[quote]pat wrote:
Sure other people helped you in your life? Same here, why? Because they love you? Perhaps? Why do they love you? What is love? Is there a rational explanation for someone to love you when its no benefit to them to do so? [/quote]
People have helped other people for a multitude of reasons, from selfishness to altruism, and everything in between. Hard to make generalized statements.
People love me because I’m awesome. (Jokes; I couldn’t resist!)
Seriously though, people love for the same reason they feel any other emotion: it is part of the human experience.
Love is an emotion, an experience, and a chemical reaction in the body/brain. It is fantastically dramatized in most western cultures, since the Greeks, at the least. It serves several purposes: reproduction and lowering the murder rate. You always hurt the one you love, sorta thing.
I don’t understand how loving someone ISN’T in their best interest, unless of course you love someone who has severe problems and causes you pain rather than returns that love. Love feels delicious. That’s as selfish as it gets.
[quote]pat wrote:
As far as sourcing your morality and purpose, you don’t think those are reasonable questions? What do you base your morality on? Just yourself? So that if you change your mind about something, then morality itself changes? I don’t think that, and I seriously doubt you believe that.[/quote]
Sure, they are reasonable, but they’re tired.
I base my morality on the affect it has on the world: myself and others.
If my actions cause pain, I call it bad. (Let’s be clear, for Sloth, that this is simply what I call it.)
If my actions cause joy, I call it good. Seems pretty straight forward to me.
As far as changing my mind, yes, I have done exactly that. I decided that I wanted to steal something. I knew it was “wrong” in my belief system, and I thought about it. I needed it more than they did. They were not going to notice, it meant that little to them, but it was valuable to me. So I took it. About a month later, I found out that someone stole my son’s violin. I decided at that point that I should not steal again. If it would have come back to me, like they stole my car, I would have never made the connection, nor learned anything. But you can’t steal from my kid and have it not impact my life, I’m not heartless. Did morality, as an idea/ideal, change because I made a decision? No, but my morals bent around that decision. Then I bent them back.
[quote]pat wrote:
And I don’t know if I have a ‘higher purpose’ or not. I don’t believe I or anything exists for ‘no reason’. I very much side with Spinoza in that there are ‘no brute facts’. It’s not necessary reasonable to believe I exist for some ‘higher purpose’. It’s not reasonable at all to believe I exist for no reason. That I am a brute fact of the universe which itself is not a brute fact.[/quote]
They are both perfectly reasonable, for the exact same reasons. You believe your side, I believe the other. Done.
There is nothing at all you can say/do to prove there is a reason for being. That does not mean there IS no reason, simply there is no PROOF.
Good questions.