This post will be concerning my Mixed Pairs partner, who was also my wife. How it pertains to my training, is that she and I did not workout together. I was way too far advanced and extremely stronger than her. It made no practical sense that we should train together.
In 1976 when I was around the “gym” at the hot spot apartment complex that I lived I saw a girl about 5’1" whom I immediately noticed was blessed with small joints and large calves. She was doing her clothes at the laundry mat close to the complex’s “gym”. I struck up a conversation, which eventually led to us becoming a couple.
She was very attractive to me. She placed 5th in the 1977 Miss Jacksonville Pageant, singing “Quando m’en vo” from La Bohe’me. She had a very nice voice.
In 1978 we were married, and she began lifting weights at the gym I trained. At that time she was the only woman who worked out there. Very few women lifted weight anywhere to my knowledge. Her being short, a little bit of muscle gain showed up pretty quickly. Her thighs rounded, and with her small joints, it made them look all the larger.
In 1979, Doris Barrileaux (later known as The First Lady of Bodybuilding) put on the first women’s bodybuilding contest in Brandon, FL. My wife entered, and if recall correctly she took 3rd place.
In 1981 (I believe) Florida NPC held the first Florida Mixed Pairs Competition. We won that and she took the women’s individual title that same contest. We later went on to be invited to compete in the 1982 Mixed pairs World Bodybuilding Championship, where I wasn’t near my best shape and we came in 6th (or in this case, last), but we were televised on the Wide World Of Sports. From there we competed one more time at the IFBB North American Mixed Pairs where we placed 3rd, behind Jeff and Cory Everson, who won.
My wife helped me to get some national notoriety being together on the cover of March 1980 Strength & Health and, actually, the foldout of the August 1983 Flex Magazine
We split up shortly after the North American.
I will answer any details if you would like to know.

