The Dating Thread

Yes… because you ate some bad chicken wings. We are clearly in sync here

Yep.

That’s the beauty of this beast.

You have to look at it in motion. Isolating points and analyzing them doesn’t do justice to the entirety of it.

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@anna_5588
My friend texted me this article a few days ago. I think you might find it interesting.

I still have to watch that video you showed me.

@unreal24278 possible interest.

I don’t like all he has to say but he touches on what I’ve been saying and observing for a long time.

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This thread is wild. I’m about to shower then head out for a first date with a chick. Got caught up on the last 20 replies real quick. Should help :joy:

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Pizza? Tacos?

What’s on the menu?

I’m in quarantine for the next few days. Send me more articles to read

To what effect do you believe covid/isolation has had re rates of sexual activity within young men.

I’d also argue… on average men are less masculine nowadays; have you seen the studies encompassing testosterone decline and decreased AGD in response to excess exposure to endocrine disrupting chemicals in the womb? Sedentary lifestyles are also becoming more common/accepted.

Lets flip the tables… Would you want to have sex with a masculine, obese woman? Women typically ‘hold the keys to the gate’ so to speak because men will (sometimes) have sex with anything… anytime… but still, my analogy stands

If women are more selective, wouldn’t it make sense they select someone who appears to harbour fantastic genes (I.e not blobby and unkempt).

I know many, many, many overweight young men my age or younger who don’t take care of their appearance at all. Nor do they make much of an effort with women. Only one is a virgin, but the others certainly don’t have women chasing after them (except for one… he lost a LOT of weight though… 50lbs… that’s when everything started working out for him though)

Burgers and beer!! I have a little hole in the wall place with good vibes I go too a lot. This chick was cool AF tonight and a lot better looking than I thought she would be :joy: personality was also pretty unique.

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She texted me shortly after I dropped her off. I told her I really enjoyed tonight and she told me

“I really enjoyed tonight too! You are sweet and gentle and kind. Not to de-manly-inize you hahah I just like when men can be sweet and gentle and kind too🥲”

I enjoy Compliments like these much more than the other general ones.

Fuck yea boyzzz

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Did either of you, at any point discuss your deadlift numbers?

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Funnily enough she bragged/maybe not bragged about how much she benched and asked me what I benched. I explained I didn’t bench and just wanted the gainzzz. I showed her how to flex your chest as well :joy:

For real lol. She was telling me about the gym she goes to (CrossFit type place) and that the owner made them “max out” the other day. I think she was sad I didn’t do any barbell work :joy::sweat_smile:

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Ngl I’d be sad too
Big lifts are my jam

Speaking of which, gym buddy hit a PR yesterday 180kg deadlift

I do 180kg for my working sets “flares lats and puts on stank face”

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No, I haven’t. Nor do I believe that our bodies are being flooded with all sorts of estradiol-raising things from plastic, Tupperware, and the spare consumption of soybean oil from store-bought salad dressing and mayonnaise. If some guy has high intake of that stuff and junk food, chances are his diet isn’t good anyway. I can be wrong though.

I’ve already gone over the feminization of America several times:

  1. increased fatherlessness and/or matriarchal homes (eg, “ask your mother”, dumping male friends after a woman enters life, the woman “wears the pants”)
  2. on top of that being taught by mostly women from age five to their 20’s
  3. worship of women that pervades entertainment media
  4. obsession with sex
  5. social engineering and education that teaches the only differences between men and women are genitalia and physical strength and that boys should be in touch their emotions.
  6. a near disappearance of men’s spaces
  7. I’ll add internet use

Now one has to be on edge even if he discusses characteristics that are typically male or female because now masculinity is defined on one’s own terms as shown in the thread on masculinity.

I can go on, and discuss how this manifests, but it’s politically incorrect to talk of how a man can act like a woman. Although I don’t like the term “acting like a b—“, because I don’t use the B word for women, men simply understood it and it didn’t come from nowhere.

I likely will not state my rebuttal to this.

Will send studies later. There’s actually a good deal of evidence EDC’s are having a fairly significant impact.

Wouldn’t this make a man MORE masculine? Secondary sexual characteristics exist to attract a mate.

Are you sure about this? Most of my teachers were male… in secondary school roughly 40% of teachers are male. Also, why does it matter… for the most part, teachers teach regarding subject matter encompassing the academic curriculum. They aren’t there to alter your moral compass/personality.

What’s a men’s space? In Aus plenty of pubs are predominantly inhabited by men and/or target a male audience. Have you ever been to a proper (not boxercise) boxing gym?

There are spaces dedicated entirely for women at this point in time… however finding a “male only” paradigm is difficult… aside from boys/girls schools, however I don’t like that. You need to be able to socialise with members of the opposite sex (not talking about sex, we are talking about socialising).

This is a toxic relationship, I’ve seen it before and it typically results with the guy being miserable and/or the two breaking up. Family friends first marriage was with a woman like this, she forced him to cut contact with all of his friends and was (from what I’ve heard) emotionally abusive to a degree… guess who got divorced two years later? Can you guess? I got divorced!!! (kidding, it was the family friend).

This is happening

However have you seen any evidence to suggest that any of this is resulting in hormonal decline?

Agreed, and this is very irritating. I got into an argument with someone recently over a joke I made. We were talking about male pattern baldness and I said “it’d he a hell of a lot more devastating if it happened to you because you’re a woman!”

Response

“Why? Because I’m a GIRL! That’s the problem, society sucks… why can’t women go bald!! Why do we have to adhere to traditional gender constructs”

I tried to explain androgenic alopecia within a woman is a masculine sex trait that would be indicative of a serious hormonal imbalance and/or some other form of serious medical pathology.

But she didn’t want to hear it, so I said “we can just agree to disagree”. Saying “woman shouldn’t develop traditional male pattern baldness” doesn’t mean “society sucks”, it means “you’ve got a health problem, go and see a doctor”.

I didn’t say anything too offensive did I?

And? PC culture doesn’t matter… I say this all the time when I’m ribbing on friends or family. Know your environment, if you’re with a bunch of SJW subtypes, remain PC… if you’re with people such as myself let the politically incorrect humour (or legitimate commentary) fly.

If a man is in tune with his emotions and is comfortable expressing when he feels angry, sad, uncomfortable etc… that’s not acting like a woman.

If a man is getting a pedicure… perhaps

Though to be clear, I have my eyebrows done every 2-3 weeks because if I don’t I grow an insidious caveman monobrow.

Some men are effeminate, I’m sure there’s a gene for it because some of these hyper effeminate men are like this practically from the day they are born.

Not at all. My rebuttal can be taken as mean to some or many people.

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Before the death of Neil Peart, a Rush concert.

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Watch ‘ready player one’… not my type of film

But through watching it I chuckled as the main protagonist spends virtually 90 minutes worshipping the ground the female protagonist walks on. It’s a 2.5 hr film

That’s the perfect time to look over to the side like you’re by yourself and do an exaggerated hand yapping of everything she just said.

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I was seriously shocked she took offence to this :laughing: