Religion Catch All

It’s the same everywhere there’s poverty, or at least a history of immense poverty before an economic boom. It turns into a cultural thing that you can’t just get rid off overnight. China is a lot more well off than India and in the past in terms of relative purchasing power but this culture still persists.

But I’m NOT saying China is in total chaos or anything like that. It’s actually a nice place to live in if you have money. If you gave me the option to retire there, I may just choose it depending on how I foresee the direction of the political situation going.

But if you think the US is some place of pure hedonism and debauchery like in Midnight Cowboy, I’ve got news for you. There are certain parts of China and other more developed East Asian countries that look exactly like that TODAY,

It was(still is probably. I don’t know), especially heroin and ice. The government tried to curb it by introducing Subutex as a legal heroin substitute only dispensable by doctors but even then, a black market somehow formed selling Subutex, and addicts would dissolve the pills and mix them with strong benzos to get a similar heroin high, which lead to cases of people’s limbs being amputated. Then they banned Subutex lol.

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Subatex is buprenorphine, it’s an opiate (same class of drug that encases heroin, which is a chemically altered form of morphine).

A black market presumably formed for subatex over there as it is addictive, similar to how a black market has formed for oxycodone, tramadol etc all over the world.

I would certainly go over to China, especially rural China as the scenery looks breathtaking. Unfortunately I don’t wish to support the Chinese government and associated countless human rights violations, esp regarding their treatment of Uyhgur muslims. As tourism makes up a portion of a countries GDP I simply can’t justify it to myself, perhaps in the future as you’ve stated depending on the political dynamics within the country.

I lived in the USA for quite a while and I’ve been back for familial events. The hedonistic aspect seemed rather mild compared to say… Amsterdam. Though within Amsterdam much of the hedonistic aspect appeared to be revolved around attracting tourists as opposed to local participation.

The USA generally seems/seemed more societally conservative in comparison to Australia and much of Europe. There was certainly a much stronger religious influence where I lived in the US comparative to where I live now, where a fairly large portion of the population don’t identify with religion at all.

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Yeah, my point is you just can’t stop things like these to any significant degree even with strict regulation and the willingness and the means to enforce it.

For anyone who doesn’t fully get this:

Go read up on the drug “rehab” centers in the countries I mentioned. They’re even worse than jail. And i mean shitty jails where several inmates sleep on MATS on concrete floors in a single cell. It still doesn’t stop people from abusing them if they really want to.

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I really don’t know how anyone over the age of 25 doesn’t get this yet … boggles the mind

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Well, I gave the example that I might mow my neighbor’s yard (an action that doesn’t really help me directly) in the hopes that our relationship will be improved (indirect benefit). Treating people well can be accomplished through selfish means.

Does this make sense?

I agree with this.

I don’t think divorce is a nice thing. It would be great if people could get along. I doubt boredom is a common reason for a spouse leaving in the real world.

I think our gap in understanding each others positions is that I say actions should be illegal when they are shown to cause harm (or have a high probability of causing harm), then you point to a spouse or father leaving and the statistical increased chances of poor outcomes. Well, I see a spouse or father as providing a benefit(s). Of course losing a benefit is a negative. I don’t think we should force others to benefit someone else. Harming others by not providing a benefit is separate from harming others by say stealing, raping, or murdering.

For example, say I give you a hundred dollars a day. Your quality of life improves a lot during the span of time that I am supporting you. Now am I required to keep giving you a hundred dollars a day because when I stop your life will become likely worse? I think I have no obligation to keep doing so.

This is where I am with divorce and fatherless homes. It would be ideal if the spouse or the father would keep providing benefits to those around them, but I don’t think anyone is owed anything from anyone else.

Does this make sense?

Of course I see the logic and what you say reminds me of Murray Rothbard.

Are you in other words saying a dependent infant or toddler isn’t owed by parents? I believe that’s clearly what you are saying.

Do you have children?

This statement of not owing anyone anything doesn’t hit home with me, especially when it comes from middle or upper class people Who likely wouldn’t even be where they are if there parents didn’t feel a need to provide for them.

It also makes no sense considering no one functions as an individual despite some proposed radical individualism. When someone even opens their mouth or puts clothes on their body in the morning they are using communal material.

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Depends on if owe is in terms of rights or morality. For rights I don’t think anything is owed. As for morality it is subjective, but I would feel I would owe my child a good upbringing.

I don’t have children.

I agree with you on a moral standpoint. Not on a rights standpoint. Does this make sense?

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It’s only selfish if you do it with selfish intentions and mindset, acting nice in order to manipulate people.

I am not convinced that people do acts that are not done out of selfish intentions.

I think sometimes we trick ourselves into thinking our actions are not purely selfish. We do volunteer work to help others for example. We think we get nothing in return, and we feel good about ourselves for that fact. That last part (feeling good about ourselves) was the reward we got for our actions. I think that if we didn’t feel good about ourselves for doing stuff like this that we wouldn’t do it.

I can honestly say I’ve met a few people who were sacrificial and selfless and didn’t give a damn about stroking their own ego. My granddad was one of them. In fact, he didn’t even have a great self image. One of his deeds was letting an old woman sit at the front his store. He bought her breakfast. She had almost nothing. He simply felt bad for underdogs and the disadvantaged. That is not ego stroking. Actually one of the reasons he hated bodybuilding was its utter narcissism.

Another guy I know had a diamond business in South Africa, who paid a worker one years salary when was not obligated to for a LOA.

The same guy also absorbed employee theft expenses and punished almost no one. Again, another guy with a rough life with a soft spot for disadvantaged people and underdogs who worked like a dog and never even gave a shit about his own image.

You don’t think he felt good about himself for helping these people? I am not saying this is a bad thing BTW.

Was he religious? If so, did his religion have rewards in the afterlife for helping disadvantaged people (Christianity has this aspect to it)? If so, could he be helping others for a delayed reward (that would be self interest)?

I am trying to make a point that every “selfless” act, has a selfish motivation as a possibility as the driving factor. I am not convinced true selfless acts exist. If you have evidence I am open to it, but I don’t think it can be proved.

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In the cases of these two, no.

Neither were religious.

It can’t be proven but you are implying that some people do not do similar deeds because they truly feel the pain of others and want to alleviate it versus some transient ego stroking.

I don’t know if I am implying anything. I am just saying there is always a selfish motive (even if we or the actor doesn’t understand what it is) that is a possibility for every seemingly “selfless” act. Basically, I am not convinced that selfless acts exist.

If they have empathy and are feeling the others pain, alleviating it also alleviates their pain as well, which would be a selfish action.

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There is a slang word to describe this line of reasoning.

Would you say the same for people who broke up fights because they didn’t want to see someone injured or die?

There are a lot of different selfish motivations. It could be that they know they will feel guilt if they don’t break up the fight, and they have a desire to not feel guilty. It could be what you mentioned.

What is the slang word?

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So here we go for part 2…
Thanks again for picking really simple, easy concepts! But I will do my best. In the first video, Peterson does a much better job articulating the point he was actually making with the given example of Crime and Punishment. So, first I will give Dillahunty the win on the fact that we should take people at their word when they say they are who they say they are. Where, it seems to me Peterson was trying to make the point as to what being atheist ultimately means. In a sense, they were talking past each other, but the Peterson’s example is understandably off-putting and dark. Using the justified murder of someone to describe the limitlessness of ultimately believing in nothing can make the point, but you are going to put off your audience with the foulness of the implication.
So, Dillahunty is right. If someone says they are atheist, then that’s good enough. There is and should be no reason to have to qualify or prove that you are. You can be an atheist, be a good person and up hold the moral foundations you believe in.
Peterson’s ultimate point however, is that atheism, true atheism, removes the ‘rules’. I.E. you can believe what ever you want and behave a certain way, but you can simply flip the script and behave completely differently and there should be no consequence for doing so, especially cognitively, after all you are just being reasonable and that is true. You don’t have to be a narcissist to be an atheist, but you can be a narcissist and still be ethically equitable because there is no moral framework, just traditions, social constraints and opinions. In other words, you cannot have an objective moral framework and be an atheist because morality and the God are intrinsically linked. Hence, there is no good or bad, or evil or righteous. There’s just stuff you can do.
So what I think Peterson is trying to illustrate is that since objective morality is intrinsic to God, you cannot have one without the other.
It’s perfectly reasonable to be an atheist and choose to behave in a way that we could call ‘good’, well mannered, behaved, restrained and well intentioned. But there is no incentive to do so, other than choice, to be that way. It’s equally reasonable to be narcissistic, self interested, behaving in a way that only benefits the self even if it’s detrimental to others because it doesn’t matter. And it really doesn’t matter in the end.
He uses Sam Harris as an example in the earlier video and I think that is a better example, because his observation does apply to Sam. Sam is an atheist who believes in objective moral values and the two contradict. And Sam does not have a good reason for believing in objective morality except that it ‘seems obvious’.
That’s the part Peterson was attacking. The ‘seems obvious’ that is better to put up with a baby crying rather than shutting it up by throwing it in a well and Sam does not have a good reason for justifying why one is better than the other.
Either option is inconsequential morally, so it doesn’t matter what you do.
Peterson also delves into the intrinsic nature of the moral code being written on the soul\ heart. And to break with that is do do major damage to the self. That, for seemingly no obvious physical reason a severe violation of our ethics causes shattering of the self, when its not evident that there is a physical reason why it should. In other words, the law is there and we don’t know why, we cannot point to it physically, but it’s extremely detrimental.
Here he is invoking the argument that St. Paul made in Romans 2 (I believe) that the even to the non-believer God has written His law on the heart. That even the non-believer has good reason to obey their intrinsic knowledge of good and evil even if they do not believe.
Now, I have heard the arguments that this is evolutionary, that it is in fact a physical manifestation in the brain as a part of the evolutionary process.
There doesn’t seem to be any evidence of that and what consciousness is and what makes something a living thing vs. a non-living thing. Especially, when two comparative things are all equal physically, but one is living the other is not. We don’t have the science to explain it. We know ‘it’ when we see it, but we don’t know what it is exactly.
And morality does not necessarily co-inside with survival of the fittest. In fact in many cases it’s contradictory. Why would we want to preserve and help the weakest and most vulnerable, when their existence is evolutionary detrimental? It would be more evolutionary beneficial to practice eugenics. Prop up the strong and fittest while letting this weakest least fit to quietly die off without propagation. But to do that seems monstrous to us. Hell, its what Hitler tried to do an he went down as the superhero of all evil. Evolutionary, he was on the right track, morally he was an abomination. Why?

I know one guy who got shot in the chest breaking up a fight and another who died. Very selfish behavior indeed.

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