[quote]polo77j wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
[quote]aeyogi wrote:
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
You damn kids; get off my lawn![/quote]
It seems your caregiver forgot your Metamucil last night grandpa.[/quote]
I lol’ed.
I see what you’re saying but try and see it from my perspective. I’ve been doing what I’ve been doing it, from where I’ve been doing it for a decade now. I know when and where I can slack and when and where I need to crank it.
Unknown you to whipper snappers is this whole idea of quality of life. Work life balance isn’t just about having less hours on the job for more pay, it’s about managing your life while working too. It isn’t about being miserable at work and having a killer life outside of it, it’s about having a killer life 24/7.
If I can manage my distractions and get the same amount of work done in 2000 billable hours as someone who will call me a slacker does in 2200-2400 billable hours, who’s better off? Me. Who does the company like more? Neither, we both get our shit done, and the company wants to hear zero bitching from one about the other.
A lot of Op’s complaints come down to perspective. It’s hard to trust his when he’s been doing it for such a relatively short amount of time. [/quote]
You’re an accountant…isn’t it assumed that for like half of every month you don’t have shit to do? How much experience do you have being an engineer or working at a machine shop? I’ll wait here for your answer.
So, in your eyes, how much (incidental) experience does one need before they qualify to make statements?
What about their attitude?
Personality?
Education?
You can have 15yrs experience, but I won’t take a breath of advice from you. You’re an accountant, and I don’t take advice from accountant-snappers
and what the fuck is this bullshit:
“…it’s about managing your life while working too. It isn’t about being miserable at work and having a killer life outside of it, it’s about having a killer life 24/7…”
what the fuck are you talking about “managing your life”? Who said I was miserable? Part of having a killer life 24/7 is taking pride in the shit you accomplish at work, not how many fucking memes you saw on Facebook while at work.
oh, and by the way beans…with all of your awesome “Experience” that you have, I’m sure you have a few accomplishments…right? Or am I mistaken?
Please go ahead and list a few for the young whipper snappers out there…[/quote]
I’m curious what your intent was by starting this thread? You seem to have it all figured out based on your defensive responses. If you didn’t want advice, why ask for it? It seems that you really just wanted somewhere to bitch about some dude you work with. Why are you so worried about this apparent “slacker” that you felt it warranted a thread? Couldn’t this have been posted in the “Grind My Gears” thread?
And another thing, if you’re so damn busy at work, how the can you possibly know what this dude is doing all day? You might catch a glimpse at what he’s doing every once in a while to the point where you know what he’s doing for, like, five minutes out of the day. How can you possibly make any kind of judgement on his work ethic based on that? I’m questioning YOUR work ethic if you’re so wrapped up with this dude’s habits that it got you twisted enough to vent on a public forum full of dude’s who lift weights.
And another thing, you’re really sensitive ain’cha. I mean, look at this response to beansie, and a few of your other responses. If you can’t take criticism when you’re asking for advice over an ambiguous situation at work (which we only have ONE side of the story), then I don’t think the internet is the right place for you. Seriously, why are you getting so defensive?[/quote]
oh boy where do I begin, how many posts in this thread did you read?
My intent: To see if I should/could do anything about my slacker co-worker, sorry if I didn’t make that clear (in the posts that you happened to read).
Advice given: I stated several times (maybe not in the posts you read) that I would be taking some advice given here. Yes, this was partially for me to vent and it could have gone in the grind my gears thread, had it not been for my question (see “intent”).
Me being a busybody: I mentioned, recently (maybe not in the posts you read) that my eyes are naturally aligned with both of this guys monitors when I walk in the office, so it’s somewhat unavoidable. That, and I sit 24" to his side, so if I notice silence for an abnormal amount of time I turn and look in his direction (out of genuine concern, maybe he stopped breathing). I think i did already mention (maybe not in one of the posts you read) that I could be way off about how much time he wastes doing nothing. I will add this, I notice that he sometimes scrambles and gets back to work when I come in the office, that is flattering. And another thing, based on some of the responses here, I am questioning the percentage of GAL posters that actually lift.
And another thing, yea I am a sensitive guy. But my energy spent on this subject is more due to my passion for working hard. It’s also due to my frustration at my previous employer who would let me contribute in any way, thats where this guy belongs. My current employer is begging for help from us, to not step up and contribute in a motivated, enthusiastic way is puzzling to me. THIS is why I am responding the way I am. Cause It is a deep subject for me. Think about it, all you proud slackers out there would starve in prehistoric times. In a tough economy, no company has any extra money to piss away on shitty employees.
One more thing, I am taking advice on the question asked, I’m not here for a personality adjustment. You guys don’t know the full story about where I work, so stick to the questions that I’m asking.