The Reason Beta Males Pedestalize Women

O, is that site and the others of it’s kind, places that you go to with any frequency?

Just curious.

[quote]imhungry wrote:
O, is that site and the others of it’s kind, places that you go to with any frequency?

Just curious.[/quote]

Chateu Heartiste is like the ground zero of this whole “game” thing.

You will get posters there who bemoan the decline of the white race and whatnot and he never comments because he probably cannot give a fuck.

Not even half of a fuck.

What I read religiously is this:

and this:

And probably this:

Yeah, the last one puts a heavy emphasis on Christian “game” but who cares, he be very clever.

Be that as it may, Roissy at Chateau Heartiste is the Old Testament, it is concentrated Red Pill, its where pretty lies go to die.

Its just not for the faint of heart.

BTW, Dalrock has some posts on “chivalry” some people here could benefit from.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]imhungry wrote:
O, is that site and the others of it’s kind, places that you go to with any frequency?

Just curious.[/quote]

Chateu Heartiste is like the ground zero of this whole “game” thing.

You will get posters there who bemoan the decline of the white race and whatnot and he never comments because he probably cannot give a fuck.

Not even half of a fuck.

What I read religiously is this:

and this:

And probably this:

Yeah, the last one puts a heavy emphasis on Christian “game” but who cares, he be very clever.

Be that as it may, Roissy at Chateau Heartiste is the Old Testament, it is concentrated Red Pill, its where pretty lies go to die.

Its just not for the faint of heart.

BTW, Dalrock has some posts on “chivalry” some people here could benefit from.

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I figured i’d ask, since I read most of that link you posted and just though how thoroughly negative it sounded, so I wondered if it was indicative of other sites that you frequented.

Personally, if this PUA or anything of it’s ilk help you out in life and makes you a better human being, then i’m all for it. Just don’t be a lying piece of shit, like so many people are these days.

Also, I liked learning things the hard way. I have a whole lot of good memories and probably more “Oh god… I can’t believe I said, did…” whatever, stories that I can pass on to my kids when the time comes. I won’t need stories of Princes or Goblins to put them asleep. I’ll just tell them my life experiences :slight_smile:

Again, to each their own… just don’t be an asshole.

[quote]orion wrote:
I never called myself “Alpha”.

Not once.

Try again.
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So you’re a Beta?

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]gregron wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]gregron wrote:
All this “alpha” and “beta” crap is so lame.

EDIT: looks like several other posters already beat me to it.[/quote]

But the attitudes they describe are so going to influence your life.

Hung up on words, are we?[/quote]

If you’re referring to your link, I didn’t open it.

All the PUA and pseudo scientific approach to analyzing/picking up women is complete BS and about as far from “alpha” as you can get IMO. [/quote]

But it works and here we are.

Works, works, works, and you can do your song and dance it still will work.

No arguing with observable reality.

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Works? Observable?

Good fucking luck. Give me scientific studies that the methods used by most “PUAs” work and then I’ll believe it.

Until then it’s been my observation that the handful of PUAs that actually get laid on a regular basis are actually good looking and interesting to begin with. I.E mystery, fairly good looking dude, tall and probably has plenty of shit he can yak on about for a good deal of time. If some dude needed PUA courses just to get the confidence to talk to women, welp whatever, but he probably could’ve just saved money and time by jumping in the deep end of the pool himself.

I think you’d like to believe it works, and works infallibly, but it doesn’t. Most of the dudes I met in real life who follow this shit verbatim get laid less than my shy wallflower friend.

Not to mention, you’re hardly an objective observer. You got your heart stomped on by some skank and that has influenced your world view dramatically, how can you claim to not be biased?

EDIT: But I will say one thing for the PUA market - It’s almost admirable in how well its been marketed and turned into a business and how it preys on the insecurities of its target audience.

[quote]Aussie Davo wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]gregron wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]gregron wrote:
All this “alpha” and “beta” crap is so lame.

EDIT: looks like several other posters already beat me to it.[/quote]

But the attitudes they describe are so going to influence your life.

Hung up on words, are we?[/quote]

If you’re referring to your link, I didn’t open it.

All the PUA and pseudo scientific approach to analyzing/picking up women is complete BS and about as far from “alpha” as you can get IMO. [/quote]

But it works and here we are.

Works, works, works, and you can do your song and dance it still will work.

No arguing with observable reality.

[/quote]

Works? Observable?

Good fucking luck. Give me scientific studies that the methods used by most “PUAs” work and then I’ll believe it.

Until then it’s been my observation that the handful of PUAs that actually get laid on a regular basis are actually good looking and interesting to begin with. I.E mystery, fairly good looking dude, tall and probably has plenty of shit he can yak on about for a good deal of time. If some dude needed PUA courses just to get the confidence to talk to women, welp whatever, but he probably could’ve just saved money and time by jumping in the deep end of the pool himself.

I think you’d like to believe it works, and works infallibly, but it doesn’t. Most of the dudes I met in real life who follow this shit verbatim get laid less than my shy wallflower friend.

Not to mention, you’re hardly an objective observer. You got your heart stomped on by some skank and that has influenced your world view dramatically, how can you claim to not be biased?

EDIT: But I will say one thing for the PUA market - It’s almost admirable in how well its been marketed and turned into a business and how it preys on the insecurities of its target audience.
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Though there are some questionable things in regards to ethics and morality of PUA, I think Adam Lyons is a good example of how you can be a genuine person and still work at becoming better with women… For me it wasn’t about putting on a masquerade and pull out a bunch of pre fabricated routines and tricks… If you find the right sources it really does amazing things to help with better conversational skills, learning to escalate better, and other general sometimes obvious info that can be a worlds of wonder if you are previously mis informed… Like learning the things to NOT do… lol I have always rather liked the natural approach where you can just work on yourself and present the best possible version of yourself for others… My time spent in the “game” didn’t make me just better with woman but over all much more socially calibrated and just basically putting my best foot forward when meeting a potential girl to be with… The people that use it to put on a fake persona and to lay as much girls as possible, well it may work for a few cheap lays but you can only pull of faking it for so long… In the long term people can see through that shit pretty quick. I have seen a lot of good people that just wanted to learn how to better attract the girls they want, and the flipside of scum of society that are just trying to make themselves some sort of harem and cheating constantly or just not taking into consideration that you are supposed to leave the girl feeling better then before you met her.

You can use from it what you may, but it can really do wonders for those that just need that extra help and being able to present themselves in the best way possible.

[quote]Aussie Davo wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]gregron wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]gregron wrote:
All this “alpha” and “beta” crap is so lame.

EDIT: looks like several other posters already beat me to it.[/quote]

But the attitudes they describe are so going to influence your life.

Hung up on words, are we?[/quote]

If you’re referring to your link, I didn’t open it.

All the PUA and pseudo scientific approach to analyzing/picking up women is complete BS and about as far from “alpha” as you can get IMO. [/quote]

But it works and here we are.

Works, works, works, and you can do your song and dance it still will work.

No arguing with observable reality.

[/quote]

Works? Observable?

Good fucking luck. Give me scientific studies that the methods used by most “PUAs” work and then I’ll believe it.

Until then it’s been my observation that the handful of PUAs that actually get laid on a regular basis are actually good looking and interesting to begin with. I.E mystery, fairly good looking dude, tall and probably has plenty of shit he can yak on about for a good deal of time. If some dude needed PUA courses just to get the confidence to talk to women, welp whatever, but he probably could’ve just saved money and time by jumping in the deep end of the pool himself.

I think you’d like to believe it works, and works infallibly, but it doesn’t. Most of the dudes I met in real life who follow this shit verbatim get laid less than my shy wallflower friend.

Not to mention, you’re hardly an objective observer. You got your heart stomped on by some skank and that has influenced your world view dramatically, how can you claim to not be biased?

EDIT: But I will say one thing for the PUA market - It’s almost admirable in how well its been marketed and turned into a business and how it preys on the insecurities of its target audience.
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I should also mention that the most important aspect of any system used that yields results all have one single thing in common… Being practice… They say to go out and socialize and fail as often as possible because thats the only way to learn. without that you are just an information expert keyboard jockey without any actual real experience.

[quote]imhungry wrote:

[quote]batman730 wrote:
Fuck me. It’s like Groundhog Day with this topic. Does no one except me remember that we’ve done this again and again and again and again and again and again…

It’s actually getting a little surreal. Especially given some of the bizarre exchanges on page 2.[/quote]

This is by far my favorite: “There’s a gritty, grimy world where the female id roams free across fruited plains of phalluses”

This should be a drinking game.[/quote]

That line does have a certain Hunter S. Thompson-esque charm. A lot of the rest of what was going on made me wonder if I wasn’t having a mini stroke or something. I mean, I could read all the words individually, but when I linked them together into sentences it just made no sense.

Of course, I’m a little drunk too but I don’t think that’s the whole reason.

[quote]orion wrote:

No arguing with observable reality.

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See that statement right there?

Thats how I know that you have never spoken to a woman.

Sometimes Orion reminds me of Tom Cruise’s character “Frank T.J. Mackey” in Magnolia.

This is some of the funniest shit I have read in a long time (link and the posts). Like Chushin, I’m kinda drunk.

If you have to go to a club to pick up, you are not alpha (like such a thing exists). If you have to act “alpha”, you are most certainly not alpha. If you need to do more than look a girl in the eye to get her to want to fuck you, you suck. She is likely just as hard up (go figure women like sex too - though the lame-ass article put it the other way around). The only difference between an insecure “nice” guy and an insecure “alpha” is the “alpha” will try hard to pretend he is not trying while the “nice” guy will try hard not to try.

Delusion is a hilarious thing to watch when it comes to mating rituals and the advice spawned by halfwits. When I read this crap I seriously wonder how many of these “alphas” and their mentors are closet bi or gay.

Too many of you guys had great posts so I am not going to bother calling them out, but some of them just blow goats. SMH

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]imhungry wrote:

[quote]batman730 wrote:
Fuck me. It’s like Groundhog Day with this topic. Does no one except me remember that we’ve done this again and again and again and again and again and again…

It’s actually getting a little surreal. Especially given some of the bizarre exchanges on page 2.[/quote]

This is by far my favorite: “There’s a gritty, grimy world where the female id roams free across fruited plains of phalluses”

This should be a drinking game.[/quote]

The first few times I read that I thought “id” was a reference to Iron Dwarf.

But I’m kind of drunk right now.[/quote]

Ha! I didn’t even catch that.

Everyone realizes that I didn’t write that, I hope. I pulled it from the original article. Cortez, I laughed, too. I’m laughing all over again as I look at it.

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]imhungry wrote:

[quote]batman730 wrote:
Fuck me. It’s like Groundhog Day with this topic. Does no one except me remember that we’ve done this again and again and again and again and again and again…

It’s actually getting a little surreal. Especially given some of the bizarre exchanges on page 2.[/quote]

This is by far my favorite: “There’s a gritty, grimy world where the female id roams free across fruited plains of phalluses”

This should be a drinking game.[/quote]

The first few times I read that I thought “id” was a reference to Iron Dwarf.

But I’m kind of drunk right now.[/quote]

ME too! Well, not the drunk part.

Whenever a cop pulls me over and asks, “Can I see your ID?”, I reply, “You’re lookin’ at him, baby!” Then it spirals into a kind of Abbott & Costello routine before I’m handcuffed and hauled off.

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

No arguing with observable reality.

[/quote]

See that statement right there?

Thats how I know that you have never spoken to a woman.
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!!

[quote]MytchBucanan wrote:
Sometimes Orion reminds me of Tom Cruise’s character “Frank T.J. Mackey” in Magnolia. [/quote]

Naaaaa…

“tame the PUSSSSAAAAYYY”, “control the PUSSSSAAAAYY”…

Fuck no, tame and control yourself and learn how to walk away.

[quote]gregron wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
I never called myself “Alpha”.

Not once.

Try again.
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So you’re a Beta?[/quote]

Well, if its not either/or, I must be to some degree.

Actually I can afford to be more Beta than most guys, because I can be nice, I just dont have to be.

With me it is a gift, not an obligation to be taken for granted.

[quote]Derek542 wrote:
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Good Shit Right There!