SAMA in Real Life

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[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
How Do I tell my friends that their gilfriends and wife are cunts. I mean seriously I think I have the absolute worst luck when it comes to that.

I have 5 guys that I consider my closest friends and every single one…EVERY single damn one has a significant other that is a Thundercunt. I mean I know that a guy will usually have 1-2 friends that has a shitty girl, but EVERYONE? [/quote]

Sometimes when you’re in a whole room full of assholes, they aren’t the assholes.

You know what I mean?
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I think your point is generally valid but sometimes the group will get it wrong on an issue or about a person. You know, when mob mentality kicks in.

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[quote]on edge wrote:
He and I had another conversation today. It was the type of conversation where he wasn’t really asking anything but I spoke up anyway and suggested a course of action. The sad thing is I don’t think it matters much what he does. His situation looks so bleak I don’t see it ending well whatever he does. [/quote]

Sorry to hear that.

It’s always difficult to watch someone you care about headed toward apparently inevitable heartbreak.

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I like the wisdom of people who know more than I do, who may have already been through something I could succumb to.

I can personally attest to some of the advice given by a specific few (big shout out to AC, BG, Push, Lewhitehurst) from the SAMA forums, which saved me time, energy, money, and sanity.

People will ultimately do what they want in the end, advice is usually just that, advice.

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[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
How Do I tell my friends that their gilfriends and wife are cunts. I mean seriously I think I have the absolute worst luck when it comes to that.

I have 5 guys that I consider my closest friends and every single one…EVERY single damn one has a significant other that is a Thundercunt. I mean I know that a guy will usually have 1-2 friends that has a shitty girl, but EVERYONE? [/quote]

I am willing to bet that these friends of yours chose women for their looks, which blinded them to their horrible personalities.

Because they thought with their cocks instead of their brains, they will end up with aged bitches who have no redeeming value whatsoever.

I have a buddy who once explained it to me like this; everyone is going to lose their looks to a certain extent as we get older. So your basically left with an old bitch or asshole, or an old cool chick or cool dude. I would avoid a chick who gave me great headache at all costs, no matter how hot she might be at the moment.

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[quote]MaximusB wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
How Do I tell my friends that their gilfriends and wife are cunts. I mean seriously I think I have the absolute worst luck when it comes to that.

I have 5 guys that I consider my closest friends and every single one…EVERY single damn one has a significant other that is a Thundercunt. I mean I know that a guy will usually have 1-2 friends that has a shitty girl, but EVERYONE? [/quote]

I am willing to bet that these friends of yours chose women for their looks, which blinded them to their horrible personalities.

Because they thought with their cocks instead of their brains, they will end up with aged bitches who have no redeeming value whatsoever.

I have a buddy who once explained it to me like this; everyone is going to lose their looks to a certain extent as we get older. So your basically left with an old bitch or asshole, or an old cool chick or cool dude. I would avoid a chick who gave me great headache at all costs, no matter how hot she might be at the moment.

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Well tbh only the first girl would I classify as hot at one point, and that point was 8 years ago when she was 19, she took a serious dive when she turned 25. But honestly the rest are not anything youd even look at if they were pumping gas right next to you.

I dunno, maybe my friends are fucked and they’re a reflection of me. I mean I know I have issues but atleast I have a genuine woman who I know wants the best for me and US not just her. Regardless of our issues or our shortfalls, at the very least I know that.

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:

[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:

[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
How Do I tell my friends that their gilfriends and wife are cunts. I mean seriously I think I have the absolute worst luck when it comes to that.

I have 5 guys that I consider my closest friends and every single one…EVERY single damn one has a significant other that is a Thundercunt. I mean I know that a guy will usually have 1-2 friends that has a shitty girl, but EVERYONE? [/quote]

What makes them thundercunts? Serious question. I haven’t seen or heard anyone use the word thundercunt in a long time I love it.[/quote]

It’s really hard to give examples over the interwebz that would do the word justice. Think cunt, then think unchecked cunt.

Some examples:
One girl came to my buddies place one night to meet up with her boyfriend(my other buddy who was there) There were 3 single guys there with 3 girls who she did not know. As soon as she walked in she threw a HUGE bitchfit for no other reason than there were girls around her bf. Bitchfit included coming in and asking “who the fuck are these cunts”…actual words, throwing a wine bottle into the kitchen(which broke), and just completely immasculating my buddy.

Another girl basically lied to my friend and got pregnant…twice…yeah

Another girl is incredibly manipulative and just does really weird shit. She’s the “I have a headache so WE can’t go to your friends today”…“Oh and btw I’m feeling better so I’m gonna have some of my friends over”

Another chick bought a house with my buddy, but put it in her name because my friend has financial issues. Mind you they split everything 50/50, however ever since they bought the house he’s basically cut off from any social interaction with his friends. Unless she throws him out (which seems to be happening more frequently)

Small examples which I’m sure a lot of guys on here will just role their eyes and say no big deal, but remember this shit happens all the time.[/quote]

You have some weak ass friends, is the problem. Also? If they didn’t like it they’d make changes. [/quote]

Yeah I’m starting to realize that. Kinda big macho on the oustide lil mouse on the inside. Not all of them but atleast the guys in the first 3 incidents I listed.

I’m not sure whether the like it, don’t care, or just deal with it because they don’t think they can get something else. Regardless, the problem I’m having with it is I’m kinda figuring out where these friendships could end up going if something is not said.

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[quote]on edge wrote:
It’s easy to sit back and dole out advise from behind the key board on some of these breakup threads but what do you guys do in real life when it’s someone you know?

A young friend recently confided to me what he’s going through with his wife and I can see so clearly what really is going on and what the kid should do about it but I bite my tongue because I don’t know if I should risk influencing his path in life on a matter this big. I think I could save him a lot of heart ache in the long run but I hesitate to be so blunt with him.

About ten years ago there was a similar circumstance with a friend and I told him he needed to hire a PI to follow her to find out what he needed to know. That’s what he did and he learned a lot of valuable information. I’m not sure why I didn’t hesitate to speak up to that friend, maybe because he is my peer whereas this young friend could be my son.

I’m very conflicted. On one hand I want to tell the kid what he needs to do and on the other hand I think he needs to find his own way.[/quote]

Telling him is the right thing to do.Nobody deserves to be mislead.

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[quote]Phoenix44e wrote:
I’m having with it is I’m kinda figuring out where these friendships could end up going if something is not said. [/quote]

Do you always have to make everything about you?

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[quote]MaximusB wrote:
I like the wisdom of people who know more than I do, who may have already been through something I could succumb to.

I can personally attest to some of the advice given by a specific few (big shout out to AC, BG, Push, Lewhitehurst) from the SAMA forums, which saved me time, energy, money, and sanity.

People will ultimately do what they want in the end, advice is usually just that, advice. [/quote]

Thanks for the shout out, and what’s funny is that I have met every one of those current and former posters you mentioned IRL and call them at least once a month if/when I need advice. You have good advice seeking instincts! LOL