I want the T-Vixens to discuss how every thread on the entire t-mag forum be it a highly techincal training question or pure fluff can degenerate into aimless personal attacks? Also how come my pee pee is so big? It hums too is that normal. Tee hee hee. 
The thread asked for feedback on the colum and I gave it, so don’t give me the bs about not reading it if I don’t like it.
Huck, I will answer your question now, though you may also see it in the column grin Woman on top is a fine way to engage in sexual activity, and according to my copy of the kama sutra, there are many many variations to woman on top that will protect your injured back. All you need to do is be creative! For instance, woman on top can be useful while you watch your favorite tv show. She sits on your lap and faces away from you, leaning forward so that you can also watch the tube. She moves enough to keep you erect, but not enough to ‘end’ things quickly. How’s that? I personally doubt I would ever get bored even if I had to limit myself to only woman on to positions. Go pick up a copy of Anne Hoopers version of the Kama Sutra (it has pictures to encourage your imagination)
Avoids, you are TOO funny! (and evidently, quite preceptive)
Char - drop me an email, I'll see what I can do.
Bubba - Since I have a lot to say about men, you referred to me - as well as every other woman - as a bitch. EVERY woman has opinions about men, if you don't like that, I suggest you get used to your current woman. Um.. yeah, sure....
Gearhead - Katie is my best friend, so I'm sure I can speak for her here.... she does plenty of other things than talk about giving head. She is also very articulate and knows how to spell.
As for the rest of you, the column runs a few times a year. It has been around for well over a year at this point and has run what? Six times? It never replaces a feature article and TC only runs it when there is space for it. Trust me on this one, he reviews the content of the mag very carefully. By all accounts he's doing a pretty damn good job, so I guess you'll all just have to trust his judgement here. The column was born because I was an active member of the forum and saw topic after topic about women being discussed by men. Excuse me, but if you have never HAD cunnilingus how the hell can you know what's good? (Yes, you can talk about what your girlfriend has told you was good, but that's not exactly the same thing.) And unless you have experienced PMS how can you talk about how to relieve the symptoms? That would be like me talking with my female friends about what it feels like to shoot a load. Kinda pointless, huh?
I am well aware that some of you hate the column, but since it is very clearly labeled when it runs, and you already know you hate it, why don't you just ignore it?
I find it amazing that so many of you claim to not 'need' to hear anything a woman has to say about anything. Evidently, you must all be happily married, and experience perfect communication with your wives.
I read this mag and the forums because I like men, and I will never be an expert about men. I can always learn more... and am happy to learn more. Like other mature adults, I can admit I do not know everything, and am willing to expand my horizions.
I’d like to know if women particularly like the Roman War Helmet or the rusty Trombone?
yawn I’d like the t-vixens to address the topic of men who act like big tough guys over the internet.
For all I know, any of those women can be a fat 300 lbs man so I wouldn’t pay much attention to the advice they give. I agree with Bubba, I am a man, happy with myself as I am. Now all of a sudden I have to change something in my lifestyle because some ‘woman’ said so on internet? Well I might as well buy an estrogen bra while I am at it. The only woman who can change something in me is my girlfriend when she says something constructive.
By the way, I am sure Bubba didn’t mean specifically females when he said ‘bitch’; for example his words can be perfectly applied to Demo Dick with his new rules for us to live by.
Um… would you please translate that question? grin
That’s TWO guys in one thread who have called me a bitch. Okay, twice on the internet in a couple of days, and ZERO times in real life.
Very interesting.
If you only had enough sense to take your own advice, “assuming an air of superiority is never a good idea, especially when you lack a working knowledge of the topic at hand, or the ability to communicate effectivley.” First thing you need to do is look up the word “lifestyle” in the dictionary. Then re-read my post, “A man should never change his life for a woman, he should instead find a woman who fits his lifestyle.” Then (hopefully) you will be able see how my two statements are consistant. Secondly, addressing, “Since Michelle contributes to and edits the column, there is a very good chance that Bubba WAS talking about her.” Do you know what a qualifying statement is? Bubba clearly identifies the hypothetical group whom he is addressing when he speaks of “changing is haircut or whatever” at some woman wish/whim. Now unless Michelle has been secretly mailing Bubba telling him how to dress, maintain his hair, walk, whether to piss standing or sitting or whatever; he/she/it is clearly not addressing Michelle. One more side-note, Bubba was using the term “bitch” in the sense of a woman who is overbearing(yes, there are more uses for the word bitch than one demo).
How many time do I have to say this? I am female, as are all of the other Gang members. I have MET Chris Shugart, trust me, he would have noticed if I was a guy. Katie is my best friend, so I’m pretty sure she’s a girl too. Heather plays on the women’s rugby team - they only reserve that team for females. Diane has competed in women’s body building contests, also an event that is exclusively for women. Must I continue? Chris Shugart happens to be the assistant editor of T-mag, you don’t take his word on our genders? Get over it, we’re all women.
And for the record, none of us has said anyone needs to change anything as a result of the Gang column. It's a fun piece to write, and many of the readers enjoy it. If you don't agree with a word of what we say FINE not a big deal! I like guys with long hair, I did not say every t-mag reader must grow their hair long NOW. Most of the time all 7 of us have different opinions, but sometimes even those different opinions compliment each other. If you have nothing to gain from the column don't read it, just like if you are never planning to try steroids you probably don't read all of the steriod articles. No one is forcing you to do anything.
One final note: I don't mind constructive criticism about the column. It's good to hear what people like or don't like. Calling the column a "waste of internet space" or referring to the women who write it as bitches is not constructive, and serves no point past proving what a 'tough guy' the poster is.
Hey Michelle,
Well, it’s certainly nice to know that Katie’s a real woman, and not my former construction boss. That probably up’s the chances of our getting along… 
As for the detractors - illegitemi non carborundum. (Or something like that…my Latin’s a little rusty.)
Don’t have your private email address, but Patricia and Ko have mine…
(Tumbleweed rolls by…)
(Eagle screams in the distance...)
Sorry Michelle, I was just being an ass. This thread was getting too hostile so I thought I’d post a dumb question. I’m not sure why people feel the need to challenge everything to put forth a facade of intelligence or to just be asses in general. I think the way that Demo sticks up for you and the other ladies on the board is admirable, but he’s gonna tire himself out with the increasing number of numb nuts that log on (doesn’t the hits of the website go up every month since inception?). At the least, we should have a rotation of people to step in so Demo doesn’t get an anuerism (sp). Oh, any way, the two things I mentioned, and I forget everyone doesn’t listen to Opie and Anthony. The Roman War Helmet is when you put the testicles on the woman’s eyes and lay the penis down the nose, therefore looking like a Roman War helmet, or called the gonzo. NOt really a sex position, just something that I cracked up on when I heard the description. The Rusty Trombone, however, is more related to sex. It’s when the woman has her mouth to the man’s backdoor and gives a reach around, therefore looking like a trombone while she’s licking the rusty penny, hence the name.
Michelle: I’ve included Char’s addy on a couple of previous emails to you and Demo. But, if char approves, I will be all too happy to send it to you! That way, we can all discuss “offline” more thoroughly, the ineptitude occasionally displayed here in the forum. he he he.
Michelle and I are hooked up now (not in the biblical sense, Demo!), so no sweat. But thanks for helping, and welcome back!
laugh thanks for the clarification! I’ll take c. None of the Above.
Just curious - is it possible no one has ever called you a bitch in real life because you’re not so opinionated in real life? I’m just thinking that if you cussed people out like you do on the net, SOMEONE would have stepped up to the plate. I mean, unless you’re 6’6" 390 pounds and 8% body weight, I know I sure as hell would have told you off if you called me an “ignorant maladjusted fuck”. I’m not trying to pick a fight with you because I agree with a lot of your posts. But when an intelligent and opinionated man says no one has ever been insulting to him in person, I call bullshit.
Thanks for being civil. No, in real life I’m very much the same person that I am in print. You can ask Michelle (admittedly a biased source, but the only person that I can think of who could vouch for the “real life” me). Admittedly, I can be a real asshole, but only when necessary (I hope ). In all honesty, I try to live by the Golden Rule: I extend the same level of courtesy to others that they extend to me. In general I am one of the nicest guys you would ever meet. I have talked my way out of more fights than I’ve been in, because I hate violence.
Now, when I perceive that someone has insulted my loved ones, especially with a cheap shot, I get irate, and fast. I respond as I did in this thread. Now I won’t claim for one second that I’ve never been insulted, as I have been called a few choice names in the past (and sometimes I deserved it). But never “bitch”. “Cocksucker” once, and the guy quickly regretted it, but never bitch. LOL. And I doubt you’d ever get a response like Bubba did out of me, as you seem pretty level headed.
I’m nowhere near huge. I’m a short stocky guy, 5’3”, 188 pounds currently, and when leaned out so I can see my abs, about 173. But growing up as a short kid with rural MT farm boys, you can be damn sure I learned how to protect myself. The biggest guy I was ever up against in a conflict was 6’3”, and 250, ripped. This was a little over a year ago. It never came to blows (good thing for both of us because with a guy that size I’m fightin’ dirty from the start. I may believe in “honor”, but I ain’t crazy!) and we laughed about it afterwards. We ended up roommates for a short time. So yeah, a few guys have “stepped up to the plate”, as you put it.
My nasty side comes out because there seems to be an awful lot of tough guys who act like pigs on the Internet, and I’ve yet to meet this many “unprovoked assholes” in real life. Not even in dive bars on nickel-beer wet T-shirt night. Once in a while I get sick of it. I’m sure I’m not alone.
A man should change his life for a woman temporarily, just long enough to get what he wants
I think the t vix articles have strategic value in understanding the psychology of the target
also Im sure a few readers are actualy… female
I think the most important thing is that you write what is real and not what you want to be real
I think the T-vixens question/answer series can give a guy good perspective in understanding certain “woman” issues. However, like every guy is different, so is every woman. How one woman reacts is not necessarily how every woman would react, so the advice should always be taken relatively to your own situation. One thing I would be curious about is the age-range of the Babes. From what I can determine, there are questions about girls/women on this forum that range from teenagers through to adulthood. How a 17-year old girl would respond will be different than how a 25-year old, then a 35-year old, and finally a 45-year old would respond. Do the Babes cover a variety of age-groups, or are they in the 25-30 age range only? Just curious. It really isn’t a huge deal.