[quote]Lonnie123 wrote:
haney1 wrote:
MeinHerzBrennt wrote:
Well I can’t speak for Lonnie but I too would be curious as to how someone answers these types of questions so if you don’t mind, could you address them?
I will make a deal with you. I will answer one of them.
I will address the Rape\payment issue since the others require alot more work.
And why is that? It couldnt possibly because they are morally atrocious and you have to play games to make them “seem” or “feel” okay, could it?
Although, I will concede to you that yes, it must be VERY hard to try and convince yourself that killing a girl in front of her father for not being a virgin is a morally just thing to do.
first the Hebrew only says “lay with” we have translated that as rape. so it might not even be rape we are talking about, but pre-marital sex. for the sake of the reply lets assume it is rape.
The translation I have provided states quite explicitly that it is rape.
Although I’m not really sure how much better it would be if it was consensual sex either.
There are several things that go into this, social context being one of the most important.
- If she was raped she would no longer be considered marriable and her family would be expected to continually support her, which would work until her parents died. The rapist in this instance is now being forced to support her. In thier times this was considered a very merciful solution, it is also very probable that she would not refuse this solution because it would restore her honor. Something that was highly regarded in thier day and time.
Please, Please, Please read the first sentence of that claim and tell me you dont think that way. Could it be that since rape was seen as such a dishonorable thing back then that the people who invented God would also make sure he saw it that way too?
What do you think a God invented in todays time would say about a rape victim? Totally useless and a financial burden? I highly doubt it.
- The payment for her was customary dowrey for marriage.
Since she was a contributing member of the family for food and other designated female tasks her departure from her family would take away from thier means for survival. so the money helps restore that.
Outside of that understanding how they viewed marriage, as well as the shame associated with sex outside of marriage. The shame of marrying a rape victim. Your wife would be a living testimony of the sin you committed. Kind of like the scarlet letter. Plus if the woman was left with just her family, she would be denied the following because no one would marry her.
- children
- support when her family died
- honor
- security that a marriage provided in that time.
- etc…
There is alot that goes into it, but if you understand the culture of that time, then you would understand what a burden it would be to have to marry the rape victim vs. some other form of punishment.
That is just a summarization of the whole thing though. There is alot more that goes into it. same with most of the other questions that I was asked.
for a little more insight into it there is a great article written on it by Glenn Miller. which isn’t thorough, by any means but it does point to some interesting insights on our quick judgements of the OT laws and thier application.
http://www.christian-thinktank.com/virginity.html
Your answer above shows rather clearly that the book was written by humans living in the culture at the time, and not some objective being from outside of it. If it were written by an objective 3rd party, you wouldnt need to explain it “in context”… as if that makes it any more moral.
However, you are missing the larger point here, and that is that while the times and culture certainly have changed, THE BOOK HAS NOT. Nor can it. Therefore, as a follower of THE BOOK you must enforce and believe in everything inside the book as written. You do not get to pick and choose. Is this clear? I will expound on why if not.
If the book says you must KILL adulterers and practitioners of other religions, you dont get to wave your hands and say “well… That was back then.” Thats called rationalization. You are trying to fit the book to the ideas you have already.
So, I ask you now… What would you do if you heard of a man sleeping with another mans wife? [/quote]
This is why I didn’t want to answer. No answer that I give would ever satisfy you. So I assumed correctly when I thought “what is the point”. I gave you my answer to the one question, so you can assume that I will probably answer the rest the same.
This isn’t me walking away for lack of interest, but lack of time. Something I stated several posts ago. You are more than welcome to reivew all of my posts on the topic of religion just look for haney or haney1(I had another login at one point).
some of my post have matured from fundamentalist view points to my current. It is possible that this topic has been discussed in some of those.
I would hope that you will only keep an open mind, I know I do. I am always challeging my faith. I am actually looking to read bart earhman’s latest book possibly at the end of summer.