[quote]countingbeans wrote:
[quote]smh_23 wrote:
[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Choosing to live your life with one woman is pretty damn straight forward. Having faith isn’t all that different.
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It is monumentally different. One consists of a set of claims with objective truth value. That’s the difference, and it means night and day.
I don’t know if we’re really on the same page though. The question that I posed in my last post, about holy books X, Y, and Z–are you saying that it is not a legitimate critique of religion? I have put it to the best posters here and to the most intelligent people of faith I’ve known–at least one of whom was close to deserving the title of “genius”–and it has never been bested.[/quote]
Again, you and H were expected to take this stance, and I understand it. Because if you were to see how the relationships are similar, it would shatter what you believe. (Much like I assume certain theists face in the presence of particular science and evidence.)
I’m not a genius, and I’ve never studied any particular religion but big picture, they all tend to have some common themes. Is it really outlandish to think each one of these books is part right and part wrong, imperfect like man? Because it isn’t like we would understand the communications of an omnipotent being…
So, as to why book X is right and the rest wrong:
I once asked my grandfather how he knew grandma was the one. His response was “I don’t. I didn’t then, and I don’t now. I’ve asked every I could how I could tell, and no one knew. All I know is I can’t hold her tight enough, because when I’m with her, I want to be so close, squeeze her so tight, that I want her to become part of me forever.”
If you are going to sit there and tell me you don’t see the blatant similarities between that and faith, you are either full of shit, or afraid you might actually have some. [/quote]
If you think that comparison is apt, then you are in agreement with me and diametrically opposed to the apologist.
There is a difference between “my religion makes me happy and/or works wonderfully for me” and “my religion is correct and/or better evidenced than the alternatives.”
It is the latter that concerns me and, I contend, is relevant to the kind of debate that happens on PWI.
In other words, you are speaking about a sort of vague parallel that gets at the emotions involved with belief in God. In that way, you can say that religion is like marriage. I have no problem with that, because it isn’t of interest to me.
On the other hand, religion as a claim to objective truth is not remotely comparable to anything that you’re talking about and is specific, demanding, and technical enough, as a subject of discussion, that it is best kept at arm’s length from analogy anyway.