The Wife John McCain Left Behind

Now that Hillary Clinton has at last formally withdrawn from the race for the White House, the eyes of America and the world will focus on Barack Obama and his Republican rival Senator John McCain.

While Obama will surely press his credentials as the embodiment of the American dream �?? a handsome, charismatic young black man who was raised on food stamps by a single mother and who represents his country�??s future �?? McCain will present himself as a selfless, principled war hero whose campaign represents not so much a battle for the presidency of the United States, but a crusade to rescue the nation�??s tarnished reputation.

McCain likes to illustrate his moral fibre by referring to his five years as a prisoner-of-war in Vietnam. And to demonstrate his commitment to family values, the 71-year-old former US Navy pilot pays warm tribute to his beautiful blonde wife, Cindy, with whom he has four children.

But there is another Mrs McCain who casts a ghostly shadow over the Senator�??s presidential campaign. She is seldom seen and rarely written about, despite being mother to McCain�??s three eldest children.

And yet, had events turned out differently, it would be she, rather than Cindy, who would be vying to be First Lady. She is McCain�??s first wife, Carol, who was a famous beauty and a successful swimwear model when they married in 1965.

She was the woman McCain dreamed of during his long incarceration and torture in Vietnam�??s infamous �??Hanoi Hilton�?? prison and the woman who faithfully stayed at home looking after the children and waiting anxiously for news.

But when McCain returned to America in 1973 to a fanfare of publicity and a handshake from Richard Nixon, he discovered his wife had been disfigured in a terrible car crash three years earlier. Her car had skidded on icy roads into a telegraph pole on Christmas Eve, 1969. Her pelvis and one arm were shattered by the impact and she suffered massive internal injuries.

When Carol was discharged from hospital after six months of life-saving surgery, the prognosis was bleak. In order to save her legs, surgeons had been forced to cut away huge sections of shattered bone, taking with it her tall, willowy figure. She was confined to a wheelchair and was forced to use a catheter.

Through sheer hard work, Carol learned to walk again. But when John McCain came home from Vietnam, she had gained a lot of weight and bore little resemblance to her old self.

Today, she stands at just 5ft4in and still walks awkwardly, with a pronounced limp. Her body is held together by screws and metal plates and, at 70, her face is worn by wrinkles that speak of decades of silent suffering.

For nearly 30 years, Carol has maintained a dignified silence about the accident, McCain and their divorce. But last week at the bungalow where she now lives at Virginia Beach, a faded seaside resort 200 miles south of Washington, she told The Mail on Sunday how McCain divorced her in 1980 and married Cindy, 18 years his junior and the heir to an Arizona brewing fortune, just one month later.

Carol insists she remains on good terms with her ex-husband, who agreed as part of their divorce settlement to pay her medical costs for life. �??I have no bitterness,�??

she says. �??My accident is well recorded. I had 23 operations, I am five inches shorter than I used to be and I was in hospital for six months. It was just awful, but it wasn�??t the reason for my divorce.

�??My marriage ended because John McCain didn�??t want to be 40, he wanted to be 25. You know that happens…it just does.�??

Some of McCain�??s acquaintances are less forgiving, however. They portray the politician as a self-centred womaniser who effectively abandoned his crippled wife to �??play the field�??. They accuse him of finally settling on Cindy, a former rodeo beauty queen, for financial reasons.

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No wonder he stuck up for John Kerry against the Swift Boat Vets, right? He and Kerry are almost identical.

[quote]PRCalDude wrote:
And yet, had events turned out differently, it would be she, rather than Cindy, who would be vying to be First Lady. [/quote]

McCain wouldn’t have become a Senator without powerful backers. Let’s think like him for a minute:

“Hmmm…crippled and disfigured wife…hot bimbo with money and lots of connections…some of the connections are unsavory and powerful…I crave power…” “Well, my friends, let me introduce you to the new Mrs. McCain.”

I am voting Libertarian.

[quote]Headhunter wrote:
PRCalDude wrote:
And yet, had events turned out differently, it would be she, rather than Cindy, who would be vying to be First Lady.

McCain wouldn’t have become a Senator without powerful backers. Let’s think like him for a minute:

“Hmmm…crippled and disfigured wife…hot bimbo with money and lots of connections…some of the connections are unsavory and powerful…I crave power…” “Well, my friends, let me introduce you to the new Mrs. McCain.”

I am voting Libertarian.

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Do you know what % of the vote the libertarian party usually gets?

[quote]Headhunter wrote:

I’m helping Obama.

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Fixed.

Yes, it is helping Obama. The question is, “Is Obama worse?” Just because McCain has an “R” behind his name doesn’t mean he’s a good guy. The man is full of guile and, it appears, cruelty.

Are we seriously going to disqualify from consideration any male politician who divorces his wife and marries a younger woman?

What would Jesus do?

“For better or worse, for richer or poorer, until death us do part.”

If McCain can’t honor THAT oath, why should I expect him to put his hand on the Holy Bible and actually follow an oath to defend the Constitution?

[quote]BostonBarrister wrote:
Are we seriously going to disqualify from consideration any male politician who divorces his wife and marries a younger woman? [/quote]

It wasn’t just that. He divorced a wife who waited 5 years for him to get out of the Hanoi Hilton because she got into a car accident.

He needs to drop the part of his campaign about him having all this character and judgment, because it’s not there.

Look, there is no way in hell I am going to vote for McCain anyway, but this kind of trivial, ad hominem bullshit has got to be flushed from American politics.

I am really tired of people making judgements about candidates based upon shit that belongs in a gossip column.
I don’t give a shit where Obama goes to church. I don’t care if he EVEN goes to church. I don’t care if McCain wanted to be 25 instead of 40. I also don’t think staying in a POW camp necessarily qualifies you for President. My uncle was in a POW camp in Vietnam for a few years. Should he run for President?

What do they say about the war, what do they plan to do about the economy? I bet more people know about the sex life of our candidates than they know about the plans the candidates have that are going to impact the country.

[quote]Headhunter wrote:
“For better or worse, for richer or poorer, until death us do part.”

If McCain can’t honor THAT oath, why should I expect him to put his hand on the Holy Bible and actually follow an oath to defend the Constitution?[/quote]

Yeah like that loser chicken hawk Ronald Reagan who abandoned his wife and children and barely even acknowledged their existence much less took care of them.

[quote]GreenMountains wrote:
Headhunter wrote:
“For better or worse, for richer or poorer, until death us do part.”

If McCain can’t honor THAT oath, why should I expect him to put his hand on the Holy Bible and actually follow an oath to defend the Constitution?

Yeah like that loser chicken hawk Ronald Reagan who abandoned his wife and children and barely even acknowledged their existence much less took care of them.

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Reagan was a chicken hawk? What does that mean? He actually served in WWII, you know.

This is a pathetic attempt at character assassination. They divorced seven years after he returned and he still pays her medical bills and she has nothing bad to say about him. This is not journalism. It is a tabloid hatchet job with nothing to back up the assertion.

Thought Obama was bringing change. Guess his worshippers didn�??t get the memo. Or maybe they got the real memo and it is politics as usual.

[quote]PRCalDude wrote:
GreenMountains wrote:
Headhunter wrote:
“For better or worse, for richer or poorer, until death us do part.”

If McCain can’t honor THAT oath, why should I expect him to put his hand on the Holy Bible and actually follow an oath to defend the Constitution?

Yeah like that loser chicken hawk Ronald Reagan who abandoned his wife and children and barely even acknowledged their existence much less took care of them.

Reagan was a chicken hawk? What does that mean? He actually served in WWII, you know. [/quote]

Doing what? Military films in Cali. Wow so impressive.

Crappy commander in chief. Original cut-and-runner in Beruit and got the US the reputation as a paper tiger. Got the US convicted of terrorism in world court for mining civilian harbors. The joke invasion of Grenada. School of the Americas legacy still haunting the US in Latin America.

But back to the original subject. I just bet HH loves Reagan even though he also was divorced. I believe it is called hypocrisy.

[quote]GreenMountains wrote:
This is a pathetic attempt at character assassination. They divorced seven years after he returned and he still pays her medical bills and she has nothing bad to say about him. This is not journalism. It is a tabloid hatchet job with nothing to back up the assertion.

Thought Obama was bringing change. Guess his worshippers didnâ¿¿t get the memo. Or maybe they got the real memo and it is politics as usual.

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Agreed. This is a bunch of crap.

Reagan joined the Army before WW2 and spent the war making training films. The chickehawk label is a bunch of crap.

[quote]Zap Branigan wrote:
GreenMountains wrote:
This is a pathetic attempt at character assassination. They divorced seven years after he returned and he still pays her medical bills and she has nothing bad to say about him. This is not journalism. It is a tabloid hatchet job with nothing to back up the assertion.

Thought Obama was bringing change. Guess his worshippers didnâ¿¿t get the memo. Or maybe they got the real memo and it is politics as usual.

Agreed. This is a bunch of crap.

Reagan joined the Army before WW2 and spent the war making training films. The chickehawk label is a bunch of crap.

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Just pointing out how silly most of these topics are. It is easy to spin anything any direction.

Reagan had a medical deferment or something which kept him out of combat. Dean did also but he was crucified as a traitor and coward in 2004 for not fighting in Vietnam.

[quote]GreenMountains wrote:
PRCalDude wrote:
GreenMountains wrote:
Headhunter wrote:
“For better or worse, for richer or poorer, until death us do part.”

If McCain can’t honor THAT oath, why should I expect him to put his hand on the Holy Bible and actually follow an oath to defend the Constitution?

Yeah like that loser chicken hawk Ronald Reagan who abandoned his wife and children and barely even acknowledged their existence much less took care of them.

Reagan was a chicken hawk? What does that mean? He actually served in WWII, you know.

Doing what? Military films in Cali. Wow so impressive.

Crappy commander in chief. Original cut-and-runner in Beruit and got the US the reputation as a paper tiger. Got the US convicted of terrorism in world court for mining civilian harbors. The joke invasion of Grenada. School of the Americas legacy still haunting the US in Latin America.

But back to the original subject. I just bet HH loves Reagan even though he also was divorced. I believe it is called hypocrisy.

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Yeah, Reagan was the first president to cut and run, except for the presidents who got us out of Korea and Vietnam. We also mined civilian harbors in Vietnam and WWII, not to mention that whole Hiroshima and Nagasaki thing, as well as the firebomb attacks on Tokyo and the Dresden bombing. War is ugly. Let’s move on.

There’s a big difference in my mind between divorcing someone because you grew apart from them or had differences with them and doing it after they waited while you were in prison camp and became crippled.

[quote]PRCalDude wrote:
There’s a big difference in my mind between divorcing someone because you grew apart from them or had differences with them and doing it after they waited while you were in prison camp and became crippled. [/quote]

I think these two things could cause anyone to grow apart.

[quote]Zap Branigan wrote:
PRCalDude wrote:
There’s a big difference in my mind between divorcing someone because you grew apart from them or had differences with them and doing it after they waited while you were in prison camp and became crippled.

I think these two things could cause anyone to grow apart.[/quote]

True, but when informed by McCain’s other actions, it’s pretty tough to give him the benefit of the doubt.

He probably did it because the gays devalued marriage.