After 17 years together and 2 children Mrs Scar and I are calling it quits.
I’ve been absent here, and chasing some new strange pooty. It’s actually fun!!! After 17 years the boy is out of the cage and I’ve already found quite a few ladies who have interest.
And NO…you can’t have Mrs. Scars phone #.
Wish me luck, I’m starting the 3rd quater of my life and it’s been fun so far!!!
I can choose to be miserable, or choose to be happy. I’m not going to go into details or defimate my STBX. I still love her and always will. We just won’t have new pics anymore. BUT I will show off my new girls from time to time!!!
Stay strong y’all, I’ll probably poke my head in and out every once in a while.
Good luck man. I’ve got a buddy who was engaged to be married and called it off. That guy is playin’ the field and havin’ fun. Hopefully you will be doing the same.
Oh Im so sorry to hear that you two have decided to call it quits. I sincerely wish I had a magic wand to fix it and make things better. This breaks my heart.
Best of luck to you on your new adventure. Marriage is the toughest job in the world, lord knows I have come within a hair of leaving it myself… and I am still not out of the woods yet.
Sounds like your outlook is about as positive as can be when it comes to a situation like that. Good to hear. Best of luck to you, and don’t neglect the kiddies, they tend to get the short end of stick in these situations.
I don’t want to sound preachy… but in all your ass-chasing excitement, don’t forget to spend some good quality time with your little girls. This has to be really hard on them and the last thing you want to do is screw up your relationship with your kids.
Good luck my man. Sounds as if you’re keeping the right attitude.
It’s trite to reference pop music for wisdom, but in situations like these that involve fairly universal emotions they will sometimes convey just the right tone. “Easy” by Cowboy Mouth (title track of this album: http://www.amazon.com/Easy-Cowboy-Mouth/dp/B00004TTGM/ref=pd_sim_m_img_1 ) gives that “keep your head up” message I want to send.
Knowing what we do from your posts, I’m sure you’ll take all the right steps for your kids.
[quote]sic wrote:
I don’t want to sound preachy… but in all your ass-chasing excitement, don’t forget to spend some good quality time with your little girls. This has to be really hard on them and the last thing you want to do is screw up your relationship with your kids.[/quote]
People…people. My girls are the most important things in my life and will continue to be.
You don’t know how much of a single DAD I’ve been the last year. I’m there for them most of the day everyday. Right now I’m their rock in an unstable situation. Daddys the one who comes home everyday. Daddy makes the money. Daddy cooks their Dinner, gives them baths, helps with homework.
I’m 100% sober for over a year and have grown as a person tremendously. My blinders are off. I’m 36 years old and don’t ever think I neglect my kids.
[quote]BodyBldgBabe wrote:
As if you werent cute enough, devoted dads are a huge turn on to most women! You’ll defenitely be a chick magnet my dear.
Im still sorry to hear about the split though. [/quote]
Awww…thanks for the compliment. I’m the same way with women with kids. It’s not baggage to me…it’s a gift, especially when they are good moms.
There is one girl my age Im seeing steady and things are progressing. She’s snatched me right up, and does not want to let me go. She has 2 boys and makes great $$$$$. We went to HS together but never knew each other, but we have mutual friends.
MySpace is an amazing thing too… to find old friends. I’ve hooked up with people I have not spoken with in 20 years!!!
[quote]malonetd wrote:
I guess this means you’re mot getting a pool?[/quote]
LOL!!!
Right now we are both stuck in a ridiculously expensive and large house in Cali. I live in the guest room downstairs. We have a week on and a week off. Weeks off we go stay at whoever we can, then home for kid duty. Mostly we are both there though.
It’s rough not to say mean and hurtful things or to just shut my mouth when the heat is up.
[quote]Rockscar wrote:
malonetd wrote:
I guess this means you’re mot getting a pool?
LOL!!!
Right now we are both stuck in a ridiculously expensive and large house in Cali. I live in the guest room downstairs. We have a week on and a week off. Weeks off we go stay at whoever we can, then home for kid duty. Mostly we are both there though.
It’s rough not to say mean and hurtful things or to just shut my mouth when the heat is up.[/quote]
I can imagine it can be tough. Good luck to you, it seems like you have the right attitude.
I did the same thing (no kids involved in my situation) about 18 months ago. Best decision I have ever made. I am now in a new relationship with the most amazing woman. I didnt know it was possible to be this happy in a relationship.
