JWright: you were right, the landlord would have to evict both of us to take her to court. However, his attorney is going to send a threatening letter. Probably won’t do much since they are talking to an attorney as well. The decent thing to do would be to pay for June, but I have more decency in my left nut than her whole family has. But no, you can’t shoot me because I have some other things to get into already.
Karma: again your wisdom is admired. I would like to make one thing clear though. The moment I found out the bitch definitely slept with another guy, I called her a whore, unloaded on her family, and moved on. She knew that I would never talk to her again if I ever found out she cheated on me, but I guess when she realized that it was too late. The only reason I was so torn was because the thought NEVER crossed my mind that she would actually let another guy put his dick in her. I started questioning the way I treated her because she started slowly taking her love away and I didn’t know why. I guess she thought she could get away with what she did because I live 3 hours away, but she forgot that I have a lot of friends back home. She’s obviously stuck in high school and probably felt like she needed to sow her wild oats before she moved in with me and got serious. We talked about getting married and having kids, but it must have been some kind of fairy tale to her. I guess this is what happens when a man fucks around with little girls. I’ve been there and done that and she knew it. Just because I’ve been with more people than her is not justification in my mind to drop your panties whenever you feel like it. She knows I have too much pride to ever let a thing like that fly. I simply didn’t read the signs because I didn’t want to. I learned my lesson. I also showed her and her family what happens when they try to fuck with a real man. I’m not going to play games and stalk her like the last guy she tried to fuck with. I told it like it was and now everyone knows that she’s a dirty whore and her family is pathetic. Her dad’s an english teacher, I’m sure he read The Scarlet Letter.
TonyG: Don’t be sorry for the advice you gave. Just like me, you had no way of knowing how trashy she is. Everything you said applies to girls with even a shred of dignity. I won’t let this whore change me into a heartless pig. Maybe when I was 16, but I’m not going to go on some childish anti-women man whore crusade. I’m not some little kid who is going to dwell on this for years like she did when her ex destroyed her self-esteem. People like my ex have no self respect and try to make themselves feel better by trying to bring down people who are better than them. I guess she deeply resented the fact that I have pride and self-confidence to the point where it made her justify cheating. She thought people would respect her for taming a player, but now she realizes that the joke’s on her. I was true to her because I’ve had my fun and I am strong enough to control myself. She’s fucked for life because no decent guy who knows her past will ever treat her like anything other than the whore that she is. I’m weathered man, this shit doesn’t phase me. She’s the one who is living at home doing jack shit, feeling sorry for herself, and thinking up ways to get back at me for exposing her promiscuity in front of her parents and the whole town. She’ll come crawling back when she gets over the fact that I showed absolutely no respect for her and her father in hopes to use her pussy as a weapon. Not gonna happen, trust me on that.
Hey man, I’m proud of you, just so ya know. You came out on top of the situation, and I know it felt good to let her and family have it. I know you’ve said this before, but I’m gonna re-emphasize it - don’t let this one experience get to you. There are 6 billion people in this world, half are women. 3 billion women minus one slutty whore = 3 billion other women. Go find a girl who treats you with dignity and respect, and love her for life cuz they are the keepers.
Oh, and I’ve never shot a gun anyways, so I would’ve probably missed.
The white trash reality show is still going on, but I’m only watching from a distance now.
There’s no question that I didn’t burn my bridge with the ex’s family…I obliterated it wish a nuclear bomb.
The T nation was right. I just didn’t think she’d come crawling back a few days after I laid the law. I thought it would be more like 6 months. For whatever reason, the bitch keeps calling me. At first, it was mostly me calling her a whore and not to call me anymore, but then she got the not-so-subtle hint that I don’t give a shit whether or not I ever speak to her again. Maybe that bothers her, maybe she just wants to salvage her reputation by being “friends” with me, maybe she thinks that by lying about ever cheating on me she can use that as leverage to fuck with me. Who knows? Now that I’m treating her with absolutely no respect, she calls me crying about how much she loves me, wants to move in with me (after my bro already moved in her place), and that she doesn’t care what her family thinks.
So she finally admitted that she needs to go to counseling. I suggested she get on some medication for bipolar disorder. What kind of fucked up bitch would think she could bat her eyelashes, tell me some bullshit, and have me following her around like a lost puppy after all the shit that has happened? I told her that if she moves here she can come over from time to time, I’ll strap on 3 rubbers, plow her, and send on her way.
I’m dealing with some sick individuals here. I just don’t see how she can call me and act like we’re dating with her mother sitting next to her on the couch watching Oprah. Are they able to pretend like nothing happened? I made it clear that I wouldn’t piss on any of them if they were on fire. So basically her mom is condoning the fact that her daughter wants to make me pay for exposing the truth. They blame me for ruining her repuation. Hey, you make your own bed. They’re all obviously crazy if they think she’s going to get over on a dude like me. It’s kind of sad actually, no matter which way you look at it. Maybe they are too spineless to tell her not to fuck with me. Hmmm…her ex stalked her for 3 years after she “broke up with him.”
Anyway, the moral of the story is, well there are many:
don’t ignore the red flags because the sex is good
if you’re an adult, don’t get serious with someone who still lives with their parents.
look at the ex bf/gf to gauge what kind of person turns him/her on (look at the way they treat the people who treated them w/respect vs. disrespect)
look at the mother; that’s what she’ll be like in 30 years.
when you’re asking yourself if you could spend the rest of your life w/someone, ask at times other than when you’re hittin it. It clouds your judgement.