This is easy to believe, so I understand why some believe it. I am saying perhaps it is a part of the equation, but I wouldn’t say it is the whole driving force. I think there are other variables.
I am not sure straight men have it all that bad in comparison to other groups. A few people like BLM say stuff, but hardly anyone really believes that straight men are a big issue.
They also tell each other everything about their man’s junk, how they are in bed, etc. Stuff men would not normally share about their partners. It is quite shocking to have the knowledge that many of my wife’s friends know all about my penis.