[quote]imhungry wrote:
Don’t want her downloading music illegally? Take the computer away.[/quote]
I don’t think that children should have unfettered internet access period.
The computer should be in a family area with the computer screen facing outward.
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
it’s half-staged but i don’t think she expected to get it quite like that
his whole deal is staged
she learnt it from him
this is what he taught her how to do
she’s better at it than him[/quote]
The way you post is highly amusing. It looks as if you’re writing poems.
[quote]Mettahl wrote:
[quote]overstand wrote:
“she was “emotionally abused” (lol’d)”
"Nor did anybody ever say they’d beat their children, let alone beat them with a “shit-eating grin”.
[/quote]
Yeah, I’m not so sure now, you sick fuck.
And you’re wrong about the strawman, actually. That entails not addressing the actual factual issue, which I did before I proceeded to typify, through a fake scenario, the actions of a typical ass hole who beats his whole family for stupid reasons (or at all). The fact that it was NOT a straw man is shown further by that fact that I involved a direct quote by the father himself, where he claims that his preferred method of parenting is to beat his daughter into submission.
I guess I should stop arguing with you though, before you try to bend me over a bed and beat me with a belt.[/quote]
Lol, go ahead and google “ad hominem” while you’re at it.
The saddest part of this whole ordeal is that it takes all the fun out of being told to “Bend over the fucking bed”.
[quote]Christine wrote:
The saddest part of this whole ordeal is that it takes all the fun out of being told to “Bend over the fucking bed”.
[/quote]
Nooo, noo it really doesn’t…I’ll have no issue the next time I say it.
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]imhungry wrote:
Don’t want her downloading music illegally? Take the computer away.[/quote]
Or beat the fuck out of her and cut off your fingers.[/quote]
I prefer my solution.
Kid got spanked with a belt for disobeying her parents.
What’s the problem here? Did he punch and kick her? Was he beating her with a stick? I see a lot of outrage because the kid got beat with a belt. Big whoop, She should have done what she was told.
Now I get that we all have diffent opinions on how to raise a kid and what constitutes as acceptable punishment in our own homes but to call this abuse is silly. I didn’t hear the sound so I don’t know if it included verbal abuse.
Is this a first time offense for the kid? Does the kid have other behaviour issues? I mean we don’t know anything about this household and here we are lobbying insults about how horrible a parent the man is.
For the record - Parent, 4 kids, All girls ages 3-20. Yes I spank.
[quote]Christine wrote:
[quote]imhungry wrote:
Don’t want her downloading music illegally? Take the computer away.[/quote]
I don’t think that children should have unfettered internet access period.
The computer should be in a family area with the computer screen facing outward.
[/quote]
I’m on board with this, also.
[quote]overstand wrote:
[quote]Mettahl wrote:
[quote]overstand wrote:
“she was “emotionally abused” (lol’d)”
"Nor did anybody ever say they’d beat their children, let alone beat them with a “shit-eating grin”.
[/quote]
Yeah, I’m not so sure now, you sick fuck.
And you’re wrong about the strawman, actually. That entails not addressing the actual factual issue, which I did before I proceeded to typify, through a fake scenario, the actions of a typical ass hole who beats his whole family for stupid reasons (or at all). The fact that it was NOT a straw man is shown further by that fact that I involved a direct quote by the father himself, where he claims that his preferred method of parenting is to beat his daughter into submission.
I guess I should stop arguing with you though, before you try to bend me over a bed and beat me with a belt.[/quote]
Lol, go ahead and google “ad hominem” while you’re at it.[/quote]
I’ll stick with having competed in LD debate throughout school. It turns out that you’re wrong again. I didn’t undermine your credibility (or that of your argument) with unrelated facts about you. I didn’t say anything along the lines of “you can’t listen to what this guy just said, he’s bald!” That would be ad hominem.
Maybe you should Google something before telling someone else to.
Anyways. There seems to be a lot of people mentioning that they got beat like this as a child, and that they are perfectly okay with doing the same. That’s exactly the problem: child abuse begets child abuse. It may not have affected you, and it may not have ruined your life, but then you aren’t representative of the average abused child.
There have been MANY studies on this in the past few years (I hear this shit all of the time, my wife is currently getting a psychology degree and loves telling me about what she’s learning) about how physical reprimand past spankings, such as beating with a belt, has the potential to be damaging to a person for the rest of their lives. Sexual deviance in youth, crime, violent by nature (basically abnormally short-tempered), and many other problems have been attributed to child abuse. And yes, this is considered child abuse.
All of the “I turned out fine, and so did my kids” comments don’t mean a whole lot, because statistics are greater than you and I.
[quote]Loudog75 wrote:
Kid got spanked with a belt for disobeying her parents.
What’s the problem here? Did he punch and kick her? Was he beating her with a stick? I see a lot of outrage because the kid got beat with a belt. Big whoop, She should have done what she was told.
Now I get that we all have diffent opinions on how to raise a kid and what constitutes as acceptable punishment in our own homes but to call this abuse is silly. I didn’t hear the sound so I don’t know if it included verbal abuse.
Is this a first time offense for the kid? Does the kid have other behaviour issues? I mean we don’t know anything about this household and here we are lobbying insults about how horrible a parent the man is.
For the record - Parent, 4 kids, All girls ages 3-20. Yes I spank.[/quote]
Definitely re-watch with audio. You might want to put on headphones so your family doesn’t think that you’re watching kinky domination porn.
I can’t fathom someone who loves someone else saying those things to them.
[quote]FightinIrish26 wrote:
I’m shocked that beating your children caused “considerable strain.”
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I’m shocked that you think a parent would not spank (not beat) a child (not childen) who wanders off with older drug-dealing boys associated with terrorists who had previously, and did again, rape, beat, and kidnap young girls.
But then again, you’re an idiot. So no, I am not shocked.
saying you have no right to an opinion about child abuse unless you have children
is like saying you have no right to an opinion about slavery unless you own slaves
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
saying you have no right to an opinion about child abuse unless you have children
is like saying you have no right to an opinion about slavery unless you own slaves[/quote]
Not really. One, no one is defending “child abuse.”
But it is amusing to watch childless (and childish) pseudo-adults opine on how children should be raised.
[quote]Jewbacca wrote:
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
saying you have no right to an opinion about child abuse unless you have children
is like saying you have no right to an opinion about slavery unless you own slaves[/quote]
Not really. One, no one is defending “child abuse.”
But it is amusing to watch childless (and childish) pseudo-adults opine on how children should be raised.[/quote]
“Lol” at adults without children being pseudo-adults. Are the many people that never want to be breeders forever confined to immaturity?
[quote]Jewbacca wrote:
[quote]KrohDaddi wrote:
saying you have no right to an opinion about child abuse unless you have children
is like saying you have no right to an opinion about slavery unless you own slaves[/quote]
One, no one is defending “child abuse.”
But it is amusing to watch childless (and childish) pseudo-adults opine on how children should be raised.[/quote]
You are defending it, that was over the line. I am not against spanking although I do doubt it’s efficacy. It could just be your children grew up fine in spite of you, not because of you. I will admit that you are in a different situation, living in a perpetual war zone, but this “Judge” does not.
And since it seems to be your measuring stick of credibility, yes I do have two teenage girls, but it is ludicrous to me that you have to be a parent to recognize abuse. Good thing he didn’t have a whip or cattle prod handy.
this thread is worse than the Safeway one.
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]Bujo wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
http://blogs.houstonpress.com/hairballs/2011/11/texas_judge_william_adams_alle.php
We haven’t had a spanking thread in a couple of weeks.
He apologized, so I guess it’s okay. Right?[/quote]
What’s the big fucking deal? My brother and I got worse beatings for annoying our dad during the drive to the big city. Her spanking would have been a lot easier if she just manned up, bent over the bed, and took the spanking. Instead, all that caterwauling just made things worse. That’s why she kept getting slapped on the legs, which hurts way more than on the ass. She didn’t even get beat for the full 7:35 minutes of the video. It was like two or three minutes at most.
I’m sure she was given fair warning about downloading pirated music and games, as well as file sharing. I stole a GI JOE when I was 8 and got the belt for it. She stole music and got the belt. Fair is fair.
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I am sorry you were abused. It’s not OK and the man that did it is not a ‘Good man’.
Child abuse is a big damn deal. The evidence of it’s damage is overwhelming.[/quote]
Go blow yourself. My brother and I weren’t abused.
[quote]Bujo wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]Bujo wrote:
[quote]Christine wrote:
http://blogs.houstonpress.com/hairballs/2011/11/texas_judge_william_adams_alle.php
We haven’t had a spanking thread in a couple of weeks.
He apologized, so I guess it’s okay. Right?[/quote]
What’s the big fucking deal? My brother and I got worse beatings for annoying our dad during the drive to the big city. Her spanking would have been a lot easier if she just manned up, bent over the bed, and took the spanking. Instead, all that caterwauling just made things worse. That’s why she kept getting slapped on the legs, which hurts way more than on the ass. She didn’t even get beat for the full 7:35 minutes of the video. It was like two or three minutes at most.
I’m sure she was given fair warning about downloading pirated music and games, as well as file sharing. I stole a GI JOE when I was 8 and got the belt for it. She stole music and got the belt. Fair is fair.
[/quote]
I am sorry you were abused. It’s not OK and the man that did it is not a ‘Good man’.
Child abuse is a big damn deal. The evidence of it’s damage is overwhelming.[/quote]
Go blow yourself. My brother and I weren’t abused…[/quote]
Not as abused as the Game Cocks are going to be this weekend by Arkansas… Someone should call CPS right now cause South Carolina is gonna need em.
I dunno if beating your child is a good idea. Even if kids do something wrong, that is not an excuse to use physical punishment. In your head you might think that it is ok, as long as it is justified by the level of misbehavior the child makes.
From all the countries I’ve been, the ones that have this belief that its ok to spank your kid are the US and Mexico… one likes to make war all over the world, the other likes to make war on its own land with its own ppl. So yeah, i think that is not the correct strategy for educating a child, I mean if he did something so wrong that it deserves physical punishment then you need to hit yourself for not knowing how to raise a kid and just procreating because you are horny.
In japan for example,they don´t spank or beat their kids, and they seem to be doing ok, their crime rate is very low and in general they are very friendly ppl.