this is in reply to how girls always have someone else to go to. I broke up w/ my gf within the first 3 months of her being away at college. Then some dude played her and broke up w/ her and then she came back to me, then broke up w/ me to get w/ this other dude, who she then dumped when she went back to school, and less than a day later got with ANOTHER dude, who turned into an alchoholic and broke up w/ her, and now she’s with another dude. All in 2 years. Girl’s got it easy man.
Scrub-You still have to go to court for her? Any way out of that? Check with your landlord about the whole lawsuit thing. He may be your buddy, and he may cut you some slack, but he can’t get around the law for you. One last question. Everything this girl put you through and did to you, and you still say that her ex wasn’t good enough for her? How screwed up was he to not be good enough for this girl?
Paul: her ex used to hit her, was an alcoholic, controlling, ex high school football player that couldn’t handle it when he realized that he was a loser and nobody cared about him anymore. He totally stalked her family for a few years after she “broke up” with him, but I’m sure he kept coming back because she was fucking him. She said she never touched him while we were together, but now I don’t believe a word that she says. Each day that goes by, more and more things are making sense to me.
I guess we just weren’t right for each other. I like myself, she hates herself. I’m an adult, she’s still a kid. I have balls to stand up to people, she has none. I guess a few months into the relationship she started to realize that she wasn’t good enough for me. Even her parents would make cracks like, “geez I can’t believe he hasn’t broken up with you yet.” Should have listened. So I guess when you feel inferior to someone, you want to bring them down to your level. I’m a proud person and she knows that people in our hometown like me. Maybe she thought that by sleeping around on me she could humiliate me or break me. I think she’s starting to realize that the only people that think she got over on me are the guys she fucked and herself. Everyone else thinks she’s a worthless tramp. It’s ironic because she’s the one who is so worried about what people at home think about her. Hmmm…I’m coming out of this looking like the good guy cuz I never cheated on her and she looks like a dirty whore. What kind of decent guy would want to marry a girl like that?
Bottom line: I bought into the fact that the family thinks she’s a princess when she’s actually the white trash queen of the universe. The fact that really makes me think she’s evil is that she constantly talked about how great our sex life was all the time, you’re the best I ever had, blah blah. I mean, I know it was good, but obviously not good enough to tide her over when I wasn’t around. So I could either think that it’s me or that she’s just a spoiled brat who is also a dickhound. I lean toward the latter, nothing’s ever good enough for people like that and that’s why she’s going to end up a miserable old bag just like her mom.
As far as the legal thing, we both signed the same lease. My landlord thinks he has the right to accept my half of the rent while choosing not to evict me based on her delinquent half. Maybe this is not possible, but he contacted his attorney before he told me this.
If you signed the same lease, he goes after both of you for delinquency in rent, friend or not. Since it is one lease, you are being delinquent in not paying her half of the rent. It is an agreement by two people to pay the landlord, no matter who pays. Make sense? Separate leases, then you can go after individuals.
I got screwed paying for my old roommates fuck ups, and we signed the same lease. If it was separate leases, then I wouldn’t have had to pay a thing.
Good rule here; never date a girl whose father calls her “princess”. She’s liable to be a spoiled brat. Sorry that everything went to shit on you, man. You were pretty supportive of me on another thread about women, wish I could do the same for you. Take this relationship, learn from it, and move on. In a couple of years, you’ll be laughing with your brother over some beers about the time you guys called your ex a dirty whore in front of her parents.
There’s an old story that Einstein started out his scientific career studying cognition because he “wanted to learn how the female mind works”. He left that field to study Quantum Physics!
That aught to tell you something about the female mind!
So . . . how’d the test go?
Paul: a few years? We’re laughing already! My friends think that the fact that I told her dad that I stuck it in her ass is the the funniest damn thing they’ve ever heard. I guess the fact that I actually feel good right now should be a lesson to me. I always knew deep down that she wasn’t good enough, but I deluded myself to thinking that she could change into the person I wanted her to be. Big mistake.
He won’t find out how he did on the test for about 6 weeks or so.
Step 1 of the USMLE is probably the hardest test I’ve taken in my entire life. Good thing he didn’t have any personal stuff going on at that time. 
DocT: LMAO! Let me paint a little picture for you: after the exam, feeling like I just got hit by a truck and asking myself why the hell I’m doing this. I open up First Aid and read the part about test prep strategies. It says, “Plan your personal affairs to minimize crisis situations near the date of the test. Maintain a healthy lifestyle with proper diet, exercise, and sleep.” It’s almost as if they were talking to me personally. That was the worst hell of my entire life and I’m glad it’s over. I’m now 20 lbs lighter, pale, and weak as hell, but I’ll be back.
And the moral of the story:
No one is worth tearing yourself up over.
No fucking one. Any time you think you have lost the “love of your life” or the “best friend in the world” or any other such idiocy - remember - NO ONE IS WORTH DESTROYING YOURSELF. And belaboring the inevitable end of a relationship destroys a person like few other things in life.
I beleive it was Heinlein who said:
“Never get involved with a girl who’s father calls her princess. She’ll expect treatment and a lifestyle commiserate with her title.”
STU
Scrub…Jeez, its been 3 days since I have checked the forums and soooooo much has happened. I almost feel like as ass for what I wrote the other day telling you that she was worth fighting for…haha. Disregard EVERYTHING I said!! This chick sounds like a such a waste of space. Must be a great feeling knowing that you got everything you wanted to say off your chest. That was by far…THE BEST story I have read in awhile. Kudos! Hope the test went well…Tony G
~karma~: Dead on. You are the smartest person ever. Can you be my mentor?
Tragically, she is typical. Most women can’t pour piss out of a boot when it comes to figuring out what they want. Cut your losses. There ARE some great women out there. Go get em.
Scrub: Your friends are right. The part about telling her dad about sticking it in her ass is hilarious.
People typically regret the things they didn’t do, the things they didn’t say. You fucking said it. That’s beautiful.
CMC: If I thought you were halfway serious, the answer would be “Sure, anytime you need a swift kick in the ass - I’m your girl!”
I’ve just made enough mistakes and lived enough hell to know how to handle the hell life dishes out (and avoid it most times). Been there, done that, ain’t 'bout to do it again.
Huck are you Military/former Military? I only hear the “pour piss out of a boot” in the world of the green men…
another popular one is “that dude couldn’t lead himself out of a piss soaked sack.”
Good times… good times…
Sooooo…Can I volunteer to shoot you first, Scrub?
~k~: I was being serious. It was not an attempt at sarcasm or shameless flirting. You’re incredibly insightful and knowledgeable. I think everyone could benefit from adopting your attitude.