[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
I don’t think it’s about being offended. It’s really about the fact the, at least for me, I was duped into believing that the whole problem with racism is paying attention to the race. That race, or skin color should not factor in, at all, with regards to a person. In other words, any conversation outside of physical appearance, race should not be consideration in anyway.
But apparently some, like the ijit in the article, consider race to be a driving factor in how one should live and act in their life. And that one ‘owes’ it to their race to behave and believe a certain way or they have betrayed their race.
I just think it’s dumb. Are we going to get over racism, or are we going to perpetuate it? [/quote]
This perspective makes little sense. It implies that anyone is somehow able to escape being labeled by skin color today. While it is no longer as MUCH of an issue, you can see by the many posts here that I am still often seen as a “BLACK man” posting and not a man who happens to be a minority of some sort. Someone like that can not possibly walk around pretending that race doesn’t matter at all. It clearly does.
His comment was about whether one specific person acknowledged his “heritage” and acts in a historically socially “acceptable” way in the black community.
Your problem is you see this as wrong.
It can’t possibly be wrong. It could only be wrong if there has been no reason for those emotions in the first place.
In other words, while I also acknowledge this as “out of date thinking” the very fact that a large percentage of the population still lives who actually remember WHITE ONLY water fountains means you can’t expect for this to not exist or see it as wrong.
Your statement about “paying attention to race” makes no sense. It isn’t like I walk into a mall and no one notices I’m black.[/quote]
It’s not about noticing, it’s about making it a non-issue. Who cares if you are black? Sure, everybody notices what you look like, when is that going to stop being an issue? When people stop making it one.
If any race is making a big deal about race, then it’s going to continue to be an issue. Perhaps you prefer it this way? Perhaps the attitude is that people honestly don’t want to get to a point where race doesn’t matter? If that’s what you want than that’s what we’ll have.
The problem is really simple, either race is going to be an issue, or it’s not. If people continue to make it an issue, black or white, then it will be one. If we want to progress beyond that, it’s going to take a collective paradigm shift that says “it doesn’t matter”.
It sounds to me like you want it to matter, or am I wrong? I don’t want it to matter I want to get past that.