[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
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[quote]orion wrote:
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[quote]Spock81 wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
Sorry to hear this IH, and I can relate to some extent.
I know it’s not really adequate compensation, but you know what? People like you and Spock and Pat (and yeah, me, too) are really GOOD people. Cause or effect, I don’t know, but folks who were given a hard time as kids are pretty consistently good, honest, kind, caring people.
The kind of people I like to have as friends, my friend.[/quote]
YA I was thinking about that last night actually! You, IH, and Pat seem like some of the nicest dudes ever. [/quote]
Thanks! The old adage is correct, nice guys finish last, BUT I won’t change that. At least not on purpose. I would rather be mocked, criticized and maligned than be a dick. [/quote]
You are missing out.
I do not try to be nice, I try to be civil.
If that gets misinterpreted as weakness however I turn into the incredible alpha schlong.
And I enjoy it.
Very.[/quote]
Sounds like a rather empty, power hungry, insecure, existence to me. I prefer real. I don’t trust people who act like you proclaim you do.
Yeah, maybe you don’t get shit on, but avoiding getting shit on and living a real honest life is not a compromise I am willing to make.[/quote]
What is this nonsense!?!
You never got shit on by some lame ass assholes who only dared to raise their meek little voices in contempt because people like you let them?
You Sir, are a pacifist, a position that invites and rewards aggression.
Next time, get your dick out, give them a good spanking and they will have a more realistic outlook on their overall importance.
Its a public service, the next ten persons who would have been abused will probably not thank you, but they should.
Jesus could whip up a shitstorm in a heartbeat if he had to, who are you, trying to outchrist Christ?
Righteous anger Sir, its part of your heritage.
Its a religious and civil obligation.
It is also whats for breakfast.[/quote]
Seems I hit a nerve. I was referring to what you said you were, I don’t actually know if you are like that or not.
You have no business commenting on my experiences because you did not know them, you were there and I actually didn’t describe them in any detail other than that they happened. So you don’t actually know what happened and what my reactions were, whether appropriate or not, so you can shut the fuck up about that.
Sure it would be wonderful if a good ass whooping would have fixed the whole thing for me any any other person who experienced the rampant incessant bullying. But what you doing is acting like I asked for it, like blaming a rape victim because they got raped…“Well if you didn’t dress like a whore…”
You said about yourself that you try to be ‘civil’ which seems to me to be an act of polite but distant, and if people act as though you are weak, you get all pissed off and throw a hissy. That’s my interpretation of your statements. So either it’s not true and you’re either a nice guy, or an asshole, or it is true and you put on an act and keep your distance from people so they don’t hurt you.
See, I made myself vulnerable here sharing my personal pains in my life so that maybe others could understand better what this girl went through, or maybe even somebody they know went or is going through. You kept your distance, which is fine, but people keeping their distance from everybody, I intemperate as insecurity, when it stated explicitly as that being your daily MO. You didn’t like it, so you accused me basically of tolerating and inviting the bullying, that I could have stopped it anytime had I just grown a pair and kicked some ass.
I am degreed and certified in psychology, I look for nuances in statements and human behavior. And I knew a long time ago you were insecure about yourself based on your posts.
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Yeah, glad you got in touch with my sensitive side.
Send me the specific GPS coordinates if you would be so kind.
Anyhow, I do not blame anyone for having been or being bullied.
I blame you for the inability to see that aggression, specifically male agression, is a force to be harnessed and to be incorporated into your very soul and nothing to shrink away from in fear just because some immature snot was mean to you decades ago.
If you believe that you could not wield that weapon in a more elegant and constructive manner than this little fuckwad you have no business even suspecting that I have any insecurities.
Heal thyself, first.
Do not try to pull other people down to your arrested development.
Also, you did not adress my last point.
Jesus could whip those fuckers out of the temple.
Could you?
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Oh brother, O. Don’t use big words you don’t understand. You seem to be confused in someway that my experience as a kid defines me now as an adult and am still stuck in the same spot. I am also not so dumb to recognize that you are baiting me with your “Bodyguard” style tactics and mocking my faith. Passive-aggressive? Why because I don’t want to play your silly game?
What shall I do, hunt down everybody that picked on me as a kid and shoot’em? That prove I am a man to you? How ridiculous. Apparently saying that your behavior that you expressed was insecure was spot the-the-fuck on since you you are exhibiting that very behavior here and on the subsequent pages.
Emasculated my ass. I did not delve into the specifics of the things of what happened or what I did about them, I simply discussed how those things made me feel. I didn’t lay down and take anything, I was simply out numbered. Don’t pretend to think you understand things of which you have no clue. You weren’t there and you don’t know.
And you are more insecure than I thought.
So people think I am “nice”, I can think of worse things to be. And clearly as much time as you spend in PWI, you know I am not always, nice. I don’t need to be when I am right.[/quote]
See? See? This is what I mean. I will hand you this: You dont double quote. Good job ol’ boy.
More talking.
