[quote]bealedozer wrote:
thanks.
Zap, I’m not sure that jacked diesel is worth arguing with. He seems to be pretty dam sure of his own awesome coolness.
Sarpedon, I’m actually on a scholarship to where im around 14Gs a year, but thats still outrageous to me. I may transfer so the financial burden on my folks isn’t so great.
I can’t believe this thread got this far. really.
[/quote]
Ok, fair enough his problems aren’t as bad as others, but they’re still problems to him.
You literally need to train yourself to not think about all the negative shit anymore. When you start thinking about it you immediately think about something else that is positive, I mean immediately. You need to break your pattern of conditioning. You can either do it consciously, or you can be patient for a few months or more, as most people do.
I was pissed at my ex beyond belief, but after a few minutes I started consciously thinking of something else every time she went through my head and by the next day I was barely thinking of her at all, just thinking about opportunities and possibilities.
Best of luck,
Matt
[quote]mrodock wrote:
You literally need to train yourself to not think about all the negative shit anymore. When you start thinking about it you immediately think about something else that is positive, I mean immediately. You need to break your pattern of conditioning. You can either do it consciously, or you can be patient for a few months or more, as most people do. [/quote]
This is good advice. It’s like reprogramming your brain.
I do the same thing, when I find myself thinking of things that are annoying me, or that I’m indulging in negativity, I immediately think of something else that inspires me.
It’s like wiping a table. I get rid of all the junk and think of the good things.
It takes a while to learn, and it doesn’t work well at first, but after a while it’s a really effective way to not dwell on negativity.
Hey bro check out my little pitty thread “When it rains it pours” same shit happens to all of us and the one thing that binds us all here is the iron 
Know that you are stronger and a better person every time you leave the gym good workout our even bad.
BTW go fuck one of your x’s hot slutty best friends in the ass. And if she doesnt’ have any then fuck a chick you know she hates. Or at the very least just go get some strange because the best way to get over an x bitch is to get under the next bitch.
[quote]Sxio wrote:
This is good advice. It’s like reprogramming your brain.
I do the same thing, when I find myself thinking of things that are annoying me, or that I’m indulging in negativity, I immediately think of something else that inspires me.
It’s like wiping a table. I get rid of all the junk and think of the good things.
It takes a while to learn, and it doesn’t work well at first, but after a while it’s a really effective way to not dwell on negativity.
[/quote]
Well said.
As Anthony Robbins puts it, the mind is like a CD, if you scratch a track enough times the damn thing isn’t going to play anymore. If you never allow the thought to fully materialize the brain doesn’t want to go there anymore, waste of time.
Mental discipline is true freedom.
[quote]superthrustjon wrote:
lol.
I’m done making fun of you for being a bitch, but I’m curious how you know I didn’t study in high school.[/quote]
Shut the fuck up you god damn mindless piece of shit. Just because you’re a fucking mook who couldn’t figure out what to do with his life, so he enlisted in the marines(the marines will take anyone), don’t start thinking you’re some fucking big shot.
You’re the typical marine. A fucking half-wit dumbass who thinks he’s some kind of hardass.
Your first comment was unprovoked and unwarranted. Go try and flex you dick somewhere else.
I’ve got respect for people who join the military(cousin and friend are in it), but I can’t stand piece of shits like you that think it gives you some kind of right to act like you know what the fuck you’re talking about and that you’ve been through “hard” times.
Eat a dick.
Oh and Jack Diesel, it’s pretty fucking EL O EL funny that you try to burn dude with the “DERR ZOMG YOU ARE ARGUING WITH MEH ON THE INTERNETS WHAT A LOSER OLD MAN!”…it’s a bit hypocritical. Then again, that word probably hasn’t made it’s way into your vocabulary you pole smoking schmuck.
To the OP, I went through the same thing. My ex was a year ahead, and we did the whole long distance thing, only for her to come home for summer and have it not work. Also now go to the same school, and I got real bad. I started to see a conselor, which should be provided by the school, and started on an antidepressant.
I came off that about 2 months ago, cuz I didnt like the side effects, but now I dont even care about her. I also hooked up with her best friend, and a friend of mine she hated, and a few other girls, which helps. The gym is my escape, and I still suffer from depression, it is not easy. I am also in the same boat, I have no idea what I want to do, and idk what to do about it. Good luck man, we are all here for ya!