Since you don’t even understand what you are saying, I’ll try and help you.
If that cake is already made and sitting on display, then a baker cannot refuse to sell it to someone for reasons that violate anti-discrimination laws.
If it is just a “cake” and someone wants the baker to put a message on it, then he can refuse to put that message on it but he can’t refuse to sell it, again, if it violates existing laws.
And finally, no one can force a baker to bake any cake.
Furthermore, your arguments only apply to the most generic of cakes. And don’t even cover cakes that have “Married, forever” directly messaged on the cake.
That is anti common sense. He can refuse to put messages on specific cakes, but must sell cakes with that same message in the same context as to which he doesn’t have to produce specific messages…
And a wedding cake that has “Married forever” on it is being awfully optimistic. Now an anniversary cake that has that makes more sense… if it were followed by a “sigh.”
A baker does not have to bake any cake. He does not have to put any message on a cake.
If he already made a cake as you describe I don’t think he would have a problem with you bringing it to church.
Your problem is that you aren’t arguing against the court’s decision as you obviously don’t even know what it is. You are arguing scenarios that the court has already addressed.