If you’re competing in something that allows them, it’s not cheating. If you’re claiming superiority over people who aren’t using them (especially when not being honest about your use), it is cheating.
I put them in the same camp as anything else you do that could be harmful to your body. Being too sedentary, drinking, smoking, eating a bad diet, not having healthy relationships etc etc. I would never use them because I already have some health problems and sometimes even get slight body dysmorphia. If I ever dabbled with PEDs that would likely run on turbo. This is not me saying I make any judgments on people who do use. End of the day we can do whatever we want with our body and it’s up to the individual to weigh up the risk to reward. If I wanted to compete at the highest level then I would start having a dialogue with myself but as soon as I do that I’ve lost the reason I joined the gym in the first place. Health and longevity. Other people have different goals and that’s absolutely fine. We all have our vices, and anything you put 100% into is going to have some negative connotations. It’s up to them to decide what’s important to them, and I will support them with whatever decision they make as long as it’s an informed one.
Now, the casual gym goer developing moon face because they quit the “sesh life” and diverted all their addictions into the gym and steroids under the guise of health? That I can never get on board with.