[quote]pushharder wrote:
Wouldn’t that give you the time to make the bed?
Or is Mrs. P still lying there finishing things off with her rabbit?[/quote]
I’m not sure, I’m usually asleep by then.
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich[/quote]
I…
I dont even…
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich[/quote]
I…
I dont even…[/quote]
Dude WTF you been looking for on Amazon?
FTR I dont get tired after fornication 
normally makes me fucking want to get up and run around.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich[/quote]
I…
I dont even…[/quote]
Dude WTF you been looking for on Amazon?
FTR I dont get tired after fornication normally makes me fucking want to get up and run around. [/quote]
Do downers make you hyper and uppers drag you down?
In some people it works that way.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich[/quote]
I…
I dont even…[/quote]
Dude WTF you been looking for on Amazon?
FTR I dont get tired after fornication normally makes me fucking want to get up and run around. [/quote]
Do downers make you hyper and uppers drag you down?
In some people it works that way. [/quote]
Well never really took either.
I know opiates (lortab) make me hyper and nothing really makes me sleepy.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich[/quote]
I…
I dont even…[/quote]
Dude WTF you been looking for on Amazon?
FTR I dont get tired after fornication normally makes me fucking want to get up and run around. [/quote]
Do downers make you hyper and uppers drag you down?
In some people it works that way. [/quote]
Well never really took either.
I know opiates (lortab) make me hyper and nothing really makes me sleepy.[/quote]
Well you do not have have to have any extensive experience with drugs, if coffee calms you down, that should be enough.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
.[/quote]
I am normally tired as shit before hand, but I’ll be damned if I’m not getting any if the opportunity is there.
Shit when I had swine flu a couple years ago, I couldn’t move and was asking the wife if she wanted to fool around…
But to answer your question: I would have fallen asleep in 35 seconds if there was no sex.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich[/quote]
I…
I dont even…[/quote]
Dude WTF you been looking for on Amazon?
FTR I dont get tired after fornication normally makes me fucking want to get up and run around. [/quote]
Do downers make you hyper and uppers drag you down?
In some people it works that way. [/quote]
Well never really took either.
I know opiates (lortab) make me hyper and nothing really makes me sleepy.[/quote]
Well you do not have have to have any extensive experience with drugs, if coffee calms you down, that should be enough.
[/quote]
No it does not, remember what I do.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich[/quote]
I…
I dont even…[/quote]
Dude WTF you been looking for on Amazon?
FTR I dont get tired after fornication normally makes me fucking want to get up and run around. [/quote]
Do downers make you hyper and uppers drag you down?
In some people it works that way. [/quote]
Well never really took either.
I know opiates (lortab) make me hyper and nothing really makes me sleepy.[/quote]
Well you do not have have to have any extensive experience with drugs, if coffee calms you down, that should be enough.
[/quote]
No it does not, remember what I do.[/quote]
I never insinuated that you had an extensive experience with drugs, just saying in some people it works exactly the other way around.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Professor X wrote:
Question…why do we fall to sleep right after?
I mean…my phone is wide open for attack.[/quote]
For the same reason we take some time to reload.
The human penis is shaped just so that it can pump out other mens sperm and it makes no sense if you pump out your own. [/quote]
That is actually an interesting theory.
Mine is we hate to cuttle, its either lets get busy or go make me a sammich[/quote]
I…
I dont even…[/quote]
Dude WTF you been looking for on Amazon?
FTR I dont get tired after fornication normally makes me fucking want to get up and run around. [/quote]
Do downers make you hyper and uppers drag you down?
In some people it works that way. [/quote]
Well never really took either.
I know opiates (lortab) make me hyper and nothing really makes me sleepy.[/quote]
Well you do not have have to have any extensive experience with drugs, if coffee calms you down, that should be enough.
[/quote]
No it does not, remember what I do.[/quote]
I never insinuated that you had an extensive experience with drugs, just saying in some people it works exactly the other way around.[/quote]
No man, I understand medication etc its my formal training. So I know that.
[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]Tiribulus wrote:
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
Yay! I agree with Trib.
Not watching porn is a symptom of a life rightly lived, not the cause. [/quote]
There is no life outside of Jesus Christ. Porn or not. That was the whole point of His coming here. The willing surrender to sexual perversion is just one symptom of death in sin. After Jesus saved me from my sin and especially after my little girl was born? If anybody treated my daughter like I treated other men’s daughters, I’d kill em slowly with my bare hands if not for the sanctifying restraining power the Holy Spirit. I belong in that lake of fire. My merciful Lord Jesus paid for me so I don’t have to. Oh how I do worship love and adore Him for that.
[/quote]Did you wait until marriage to have sex?[/quote]
This is from last year:
He has made me new Doc. I tell you from the core of my being I wish I had never seen another woman unclothed in my life other than my beloved covenant wife. I cannot un-remember my past, but I can be eternally grateful for having been forgiven of it. I’ll be honest. It’s only as I’ve gotten older and grown in the Lord that I’ve come to realize just how precious my girl is to Him and therefore How precious she should be to me. She is His greatest gift to me save for the blood of His Son alone.
This is a really long post so I don’t expect most of you to read this but if you did thank you for taking the time to read my perspective.
I am a little late to the party but I will throw my 20 year old Christian virgin perspective in for you on porn and waiting before marriage, Perhaps some of you guys will find it interesting seeing as I am probably in the minority being a christian 20 year old virgin male. I will also add that I am athlete, go to college and have had no shortage of opportunities for casual sex but have turned them down for the reasons below
On porn. Ya I watched porn throughout high school and the first year of college but this year I have abstained for the most part except for a (3 month period) but I am back to abstaining.
Why Abstain?
Reason 1
I felt like porn was draining me and for a temporary orgasm made me feel tired and negative.Instead of talking to a friend or reading a book, texting a girl I was watching porn, it literally offers nothing in the long-term and instead in engaging in activities that would actually benefit my life I would watch porn 1-3 times a week for about 15-30 min average. Now this may not seem like a long time but I hated that fact, that when I tired to stop I couldn’t. At least once a week I would need to watch and masturbate to porn. I was addicted
Reason 2
I never really felt better after I watched porn. When I was finished masturbating to it, often I would just feel tired and unmotivated to do anything. Take away all the other factors that sometimes played into my mind ,not having a girlfriend, porn being sinful, and I simply did not feel as good after watching porn as I did before. To those who watch porn and are reading this thread, try it out, watch porn, masturbate to it and after your orgasm fades ask yourself do I feel better? Has this experience helped me in any measurable way?
Reason 3
I have always been very purpose driven even as a young child so my last point is, could I be doing something that would add more value to my life then watching porn. Could I be outside at the lake, hiking in the forest, snowboarding, doing yoga, listening to music, writing, hanging out with friends, hanging out with a girl(s). Could I be doing things that would provide more relaxation more enjoyment then porn?The answer to me is yes, all these things I do enjoy much more then porn. I would prefer to plan for this activities and spend my energy doing these things, because they give energy back to me through engagement, mastery, and relationship building, not a simple rush that has me feeling worse after the high is over. To me watching porn is not much different then shooting up, the first time is always the best, you need more to get the same effect, you gradually become more and more dependent, and last but not least it adds no long-term value to your life
These are just my three strongest reasons, I have more (feel free to PM me). To further elaborate on my last point and how it ties into my view until waiting until marriage. To quote Greg Plitt When every action has a purpose, every action has a result. I have always been against causal sex because in my mind their is not a strong purpose for it. Casual sex in my mind is nothing more then some short-term pleasure and then that is it, and the consequences of it can been quite great, pregnancy, STD, broken girls. To me it is wasted time and effort into something that doesn’t help me in the long-term. I look at the people around me who engage in A LOT of casual sex and I really do not see them benefiting a lot or leading very successful life’s. This brings me to the benefit of waiting until marriage. I would rather sex not be the key point in my relationships with the opposite sex. I actually want to like the person and respect them before I have sex with them. Basically I want sex to be the reward of at the end of truly getting to know someone. I want my relationship with the woman I decide to marry be more about who we are physically but be about who we are emotionally, mentally, and spiritually as well . That way when temptations arise and troubles occur in the relationship there is a foundation of more then just sex to hold it together. I know this doesn’t guarantee success but I feel as if It gives me the best chance at a successful marriage, a good family, and happiness in life in the long-term.
My philosophy is to make a series of decisions that will give us the best opportunity at happiness in the long run. I have experienced the effect of making decisions that benefit me in the long run and it has the gradual effect of enhancing my day to day life . To me it is investing in my future but instead of money it is good habits, and good decisions.
I want the foundation of my life to be discipline. In this development of discipline I want to build the willpower to delay short-term gratification for long-term gratification. Even the things that I do for enjoyment I want to build me up so that everyday I can say to myself I got better. Porn, and casual sex in my mind have no place in the schema
If you have taken time to read this monologue first of all congrats, good work. Secondly, thank you for taking the time to read my perspective. Thirdly I hope you were able to take away something useful.
[quote]Lift or die wrote:
This is a really long post so I don’t expect most of you to read this but if you did thank you for taking the time to read my perspective.
I am a little late to the party but I will throw my 20 year old Christian virgin perspective in for you on porn and waiting before marriage, Perhaps some of you guys will find it interesting seeing as I am probably in the minority being a christian 20 year old virgin male. I will also add that I am athlete, go to college and have had no shortage of opportunities for casual sex but have turned them down for the reasons below
On porn. Ya I watched porn throughout high school and the first year of college but this year I have abstained for the most part except for a (3 month period) but I am back to abstaining.
Why Abstain?
Reason 1
I felt like porn was draining me and for a temporary orgasm made me feel tired and negative.Instead of talking to a friend or reading a book, texting a girl I was watching porn, it literally offers nothing in the long-term and instead in engaging in activities that would actually benefit my life I would watch porn 1-3 times a week for about 15-30 min average. Now this may not seem like a long time but I hated that fact, that when I tired to stop I couldn’t. At least once a week I would need to watch and masturbate to porn. I was addicted
Reason 2
I never really felt better after I watched porn. When I was finished masturbating to it, often I would just feel tired and unmotivated to do anything. Take away all the other factors that sometimes played into my mind ,not having a girlfriend, porn being sinful, and I simply did not feel as good after watching porn as I did before. To those who watch porn and are reading this thread, try it out, watch porn, masturbate to it and after your orgasm fades ask yourself do I feel better? Has this experience helped me in any measurable way?
Reason 3
I have always been very purpose driven even as a young child so my last point is, could I be doing something that would add more value to my life then watching porn. Could I be outside at the lake, hiking in the forest, snowboarding, doing yoga, listening to music, writing, hanging out with friends, hanging out with a girl(s). Could I be doing things that would provide more relaxation more enjoyment then porn?The answer to me is yes, all these things I do enjoy much more then porn. I would prefer to plan for this activities and spend my energy doing these things, because they give energy back to me through engagement, mastery, and relationship building, not a simple rush that has me feeling worse after the high is over. To me watching porn is not much different then shooting up, the first time is always the best, you need more to get the same effect, you gradually become more and more dependent, and last but not least it adds no long-term value to your life
These are just my three strongest reasons, I have more (feel free to PM me). To further elaborate on my last point and how it ties into my view until waiting until marriage. To quote Greg Plitt When every action has a purpose, every action has a result. I have always been against causal sex because in my mind their is not a strong purpose for it. Casual sex in my mind is nothing more then some short-term pleasure and then that is it, and the consequences of it can been quite great, pregnancy, STD, broken girls. To me it is wasted time and effort into something that doesn’t help me in the long-term. I look at the people around me who engage in A LOT of casual sex and I really do not see them benefiting a lot or leading very successful life’s. This brings me to the benefit of waiting until marriage. I would rather sex not be the key point in my relationships with the opposite sex. I actually want to like the person and respect them before I have sex with them. Basically I want sex to be the reward of at the end of truly getting to know someone. I want my relationship with the woman I decide to marry be more about who we are physically but be about who we are emotionally, mentally, and spiritually as well . That way when temptations arise and troubles occur in the relationship there is a foundation of more then just sex to hold it together. I know this doesn’t guarantee success but I feel as if It gives me the best chance at a successful marriage, a good family, and happiness in life in the long-term.
My philosophy is to make a series of decisions that will give us the best opportunity at happiness in the long run. I have experienced the effect of making decisions that benefit me in the long run and it has the gradual effect of enhancing my day to day life . To me it is investing in my future but instead of money it is good habits, and good decisions.
I want the foundation of my life to be discipline. In this development of discipline I want to build the willpower to delay short-term gratification for long-term gratification. Even the things that I do for enjoyment I want to build me up so that everyday I can say to myself I got better. Porn, and casual sex in my mind have no place in the schema
If you have taken time to read this monologue first of all congrats, good work. Secondly, thank you for taking the time to read my perspective. Thirdly I hope you were able to take away something useful.[/quote]
I gotta ask how much porn were you watching that it interfered with going to a lake, a hike, ect? (Reffering to your reason 3) You didn’t just watch a bit night to wind down since it made you relaxed? Just curious
bummer… I feel like my dad just walked in on me punching the dork