[quote]DBCooper wrote:
[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
[quote]DBCooper wrote:
[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
[quote]DBCooper wrote:
[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:
[quote]DBCooper wrote:
Y’all are a bunch of betas. If you take your GF to the club and she’s hot, expect her to get attention from other guys. If you’re confident in yourself and your relationship and your GF isn’t a complete slut, then who cares if some dude starts hitting on her? Scared it’s gonna work? Who cares if she approaches some other dude and initiates a conversation with him? Like I said, if this is a problem you’re either insecure, she’s a slut and your concerns are warranted (and you should ditch her).
If you think you have to go and “protect” her from some possible harassment or make your presence felt, you’re a beta-bitch. That whole “protect” her or “look out” for her is just a bullshit excuse to mask your own insecurity under the guise of “being manly”. Women are fucking human beings, not pieces of property, and if you start treating them like pieces of property or investments that need to be protected, then you’ll have every reason to trip out if she starts talking to another guy at the club because she’s probably looking to lay the groundwork for an easy rebound fuck after she ditches your insecure ass.
If your GF really is being harassed, it will be obvious even from a distance (unless you don’t know her that well, in which case take a look in the fucking mirror when looking for reasons why she might be talking to another guy to begin with). If that’s not the case, there’s no need to come over under the bitch-guise of “seeing if she’s alright” because believe it or not, she’s an adult and can take care of herself. If she can’t, then she needs to grow up rather than have a boyfriend who’s job it is to play surrogate father for her. If she is being hassled, calmly come over and tell the guy to fuck off.
And some women will purposefully engage in conversation with another guy just to test your ass. Don’t fall for that shit. They just want to see if they’ve got you on a leash or not. They start talking to a guy, you come running over, and in their mind they just yanked on that leash and you were on the end of it like a trained fucking dog.[/quote]
LMAO, someone must have qeueued the over the top “alpha” response complete with the term “beta” and the unneccessary cussing and derogitory terms. Do guys like this actually exist in real life or is this just an internet persona?? Does TNation breed these idiots or what? I don’t think I’ve seen as many “you’re not as alpha as me” posts on any other site I’ve ever been to.
Before coming to a thread cooper and accusing others of being Beta read the post you’re about to click submit on and ask yourself. “Do I sound like a rational and articulate individual or someone just flapping their lips and pumping their fists??” I’m sure there was some good points that we could have discussed in your post but it was disguised by all the guido over top bullshit that plagued your post. If you want anybody to actually read your posts and take them seriously cut all the alpha bullshit on out of it.
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Spoken like a true fucking bitch. Did my post hit a little too close to home for you or what? Did I paint a picture that resembles you more closely than you care to admit?[/quote]
And it continues…
Notice how I told you to calm down so that we can actually discuss any points you may have had but instead you went over the top AGAIN because someone called you out… That actually reaks of insecurity. You’re obviously a little boy with security issues. You actually get upset enough over interwebz that you go around calling people you know nothing about a fucking bitch?? Thats socially acceptable in the world you’re from huh?? Once again try and read the posts you click submit on and ask yourself if you sound like an adult or an insecure lil boy. You sound like the lil kids I see on the metro while on the traing going thru compton. All loud and over the top trying to sound tough and cool, little do they know they sound like ignorant idiots.[/quote]
Actually, I feel entirely secure in the nature of my posts and the validity of my points regardless of the fucking language I fucking use because in all honesty, I can be a crude, vulgar person sometimes, but that’s how I am for better or for worse.
My security in who I am and how you may perceive me are firmly rock solid and therefore I see no need to censor myself or change the way I write posts in order to placate you or try to achieve some ideal that you feel I should strive to be like. I am calm; I just tend to write in a manner that sometimes carries the impression of a barely-hinged lunatic…something that has obviously been lost on you.
All I know is that when my beautiful girlfriend and I go out on the town and I see men hit on her, my overwhelming amount of security in who I am as a man negates the need for me to continually hover around her like some guardian angel. I feel extremely secure in who she is as a woman and feel equally secure that my own character judgment is such that I can accurately come to the conclusion that she loves me enough to not cheat on me.[/quote]
Did you even read my posts?? I never elluded to the fact that if someone hits on my girl I need to establish myself in an aggressive manner, all I said was that if someone hits on my girl while she is with me then thats disrespectful. Most of my posts were in regards to what I would do or my opinion on what should be done if my girl were to leave me and my friends at a bar to talk to some random stranger. Now if you’re so confident in yourself that you wouldn’t care if you’re girl walked away from you and your friends at a bar and started drinking with some guy she’s never met then thats on you, but I never said if that happened I would go over there and hover around her or be her guardian, I think you’re confusing my posts with some of the other posters in this thread unless you’re just speaking generally about the subject. I stated that if my girl walked away from me to go talk and drink with some guy she doesn’t know at a bar I would leave her ass, I’m not here to feed anyone’s hoe tendancies. Plain and simple. I don’t think that speaks on my insecurity issues, but rather I don’t want a girl who thinks it’s cool to leave her bf hanging while she socializes with strangers. If you’re girlfriend does that shit and you’re cool with it then you 2 are a match made for the stars, congrats. All I know is that wouldn’t fly with me.
And you’re right, you can write however you want as is you’re right. If you don’t mind sounding like a lunatic then by all means go around jumping in conversations calling people fuckin bitches and disrespecting people you don’t know. That’ll really get you far in life and on these threads. Matter of fact around these parts people will probably praise you as being Alpha as fuk.
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Did YOU read MY original post, the first one you quoted that set you off? The one you quoted above does not in any way shape or form address you specifically. In fact, I would have to agree with your overall sentiments. However you read my facetious, admittedly poor attempt at humor (the words “beta-bitches”) and apparently have interpreted those words as a personal attack on you. Where does the insecurity lie now?
Not only that, you accuse me of getting upset over the “interwebz”, yet you then make the asinine statement “That’ll get you real far in life and on these threads.” Sounds to me like you are the one getting upset over the internet and taking it a little too seriously by relating this thread to Real Life. My initial post that you have so kindly cited above was in reference to those who DO constantly stalk and hover around their GF. Yet you took it as a personal attack. How revealing. Granted my attempt at humor was poor, and as a person totally secure in myself I am more than willing to admit the shortcomings of my sense of humor.
But the humor involved clearly went right over your head in such a manner that I suspect you are incapable of taking this thread with anything but the utmost seriousness. I am tempted to point out that your inability to notice humor (even humor as tasteless as mine), coupled with your lightning-quick jump to the conclusion that my very vague and general post was aimed at you specifically, is a betrayal of your true behavior around men who engage your girlfriend in friendly, meaningless conversation. That is if you even have a girlfriend. But I’ll resist that temptation for now.[/quote]
I actually didn’t respond the first time as if you were speaking to me directly, I responded in a general manner about how asanine your post was and how there seems to be a lot of the “Alpha Male” posters in these threads. I’m perfectly capable of picking up on humor if thats what you call your last few posts, for instance Vegita’s posts were funny, LankEy’s post was funny, you know the one that you gave him shit for, and a few others, yours were not. I aplogize for not picking up on your humor, but I think thats more of a failure on your part not mine because it seems like I wasn’t the only poster who didn’t lul at your post. Aww well… Better luck next time
