[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
They only test women when women admit to dr they have herpes. In most cases they are not aware they have it. Roughly 90% of all people with the Virus dont know it. 1 in 4 women have it 1 in 5 dudes have it so satisticaly Im not the only bro in this thread with it. Also not all docs are up to speed. Only way to test for sure is a IgG HSV blood test…Some docs just swab privates. Which does you no good becuase if no out breaks nothing to test.
Also just to put some closure on this thread. Turns out I’ve had it 10-15yrs and just never knew…It had nothing to do with anyone cheating… So no need for drama she probably has it too and just doesnt know… IMO shes better off that way…Its a minor skin condition where the stigma far outreaches the actual virus[/quote]
[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
They only test women when women admit to dr they have herpes. In most cases they are not aware they have it. Roughly 90% of all people with the Virus dont know it. 1 in 4 women have it 1 in 5 dudes have it so satisticaly Im not the only bro in this thread with it. Also not all docs are up to speed. Only way to test for sure is a IgG HSV blood test…Some docs just swab privates. Which does you no good becuase if no out breaks nothing to test.
Also just to put some closure on this thread. Turns out I’ve had it 10-15yrs and just never knew…It had nothing to do with anyone cheating… So no need for drama she probably has it too and just doesnt know… IMO shes better off that way…Its a minor skin condition where the stigma far outreaches the actual virus[/quote]
Only thing is if you ever have kids you might want to tell her in good time before the birth. The effects on a new born if an outbreak is occurring during birth can be really nasty and this is easily preventable with appropriate treatment.
We have 3 kids had them yrs ago. Not havin any more…docs never tested & if they woulda asked we would have said no. Its really a very comon thing that people dont notice untill there immune system breaks down.