarusFlex wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:

[quote]QuadasarusFlex wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:

[quote]QuadasarusFlex wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:

[quote]QuadasarusFlex wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:
You should hate that you keep making excuses.

[/quote]
Was that directed at me?[/quote]

Yes.

[/quote]
I already admitted that I failed and that im pursuing other interviews. I dont really need someone that I dont even know on the internet to be a total cunt to me.[/quote]

Okay.

I’m sure the next job will be better and it’s not your fault. You deserve better.[/quote]
Whats with the condescending attitude? Atleast im being honest and I didnt give a bullshit answer like you did. “Yeah, I HATE myself for being a jerk online by pointing out peoples flaw”
[/quote]

Yawn.[/quote]
Whatever.
[/quote]

QF, I probably shouldn’t but in here but I think it’s important for you to try to understand that you are fucking up. It is very clear to me you are, and probably that’s why Christine and Cargo are getting on you.

Employers know how long it should take someone to catch on. You weren’t getting it fast enough - that’s on you.

You should have never quit the first internship. Internships are for experience, you shouldn’t have an expectation of getting hired. Your expectation should be to learn a lot of useful shit and try to be helpful and grateful in the process.

Maybe the bipolar boss has some mental disorder but he must be functional so you should have been able to walk him though your work explaining what you and did not do. Saying “the hell with you” is not the way an adult, especially a professional adult handles things.

These are the impressions I got from your post. Most likely you stated the facts more favorably to you, it’s human nature.

My love of junk food…I could eat ice cream with candy every night or chips and what not

Hate is a strong word. There’s a few things I could chime in about, but . . . I’d be looking for a cathartic moment and this isn’t the place to find it for me right now. Suffice it to say that some of the things already mentioned are rather familiar.

Is this the anti-T-Nation thread?

[quote]Oldman Powers wrote:
Is this the anti-T-Nation thread?[/quote]

Are there only two things you hate in this world? People who are intolerant of other people’s cultures and the Dutch?

[quote]TheJonty wrote:

[quote]Oldman Powers wrote:
Is this the anti-T-Nation thread?[/quote]

Are there only two things you hate in this world? People who are intolerant of other people’s cultures and the Dutch?[/quote]

Crap, now that you mention it. I hate that I’m tolerant of everything but my neighbors cooking curry with the windows open. Screw the dutch, their food sucks.
The main thing I hate is I’m old and cranky.
Thanks for making my T drop again.

[quote]Oldman Powers wrote:

[quote]TheJonty wrote:

[quote]Oldman Powers wrote:
Is this the anti-T-Nation thread?[/quote]

Are there only two things you hate in this world? People who are intolerant of other people’s cultures and the Dutch?[/quote]

Crap, now that you mention it. I hate that I’m tolerant of everything but my neighbors cooking curry with the windows open. Screw the dutch, their food sucks.
The main thing I hate is I’m old and cranky.
Thanks for making my T drop again.[/quote]

Glad I could help.

Being cocky, basically fearless and 5’4".

Women somehow find the combination attractive, but it has also caused me more black eyes and fat lips than I care to count.

Hope everyone here is staying healthy and prosperous.

I hate how much better than everyone else I am.

complains too much.
is a pussy at times.

Procrastination… getting better though lol

I have a moustache that grows 10x quicker and thicker than the rest of my facial hair.

1)Procrastination.

2)Easily distracted, see #1

3)No filter

4)Can be very sarcastic and/or condescending

5)Don’t promote myself enough

6)Hard time saying no

[quote]Fletch1986 wrote:

  1. I have this nasty habit of saying how things are and not thinking about how fragile most people’s egos are. This one’s especially gotten me in trouble with women whether as lover, family, or boss at work.

  2. I procrastinate but at least I’ve gotten better with this one as time goes on.

  3. I’m cynical and sometimes even a little misanthropic.

  4. I get really edgy and sensitive when there’s a ton going on.

  5. I don’t deal with emotional trauma very well. I don’t really deal with it until I see how it effects me months to years down the road because I just keep on kicking the can down the road.

  6. I have a slightly to moderately addictive personality.

  7. Sometimes a pro sometimes a con, but I think over decisions very carefully. Sometimes it means I miss the boat and sometimes it keeps away from big trouble.

[/quote]

I think we were separated at birth. We are uncannily similar.

I got nuthin, I kinda like me including my numerous personality flaws.

sorry Dwarfie - but I gots nuthin to add here -

[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]QuadasarusFlex wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:

[quote]QuadasarusFlex wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:

[quote]QuadasarusFlex wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:

[quote]QuadasarusFlex wrote:

[quote]Christine wrote:
You should hate that you keep making excuses.

[/quote]
Was that directed at me?[/quote]

Yes.

[/quote]
I already admitted that I failed and that im pursuing other interviews. I dont really need someone that I dont even know on the internet to be a total cunt to me.[/quote]

Okay.

I’m sure the next job will be better and it’s not your fault. You deserve better.[/quote]
Whats with the condescending attitude? Atleast im being honest and I didnt give a bullshit answer like you did. “Yeah, I HATE myself for being a jerk online by pointing out peoples flaw”
[/quote]

Yawn.[/quote]
Whatever.
[/quote]

QF, I probably shouldn’t but in here but I think it’s important for you to try to understand that you are fucking up. It is very clear to me you are, and probably that’s why Christine and Cargo are getting on you.

Employers know how long it should take someone to catch on. You weren’t getting it fast enough - that’s on you.

You should have never quit the first internship. Internships are for experience, you shouldn’t have an expectation of getting hired. Your expectation should be to learn a lot of useful shit and try to be helpful and grateful in the process.

Maybe the bipolar boss has some mental disorder but he must be functional so you should have been able to walk him though your work explaining what you and did not do. Saying “the hell with you” is not the way an adult, especially a professional adult handles things.

These are the impressions I got from your post. Most likely you stated the facts more favorably to you, it’s human nature. [/quote]
yeah, there are a million web designers. When you are hired to use your talents, you make them fit company expectations. It’s not your call if the work is shit or quality, it needs to be what the guy buying it wants or on to the next designer. Carry that logic, you are the employee and a low level one at that. Know your place and suck it up.

[quote]pgtips wrote:
I’m dead calm in situations others might panic in, but can get panicy in normal social situations.

My imagnation works too much.

I can daydream at will (which is something I love and hate both at the same time)[/quote]

I’m the exact same!

I also hate that I more readily criticise those who really mean a lot to me, and am lenient to those who I don’t care about. That really annoys me.

I tend to complain about all sorts of things…I try to keep it funny, like the way a comedian would, but I think more than half the time I sound like a crazy old fuck that hates too much.

Akin to that is I also judge people too quickly…like if I see someone with those horn-rimmed glasses I assume they’re a upper-middle class Hipster rich kid that went to college too hard.

I brush regularly and use mouthwash but I’m pretty damn sure I’m one of those people that has bad breath all the time. I asked my girlfriend and she said “No, not really” so that means yeah. I’m careful not to talk into people’s faces because of it.

I really can’t stand North American women under the age of 25 because of how stupid most everything they say is. We’ve had a few come through my work and I end up wanting to shoot myself rather than hear them talk about yoga or how bad America is (they’re trying to look worldly) or how they love Chou Doufou (stinky tofu…it’s boiled in oil and I’ll tell you…tofu boiled in oil really stinks…even in Chinese it’s called stinky tofu) and the thing that bugs me about this is that I don’t confront these women…I probably shouldn’t anyway; I’d look like the big asshole I am…it’s just how I don’t let it roll off my back but instead ignore her until she moves back to the US.

[quote]Nards wrote:
I really can’t stand North American women under the age of 25 because of how stupid most everything they say is. We’ve had a few come through my work and I end up wanting to shoot myself rather than hear them talk about yoga or how bad America is (they’re trying to look worldly) or how they love Chou Doufou (stinky tofu…it’s boiled in oil and I’ll tell you…tofu boiled in oil really stinks…even in Chinese it’s called stinky tofu) and the thing that bugs me about this is that I don’t confront these women…I probably shouldn’t anyway; I’d look like the big asshole I am…it’s just how I don’t let it roll off my back but instead ignore her until she moves back to the US.[/quote]

Pretty sure I want to stand up in my office and clap for this post.