Skinny Fat Jealous Boyfriend Syndrome

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[quote]Vegita wrote:

[quote]debraD wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

[quote]debraD wrote:
We don’t go to the bar anymore but way back my boyfriend always took it as a complement when other guys were sending me drinks and stuff. We never went to clubs though.

I had a previous boyfriend publicly back hand me when some random guy at Denny’s told me I had nice tits (because I smirked) so I always immediately ended relationships when even the slightest bit of jealousy appeared. [/quote]

Damn! you got the pimp hand? Did he even say anything to the guy who made the comment? I mean any guy who makes a comment about a females tits in the presence of her BF/Husband, is either really good friends with the guy and is busting chops and they are cool with it, or he is directly calling the guy a pussy.

“look I can tell your girl she has nice tits and you won’t do anything to me because you’re a little pussy.” The fact that he hit you only proves that point though I guess.

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No, the guy was long gone. We were just coming in and the guy and his friends were just leaving. I’m not sure the comment was actually meant for my ears or not. But the boyfriend was definitely an ass who provided me a dozens of red flags to watch for in the future! The jealousy thing was always the biggest one.[/quote]

Damn, you have had your share of run ins with some real douchers. If I was a chick i’d havd a tazer fucking hanging from my belt at all times. Fucking any doods gave me shit I’d be tazering fools left and right. What did you just say about my tits? ZZZZZZZZZZZZAP! How do they look now motherfucker? Oh you can’t see them because your crying on the ground like a little girl? Maybe you should have listened to your mother when she told you how to talk to a lady.

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haha!

Well now that I have some self-respect and some power behind my punch no one gives me a chance to do anything fun like that. Staying out of bars, Denny’s on the weekends during bar hours and moving to a pleasant little town has been the reason that doesn’t happen anymore. Plus I was 17 at the time and the douche making the comment was probably not much older.

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I could never understand how a total stranger can be such a challenge to one’s respect. That’s a big pile of shit if you ask me.[/quote]

I was trying to figure out the right way to say this… but this is definitely spot on when it comes to me…

Unless this dude says shit and starts something physical… I’m just gonna tell him to go fuck himself and walk away.

Like this dude who pushed me away from this recently divorced woman(wore a black veil and was having a party similar to a bachelorette party only the opposite i guess) who was all over my nuts. I thought it could be the ex-husband haha so i backed off and was like whats up man? He told me to get lost… I asked if this was a girl he came here with and he said no. So I told him to let the girl choose. She chose me. So i get back to having her rub me up and down. Then he shoves me and says some shit… that was it… I was gonna lay him out, but by the time I turned around he was already running away like a pussy.

I think that was the closest I have ever come to fighting someone. It just isn’t worth it.

I don’t get it? Does a girl want you to knock someone’s teeth out? Seems childish over some stupid words. Like “nice tits”… or something would mean nothing. But if he said he fucked my girlfriend in the ass and blew a load on her face… i might have to kick his ass…

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[quote]sam_sneed wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

What if he is insecure and the cracks are a defense strategy to keep you entertained? You’d try to kick a guys ass for a few less than witty comments? What if said insecure wisecrackmaker is a veteran systema practitioner eh? WHAT DO YOU DO THEN? [/quote]

If his remarks poke fun at me or my girl, then there’s going to be a problem. There’s a difference between making an entertaining comment and taking shots at someone. I don’t know what systema is nor do I really care.
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All you need to know is that they’d probably win.

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[quote]
Also, based on what the OP wrote (bullshit or not) my impression was that the girl was simply talking to him; he said nothing about the girl crossing the room to engage him in conversation.
[/quote] Didn’t he mention that the girl came to him and started talking to him, then their bf came over. Implying that he wasn’t just sitting next to them, but the girl actually walked to him to engage in a convo?

To clarify,…

It was casual conversation. There wasn’t any blatant room crossing. I recently moved to a new city and am constantly meeting new people.

I was making the point that I wasn’t walking up to random girls when their bf went to the bathroom.

I thought I would share because it was weird that the same thing happened multiple times in a short time period.

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[quote]debraD wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

[quote]debraD wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

[quote]debraD wrote:
We don’t go to the bar anymore but way back my boyfriend always took it as a complement when other guys were sending me drinks and stuff. We never went to clubs though.

I had a previous boyfriend publicly back hand me when some random guy at Denny’s told me I had nice tits (because I smirked) so I always immediately ended relationships when even the slightest bit of jealousy appeared. [/quote]

Damn! you got the pimp hand? Did he even say anything to the guy who made the comment? I mean any guy who makes a comment about a females tits in the presence of her BF/Husband, is either really good friends with the guy and is busting chops and they are cool with it, or he is directly calling the guy a pussy.

“look I can tell your girl she has nice tits and you won’t do anything to me because you’re a little pussy.” The fact that he hit you only proves that point though I guess.

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No, the guy was long gone. We were just coming in and the guy and his friends were just leaving. I’m not sure the comment was actually meant for my ears or not. But the boyfriend was definitely an ass who provided me a dozens of red flags to watch for in the future! The jealousy thing was always the biggest one.[/quote]

Damn, you have had your share of run ins with some real douchers. If I was a chick i’d havd a tazer fucking hanging from my belt at all times. Fucking any doods gave me shit I’d be tazering fools left and right. What did you just say about my tits? ZZZZZZZZZZZZAP! How do they look now motherfucker? Oh you can’t see them because your crying on the ground like a little girl? Maybe you should have listened to your mother when she told you how to talk to a lady.

V[/quote]
haha!

Well now that I have some self-respect and some power behind my punch no one gives me a chance to do anything fun like that. Staying out of bars, Denny’s on the weekends during bar hours and moving to a pleasant little town has been the reason that doesn’t happen anymore. Plus I was 17 at the time and the douche making the comment was probably not much older. [/quote]

Late night Denny’s is probably more intense than 99% of bars/clubs…

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[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]sam_sneed wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

What if he is insecure and the cracks are a defense strategy to keep you entertained? You’d try to kick a guys ass for a few less than witty comments? What if said insecure wisecrackmaker is a veteran systema practitioner eh? WHAT DO YOU DO THEN? [/quote]

If his remarks poke fun at me or my girl, then there’s going to be a problem. There’s a difference between making an entertaining comment and taking shots at someone. I don’t know what systema is nor do I really care.
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All you need to know is that they’d probably win.[/quote]

Oh OK. Cool. If someone insults me or my girlfriend in the future, I’ll be sure to get his credentials before I decide to do anything. Thanks.

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[quote]sam_sneed wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

[quote]sam_sneed wrote:

[quote]Mackk wrote:

What if he is insecure and the cracks are a defense strategy to keep you entertained? You’d try to kick a guys ass for a few less than witty comments? What if said insecure wisecrackmaker is a veteran systema practitioner eh? WHAT DO YOU DO THEN? [/quote]

If his remarks poke fun at me or my girl, then there’s going to be a problem. There’s a difference between making an entertaining comment and taking shots at someone. I don’t know what systema is nor do I really care.
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All you need to know is that they’d probably win.[/quote]

Oh OK. Cool. If someone insults me or my girlfriend in the future, I’ll be sure to get his credentials before I decide to do anything. Thanks.
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I’m just sayin the ‘pissed off boyfriend rage’ more often than not leads to stupid decisions and painful consequences rather than looking tough in front of your lady-friend.

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I understand that being disrespected is angering, especially when the guy has the audacity to hit on your girl in front of you and then insult you. But as a girlfriend, I won’t like that a fight resulted because of it. Fights over men/women is stupid. I had a friend in my sophomore year who was stabbed in the neck and died because of a girl. At any age, dying over a girl is terrible but when you’re 15-16? So I’ll be more mad at my boyfriend than proud for him handling a situation like that. I love my boyfriend too much to even think that something can happen to him because of a dumbass who didn’t have a chance with me anyway.

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[quote]debraD wrote:

My boyfriend isn’t a chickenshit. He just knows who I’m going home with and who I’m not. I’m a polite person and when someone pays me a compliment I don’t get all shitty about it or scream to a boyfriend. If someone buys me a drink I say thank you and accept it gracefully. It’s part of being in bar. I think if you can’t handle the environment you should stick to restaurants and movie theatres.

I could never understand how a total stranger can be such a challenge to one’s respect. That’s a big pile of shit if you ask me.[/quote]
I wasn’t trying to imply that your bf was chicken shit, I guess i should have split up my last post into 2 different posts. I mean to say I’ve seen guys hit on other guys girl and I think it’s chicken shit!

Then in the next paragraph I think it’s disrespectful for a man to try and buy a girl a drink when she’s with her bf.

The first paragraph I was referring to instances where a female would be literally walking with her boyfriend holding hands and a guy would try and talk to her and she would kind of ignore him then the guy kinda grabbed her hand and pulled her towards him trying to get her to sit down with him and talk. The bf didn’t do anything except wait for his girl to tell him no and keep walking. To me thats chickenshit. I’ll be damned if I’m walking with my girl some guy hits on her she says no so he tries to grab her hand and pull her from me. The bf in this situation was actually buff as all hell too, I was quite surprised at the whole encounter.

Buying someone a drink at the other end of the bar is like I said disrespectful, but not quite chickenshit of the bf if he chooses not to do something, because thats a bit more subtle then grabbing you. I’m actually not sure what I’d do if I was with my girl and someone sent a drink over for her. I’d probably raise it to him and say thanks then chug it and kiss my girl. lol

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[quote]Nikki9591 wrote:
I understand that being disrespected is angering, especially when the guy has the audacity to hit on your girl in front of you and then insult you. But as a girlfriend, I won’t like that a fight resulted because of it. Fights over men/women is stupid. I had a friend in my sophomore year who was stabbed in the neck and died because of a girl. At any age, dying over a girl is terrible but when you’re 15-16? So I’ll be more mad at my boyfriend than proud for him handling a situation like that. I love my boyfriend too much to even think that something can happen to him because of a dumbass who didn’t have a chance with me anyway.[/quote]

I think most girls think this way! I wouldn’t even be with a girl who encouraged me to fight, but on the same token I don’t think most guys care if their girl wants them to fight or not. If the guy is the type that doesn’t like to back down from others and someone is being blantantly disrespectful there’s not much you can do. I’ve had friends get killed over bs fights as well. Not always right away either, sometimes you fight the wrong person and embarrass them they opt to come back with a gun to prove how tough you are. Fighting definitely is dangerous, but then again so is life.

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Let it be known: Sarcasm leads to stabbings and murders.

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Y’all are a bunch of betas. If you take your GF to the club and she’s hot, expect her to get attention from other guys. If you’re confident in yourself and your relationship and your GF isn’t a complete slut, then who cares if some dude starts hitting on her? Scared it’s gonna work? Who cares if she approaches some other dude and initiates a conversation with him? Like I said, if this is a problem you’re either insecure, she’s a slut and your concerns are warranted (and you should ditch her).

If you think you have to go and “protect” her from some possible harassment or make your presence felt, you’re a beta-bitch. That whole “protect” her or “look out” for her is just a bullshit excuse to mask your own insecurity under the guise of “being manly”. Women are fucking human beings, not pieces of property, and if you start treating them like pieces of property or investments that need to be protected, then you’ll have every reason to trip out if she starts talking to another guy at the club because she’s probably looking to lay the groundwork for an easy rebound fuck after she ditches your insecure ass.

If your GF really is being harassed, it will be obvious even from a distance (unless you don’t know her that well, in which case take a look in the fucking mirror when looking for reasons why she might be talking to another guy to begin with). If that’s not the case, there’s no need to come over under the bitch-guise of “seeing if she’s alright” because believe it or not, she’s an adult and can take care of herself. If she can’t, then she needs to grow up rather than have a boyfriend who’s job it is to play surrogate father for her. If she is being hassled, calmly come over and tell the guy to fuck off.

And some women will purposefully engage in conversation with another guy just to test your ass. Don’t fall for that shit. They just want to see if they’ve got you on a leash or not. They start talking to a guy, you come running over, and in their mind they just yanked on that leash and you were on the end of it like a trained fucking dog.

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[quote]DBCooper wrote:
Y’all are a bunch of betas. If you take your GF to the club and she’s hot, expect her to get attention from other guys. If you’re confident in yourself and your relationship and your GF isn’t a complete slut, then who cares if some dude starts hitting on her? Scared it’s gonna work? Who cares if she approaches some other dude and initiates a conversation with him? Like I said, if this is a problem you’re either insecure, she’s a slut and your concerns are warranted (and you should ditch her).

If you think you have to go and “protect” her from some possible harassment or make your presence felt, you’re a beta-bitch. That whole “protect” her or “look out” for her is just a bullshit excuse to mask your own insecurity under the guise of “being manly”. Women are fucking human beings, not pieces of property, and if you start treating them like pieces of property or investments that need to be protected, then you’ll have every reason to trip out if she starts talking to another guy at the club because she’s probably looking to lay the groundwork for an easy rebound fuck after she ditches your insecure ass.

If your GF really is being harassed, it will be obvious even from a distance (unless you don’t know her that well, in which case take a look in the fucking mirror when looking for reasons why she might be talking to another guy to begin with). If that’s not the case, there’s no need to come over under the bitch-guise of “seeing if she’s alright” because believe it or not, she’s an adult and can take care of herself. If she can’t, then she needs to grow up rather than have a boyfriend who’s job it is to play surrogate father for her. If she is being hassled, calmly come over and tell the guy to fuck off.
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Thanks for that Dr. Phil.

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[quote]DBCooper wrote:
Y’all are a bunch of betas. If you take your GF to the club and she’s hot, expect her to get attention from other guys. If you’re confident in yourself and your relationship and your GF isn’t a complete slut, then who cares if some dude starts hitting on her? Scared it’s gonna work? Who cares if she approaches some other dude and initiates a conversation with him? Like I said, if this is a problem you’re either insecure, she’s a slut and your concerns are warranted (and you should ditch her).

If you think you have to go and “protect” her from some possible harassment or make your presence felt, you’re a beta-bitch. That whole “protect” her or “look out” for her is just a bullshit excuse to mask your own insecurity under the guise of “being manly”. Women are fucking human beings, not pieces of property, and if you start treating them like pieces of property or investments that need to be protected, then you’ll have every reason to trip out if she starts talking to another guy at the club because she’s probably looking to lay the groundwork for an easy rebound fuck after she ditches your insecure ass.

If your GF really is being harassed, it will be obvious even from a distance (unless you don’t know her that well, in which case take a look in the fucking mirror when looking for reasons why she might be talking to another guy to begin with). If that’s not the case, there’s no need to come over under the bitch-guise of “seeing if she’s alright” because believe it or not, she’s an adult and can take care of herself. If she can’t, then she needs to grow up rather than have a boyfriend who’s job it is to play surrogate father for her. If she is being hassled, calmly come over and tell the guy to fuck off.

And some women will purposefully engage in conversation with another guy just to test your ass. Don’t fall for that shit. They just want to see if they’ve got you on a leash or not. They start talking to a guy, you come running over, and in their mind they just yanked on that leash and you were on the end of it like a trained fucking dog.[/quote]

Interesting, When I saw you had a response I was almost positive it was going to be “Slit his fucking throat!” LOL

V

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Hey, if a guy buys my GF a drink, he’ll get a ‘thank you’ from us and that would be it.

It had better be a drink that she likes, too. If it’s not, then we’ll have a problem.

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Cooper already said something along those lines. Now he got rational :slight_smile:

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[quote]DBCooper wrote:
Y’all are a bunch of betas. If you take your GF to the club and she’s hot, expect her to get attention from other guys. If you’re confident in yourself and your relationship and your GF isn’t a complete slut, then who cares if some dude starts hitting on her? Scared it’s gonna work? Who cares if she approaches some other dude and initiates a conversation with him? Like I said, if this is a problem you’re either insecure, she’s a slut and your concerns are warranted (and you should ditch her).

If you think you have to go and “protect” her from some possible harassment or make your presence felt, you’re a beta-bitch. That whole “protect” her or “look out” for her is just a bullshit excuse to mask your own insecurity under the guise of “being manly”. Women are fucking human beings, not pieces of property, and if you start treating them like pieces of property or investments that need to be protected, then you’ll have every reason to trip out if she starts talking to another guy at the club because she’s probably looking to lay the groundwork for an easy rebound fuck after she ditches your insecure ass.

If your GF really is being harassed, it will be obvious even from a distance (unless you don’t know her that well, in which case take a look in the fucking mirror when looking for reasons why she might be talking to another guy to begin with). If that’s not the case, there’s no need to come over under the bitch-guise of “seeing if she’s alright” because believe it or not, she’s an adult and can take care of herself. If she can’t, then she needs to grow up rather than have a boyfriend who’s job it is to play surrogate father for her. If she is being hassled, calmly come over and tell the guy to fuck off.

And some women will purposefully engage in conversation with another guy just to test your ass. Don’t fall for that shit. They just want to see if they’ve got you on a leash or not. They start talking to a guy, you come running over, and in their mind they just yanked on that leash and you were on the end of it like a trained fucking dog.[/quote]

LMAO, someone must have qeueued the over the top “alpha” response complete with the term “beta” and the unneccessary cussing and derogitory terms. Do guys like this actually exist in real life or is this just an internet persona?? Does TNation breed these idiots or what? I don’t think I’ve seen as many “you’re not as alpha as me” posts on any other site I’ve ever been to.

Before coming to a thread cooper and accusing others of being Beta read the post you’re about to click submit on and ask yourself. “Do I sound like a rational and articulate individual or someone just flapping their lips and pumping their fists??” I’m sure there was some good points that we could have discussed in your post but it was disguised by all the guido over top bullshit that plagued your post. If you want anybody to actually read your posts and take them seriously cut all the alpha bullshit on out of it.

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[quote]sam_sneed wrote:

[quote]DBCooper wrote:
Y’all are a bunch of betas. If you take your GF to the club and she’s hot, expect her to get attention from other guys. If you’re confident in yourself and your relationship and your GF isn’t a complete slut, then who cares if some dude starts hitting on her? Scared it’s gonna work? Who cares if she approaches some other dude and initiates a conversation with him? Like I said, if this is a problem you’re either insecure, she’s a slut and your concerns are warranted (and you should ditch her).

If you think you have to go and “protect” her from some possible harassment or make your presence felt, you’re a beta-bitch. That whole “protect” her or “look out” for her is just a bullshit excuse to mask your own insecurity under the guise of “being manly”. Women are fucking human beings, not pieces of property, and if you start treating them like pieces of property or investments that need to be protected, then you’ll have every reason to trip out if she starts talking to another guy at the club because she’s probably looking to lay the groundwork for an easy rebound fuck after she ditches your insecure ass.

If your GF really is being harassed, it will be obvious even from a distance (unless you don’t know her that well, in which case take a look in the fucking mirror when looking for reasons why she might be talking to another guy to begin with). If that’s not the case, there’s no need to come over under the bitch-guise of “seeing if she’s alright” because believe it or not, she’s an adult and can take care of herself. If she can’t, then she needs to grow up rather than have a boyfriend who’s job it is to play surrogate father for her. If she is being hassled, calmly come over and tell the guy to fuck off.
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Thanks for that Dr. Phil.[/quote]

You ever read “Tough Guys Don’t Dance” by Norman Mailer?

Let me tell you where the title comes from. The main character tells his friend a story about this gangster (Frank Costello) who goes to the stork club with his smokin’ hot GF and three big-time boxers. Costello’s GF wants to dance, but Costello doesn’t want to so he has each of the prize-fighters take a turn dancing with her instead while he calmly watches, feeling totally unthreatened by three different young, good-looking, semi-famous guys dancing with his young GF. The last boxer nervously asks Costello why he won’t dance with his GF and Costello cooly tells him “Tough guys don’t dance.”

I want you to think about that little anecdote the next time you’re at the club and your GF talks to another guy and you, in your insecurity masked in some John Wayne-like machismo guise, head over to hover over her like you fucking own her.

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[quote]DBCooper wrote:
Y’all are a bunch of betas. If you take your GF to the club and she’s hot, expect her to get attention from other guys. If you’re confident in yourself and your relationship and your GF isn’t a complete slut, then who cares if some dude starts hitting on her? Scared it’s gonna work? Who cares if she approaches some other dude and initiates a conversation with him? Like I said, if this is a problem you’re either insecure, she’s a slut and your concerns are warranted (and you should ditch her).

If you think you have to go and “protect” her from some possible harassment or make your presence felt, you’re a beta-bitch. That whole “protect” her or “look out” for her is just a bullshit excuse to mask your own insecurity under the guise of “being manly”. Women are fucking human beings, not pieces of property, and if you start treating them like pieces of property or investments that need to be protected, then you’ll have every reason to trip out if she starts talking to another guy at the club because she’s probably looking to lay the groundwork for an easy rebound fuck after she ditches your insecure ass.

If your GF really is being harassed, it will be obvious even from a distance (unless you don’t know her that well, in which case take a look in the fucking mirror when looking for reasons why she might be talking to another guy to begin with). If that’s not the case, there’s no need to come over under the bitch-guise of “seeing if she’s alright” because believe it or not, she’s an adult and can take care of herself. If she can’t, then she needs to grow up rather than have a boyfriend who’s job it is to play surrogate father for her. If she is being hassled, calmly come over and tell the guy to fuck off.

And some women will purposefully engage in conversation with another guy just to test your ass. Don’t fall for that shit. They just want to see if they’ve got you on a leash or not. They start talking to a guy, you come running over, and in their mind they just yanked on that leash and you were on the end of it like a trained fucking dog.[/quote]

Amen for gay men.

Like this one time my girl was talking to some other guys, but I know she wouldn’t do nothin’ so I just keep playing it straight, letting her do her thing, ya know? So she comes over and tells me she’s gonna go outside an catch a smoke with her new buds, no prob I say cause that’s what I do.

So a few minutes goes by, but I’m just chillin’. Well then a couple hours go by and I’m all like WTF, that’s one big ass cigarette she must be smokin’, ya know?

So finally she comes back in, it’s around closin’ time an her hair is all disheveled and she ain’t got a bra on. Now I’m wonderin’ what is goin’ on, ya know?

Apparently her bra was makin’ her itch and it was mad windy outside an shit causin’ her hair to get all disheveled. I went over to her new guy buds and was like ay yo thanks for takin’ care a my girl, ya know? They all started chucklin’, prolly cause they were mad jealous a me, ya know?

See fellas, no need to get all insecure an shit.

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^^^^^^^ Beta Pussy^^^^^^

Edit: This was meant for Andrew.