Skinny Fat Jealous Boyfriend Syndrome

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[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
Why do guys go to a bar with their girlfriend if the girlfriend is not allowed to talk to anybody? Is it so you can “show her off”? If that’s the case, how can you be pissed when some guy acknowledges your hot asz girlfriend?

And while it might be true that 100% of the time a guy approaches a girl in a bar it is to initiate a sexual rendezvous, it is my experience that 99.9% of the time the guy is so socially inept at speaking to the opposite sex that he couldn’t close the deal even if the girl was willing. Obviously this does not apply to anyone on this site as all of the male posters have mad-crazy-lady-killer-skilz, but those boys do exist.

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To drink and have a good time possibly? On the rare occasion that I go to a bar with my girl we go in a group. If she’s talking to guys we went there with, even if they are a friend of a friend and I don’t know them then thats cool. If she leaves me or the group to go talk to another guy thats not cool.

If you’re bf is at a bar with you and you feel the urge to talk to some other guy then find yourself a more interesting man cuz he’s obviously boring as all hell. When I go out me and my friends are having a good time laughing and socializing. My group of friends definitely know how to entertain, especially if there’s pretty females in our group. If my girl friend up and left that environment to talk to a stranger, ya I’d say she has questionable motives.

I do think it’s interesting when females try to rationalize talking to guys they don’t know at the bar when they have a bf. They always use the excuse, well as long as my bf knows I’m coming home to him whats the problem. But every girl I’ve met that had that mentality has cheated. lol Maybe there are actually a small exception to that rule and 1 girl out of a 1000 may actually go out talk to guys when she has a boyfriend and not cheat, but 99.99999% of the time that is not the case.

If a girl has a boyfriend and still chooses to go out and talk to other men, it really is a matter of time before she cheats, especially at a bar when there’s liquor involved. I’ve seen really innocent and faithful girls make that mistake. Anyone who tries to justify that and say they are faithful is full of sh* IMO.

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[quote]polo77j wrote:
FWIW to Andrew and Nikki … OP’s full of shit. I highly highly doubt any of this really happened to him. He’s spun bullshit stories in the past and whenever he spins a new one I call him out and he disappears for months only to re-emerge with another bs story.

Don’t believe the hype…

But you two can continue your debate about relationship morals … it’s pretty interesting[/quote]

I’m full of shit because I don’t post videos or pictures of people without their consent, and I still find your delusions entertaining.

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I must say I been on both ends. Dated a 19 year old 3 years ago. Proceeded to by her a Tiffany’s ring.

The guy I was suspiscious of turned out not to be one she jumped on after i broke it off cause she gave me the gift of crabs.

Proceeded to get into arguement, so she would throw ring at me and I could pawn said ring. That worked.

Pawn shop said they could only give me $20 for said ring. I produced receipt of $385 ring.

It was explained to me that diamond wasn’t bigger than a sand speck, so that was the price I was to receive.

Morale of story: Girls do anything for twenty bucks.

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OP, Would you consider yourself a ‘lifter’ or a ‘jogger’?

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Insecurity ftw!

For those of you who suspect you are dating a girl who can be coaxed into cheating on you over the course of a 2 - 3 minute conversation at a bar… you’d be better served running to the local clinic for a pube comb and broad-spectrum anti’s than you would be by beating your chest at every guy who eyeballs her.

I say ‘2 - 3’ minutes because she went to the bar with YOU… so it’s a little fucking disrespectful if she spends the night gabbing with some dude.

Of course, I don’t buy the “I don’t wanna be rude” excuse for not disclosing that you have a significant other during a conversation at a bar (until shit gets real). You know why a stranger talks to you - and it’s not because you look like you have an interesting personality. Just admit you are hunting for free drinks, an ego boost, or are simply a closet skank and save us all the shitty, hole-filled rationalizations.

Your boyfriend shouldn’t have to piss on you every night just so other guys know you get a regular dick on a regular basis.

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[quote]mallen5 wrote:

[quote]polo77j wrote:
FWIW to Andrew and Nikki … OP’s full of shit. I highly highly doubt any of this really happened to him. He’s spun bullshit stories in the past and whenever he spins a new one I call him out and he disappears for months only to re-emerge with another bs story.

Don’t believe the hype…

But you two can continue your debate about relationship morals … it’s pretty interesting[/quote]

I’m full of shit because I don’t post videos or pictures of people without their consent, and I still find your delusions entertaining.

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You’re full of shit because you’re full of shit … the fact that you adamantly claimed you’d post pics and failed to do so just validated our suspicions

Now go post another bs story about how awesome you are douche … it helps me pass the time at work

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[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
Why do guys go to a bar with their girlfriend if the girlfriend is not allowed to talk to anybody? Is it so you can “show her off”? If that’s the case, how can you be pissed when some guy acknowledges your hot asz girlfriend?
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I don’t go out to the bar with just the 2 of us. Luckily, my current girlfriend isn’t into the bar/club scene. But we may end up at one if we’re invited to a birthday party for one of her friends and some shit. That might be when some drunk douche would hit on her when I go to the bathroom or some shit.

Disclaimer: When I was younger, I used to be one of these drunk douches. But, if a boyfriend ever came over and introduced himself, I’d respectfully disengage from the conversation. Not be a wiseass like some of the other posters advocated.

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[quote]SkyNett wrote:

[quote]polo77j wrote:

Did you think we’d forget that you’re full of shit? Here’s an idea redeem yourself somewhat: Next time a dime piece approaches you in a bar, whip out your phone and record the whole encounter, right down to the skinny fat boyfriend passive/aggressive encounter. Mmmmkay? Until then shut the fuck up about some nickel piece approaching you in a drunken haze and your dillusional assessment that her boyfriend feels threatened by your 160lb ass.

Either that or stop making up stories to sound cool…Obvious pathetic is obvious[/quote]

lol…classic.

These tough guy threads are always awesome. Because no matter how true it may be (and it very well may be completely true, or complete bullshit) everybody sounds like a douche when recounting how they went Billy badass on someone. [/quote]

What about my response? What did I sound like? Billy Awesomeass?

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[quote]Vegita wrote:

[quote]SkyNett wrote:

[quote]polo77j wrote:

Did you think we’d forget that you’re full of shit? Here’s an idea redeem yourself somewhat: Next time a dime piece approaches you in a bar, whip out your phone and record the whole encounter, right down to the skinny fat boyfriend passive/aggressive encounter. Mmmmkay? Until then shut the fuck up about some nickel piece approaching you in a drunken haze and your dillusional assessment that her boyfriend feels threatened by your 160lb ass.

Either that or stop making up stories to sound cool…Obvious pathetic is obvious[/quote]

lol…classic.

These tough guy threads are always awesome. Because no matter how true it may be (and it very well may be completely true, or complete bullshit) everybody sounds like a douche when recounting how they went Billy badass on someone. [/quote]

What about my response? What did I sound like? Billy Awesomeass?

V[/quote]

always and forever

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[quote]polo77j wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

What about my response? What did I sound like? Billy Awesomeass?

V[/quote]

always and forever[/quote]

Oh will you two go get a room already!

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[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:

[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
Why do guys go to a bar with their girlfriend if the girlfriend is not allowed to talk to anybody? Is it so you can “show her off”? If that’s the case, how can you be pissed when some guy acknowledges your hot asz girlfriend?

And while it might be true that 100% of the time a guy approaches a girl in a bar it is to initiate a sexual rendezvous, it is my experience that 99.9% of the time the guy is so socially inept at speaking to the opposite sex that he couldn’t close the deal even if the girl was willing. Obviously this does not apply to anyone on this site as all of the male posters have mad-crazy-lady-killer-skilz, but those boys do exist.

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To drink and have a good time possibly? On the rare occasion that I go to a bar with my girl we go in a group. If she’s talking to guys we went there with, even if they are a friend of a friend and I don’t know them then thats cool. If she leaves me or the group to go talk to another guy thats not cool.

If you’re bf is at a bar with you and you feel the urge to talk to some other guy then find yourself a more interesting man cuz he’s obviously boring as all hell. When I go out me and my friends are having a good time laughing and socializing. My group of friends definitely know how to entertain, especially if there’s pretty females in our group. If my girl friend up and left that environment to talk to a stranger, ya I’d say she has questionable motives.

I do think it’s interesting when females try to rationalize talking to guys they don’t know at the bar when they have a bf. They always use the excuse, well as long as my bf knows I’m coming home to him whats the problem. But every girl I’ve met that had that mentality has cheated. lol Maybe there are actually a small exception to that rule and 1 girl out of a 1000 may actually go out talk to guys when she has a boyfriend and not cheat, but 99.99999% of the time that is not the case.

If a girl has a boyfriend and still chooses to go out and talk to other men, it really is a matter of time before she cheats, especially at a bar when there’s liquor involved. I’ve seen really innocent and faithful girls make that mistake. Anyone who tries to justify that and say they are faithful is full of sh* IMO.[/quote]

Wow.

Do you only go to bars once in a while and only as a group? Or do you mean that most times you go out to a bar it is without your girl?

Justification or not, I’ve been with my bf for almost 4 years. I know what his reaction is going to be when Charlie Manuel decides to leave Blanton out there for the 7th so sometimes I would like to know what the Mets fan sitting next to me thinks. It beats the hell out of awkward silences.

Actually this thread has given me a renewed appreciation for my BF. I go out to bars by myself all the time and he never gives me shit. Not only does he trust that I am not up to any malfeasance but understands that interacting with people outside of your normal group of friends helps keep life in perspective.

Actually a few years ago BF and I got into a fight because I was so quiet at the bar. He said he felt awkward always being the only one talking to other people while I sat idly by. He didn’t want to have to entertain me all the time. If we are out and he see someone he knows, he wants to go talk to them without feeling like he is abandoning me.

He’s a bartender so we are always talking to random strangers whenever we go out. For me, interacting with people is what a bar is all about. Otherwise I might as well save the money and just get drunk on my couch at home.

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[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:

[quote]polo77j wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

What about my response? What did I sound like? Billy Awesomeass?

V[/quote]

always and forever[/quote]

Oh will you two go get a room already!
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Being that we are both men, we make love with eachother out in an open field or on a mountain top. None of this beutiful transfer of machismo should be bottled away in some cheap motel room. Feel me Chico?

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[quote]Vegita wrote:

What about my response? What did I sound like? Billy Awesomeass?

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Yep - pretty much.

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[quote]SkyNett wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

What about my response? What did I sound like? Billy Awesomeass?

V[/quote]

Yep - pretty much. [/quote]

MM on a mountiantop?

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[quote]Vegita wrote:

[quote]SkyNett wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

What about my response? What did I sound like? Billy Awesomeass?

V[/quote]

Yep - pretty much. [/quote]

MM on a mountiantop?

V[/quote]

Lol…I’ll think about it.

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[quote]SkyNett wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

[quote]SkyNett wrote:

[quote]Vegita wrote:

What about my response? What did I sound like? Billy Awesomeass?

V[/quote]

Yep - pretty much. [/quote]

MM on a mountiantop?

V[/quote]

Lol…I’ll think about it. [/quote]

Ok let me know.

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[quote]sam_sneed wrote:

[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
Why do guys go to a bar with their girlfriend if the girlfriend is not allowed to talk to anybody? Is it so you can “show her off”? If that’s the case, how can you be pissed when some guy acknowledges your hot asz girlfriend?
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I don’t go out to the bar with just the 2 of us. Luckily, my current girlfriend isn’t into the bar/club scene. But we may end up at one if we’re invited to a birthday party for one of her friends and some shit. That might be when some drunk douche would hit on her when I go to the bathroom or some shit.

Disclaimer: When I was younger, I used to be one of these drunk douches. But, if a boyfriend ever came over and introduced himself, I’d respectfully disengage from the conversation. Not be a wiseass like some of the other posters advocated.

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I don’t go anywhere near clubs so perhaps that is where the variation lies. I generally patronize local dive bars where I know the bartenders/servers/regulars. Its a completely different atmosphere and while I am not so naive as to think the guy I am talking to has completely innocent intentions, its not a pick-up bar so he has to realize his chances are slim to none.

If there is a game on, I am going to talk about it with the people around me. As far as my bf is concerned, he loves the fact that I can blend in at a sports bar so he can scream and yell his Sunday afternoons away without me whining about going home.

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Stop flickin ur damn toothpicks at me dammit!!! I’m sensitive, you know that!

shakes head

you know that

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[quote]sam_sneed wrote:

[quote]AndrewG909 wrote:

The ability to find a girl who you can trust and not worry about cheating is quite the endeavor. I’m not insecure but if I went to a bar and my girl left me to talk to some stranger at the bar I would drop her ass. Once a girl starts acting like she’s single I leave, I’m not in a relationship to feed anyone’s hoe tendancies.

Not saying you’re a hoe, so don’t take it personal. But any girl who leaves their boyfriend to talk to random guys at a bar has questionable ethics and probably not great long term girlfriend material.[/quote]

I think the exact way on this topic matter. My girl won’t leave me to talk to go flirt with some stranger at the bar. I won’t deal with that bullshit.

I’m an old fashioned protective guy. If I see my girlfriend talking to any male stranger I pay attention to it. Not because I’m insecure and afraid she’s going to cheat, but because I want to make sure she’s OK and some dickhead isn’t harassing her. So yeah, when she’s talking to a dude she clearly doesn’t know, I’ll make my presence known. And as long as when I come over, she doesn’t annoyed or distraught I’ll leave as quickly as I showed up. This gives her the chance to break out of a bad conversation or stay and harmlessly chat if she wants.
[edit: I’m assuming in this scenario that we’re both out with a group of people]

Now if the guy was going to try and get cute with me with all these wisecracks that some of you are suggesting, I’m going to kick his ass. There’s nothing that pisses me off more than someone trying to disrespect me in front of my girlfriend in public. You’re pretty much forcing the guy to kick your ass once you disrespect him like that.[/quote]

What if he is insecure and the cracks are a defense strategy to keep you entertained? You’d try to kick a guys ass for a few less than witty comments? What if said insecure wisecrackmaker is a veteran systema practitioner eh? WHAT DO YOU DO THEN?

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[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:

Wow.

Do you only go to bars once in a while and only as a group? Or do you mean that most times you go out to a bar it is without your girl? [/quote]
I don’t go to the bar very often.

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Justification or not, I’ve been with my bf for almost 4 years. I know what his reaction is going to be when Charlie Manuel decides to leave Blanton out there for the 7th so sometimes I would like to know what the Mets fan sitting next to me thinks. It beats the hell out of awkward silences.[/quote]

We are discussing our gf’s leaving us to go talk to another guy, not us sitting at the bar and her chatting with the guy next to me. That is very different.

This thread gives me a newfound appreciation for my gf as well! lol My gf may go out with her friends but she would never go to a bar alone. She dosn’t even like going to the mall alone, she’ll often call me and ask me to talk to her on the phone because guys keep coming up to her trying to talk to her. It doesn’t help that my gf looks like she’s about 18, so she gets a lot of the more immature HS kids trying to get at her as well as older men.

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Actually a few years ago BF and I got into a fight because I was so quiet at the bar. He said he felt awkward always being the only one talking to other people while I sat idly by. He didn’t want to have to entertain me all the time. If we are out and he see someone he knows, he wants to go talk to them without feeling like he is abandoning me. [/quote]

My gf contributes to most conversations and I wouldn’t want to leave her to talk to someone else. If I wanted to talk to someone else she would want to come with and be included in the conversation.