Elaborate as my mind has hit a blank
Bastard tax? I can’t confirm or deny if I don’t understand
Is child support the bastard tax?
Billions from the federal budget to support single moms and their offspring, which I’m inclined to believe are largely the result of humping thugs.
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Exactly. No one deserves deception or their bodies or belongings violated. However, the sort of man to remove a condom during rear-entry sex to baby trap a woman or a woman who Tampers with a used condom to do the same are not normal, and the sort of person who cannot psychologically assess such people severely lacks social and psychological acuity or can’t control themselves. Eg, “I couldn’t tell he s/he was like that.”
Like, couldn’t you just do it with a nice person?
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And maybe wait, I dunno, a day or so to have sex with them? Like, get to know them? Meet some of their family, assess the cleanliness of their car or home, do some talking?
What do they do for work or are training to do? Do they like kids, dogs, fruit, the government? Are they cheerful or gloomy?
I mean, protecting yourself from a pump’n’dump prick or an avaricious skank isn’t rocket science. All you have to do is spend time with them.
And if you don’t, well, same as eating nothing but fast food and pastries or spending all day getting wasted. You live with the consequences. It’s not like it couldn’t be predicted.
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Couldn’t you also conclude that lawyer wasn’t normal to begin with?
Anecdotally when I was younger, at my peak element of hedonism/antisocial tendencies thst was when I got the most female attention I’ve ever gotten in my life to date
I think it’s because I appeared confident…maybe less to do with the behaviour and more to do with how I came off as confident, self assured and ‘exciting’?
But I’d argue many of the girls who went for me at the time were clearly nuts, and as such I steered clear from most of them
Like one who literally melted whenever she saw me smoke, drink to excess or do something illegal… does that sound like a normal person to you? Someone who gets excited if I get aggressive, smoke or drink?
I’d argue the majority of girls weren’t into my behaviour at the time. I put off far more girls than I attracfed but the girls I did attract were seemingly REALLY into the bad things that I liked to do…. I suppose I’m contradicting myself.., it was confusing
I don’t believe I was ever a “bad kid” but I was quite rebellious for approx 2-3 years before I grew out of it
Certainly not a woman I’d want. And she wouldn’t want me either.
While hybristophilia isn’t normal, criminal men attract an unusual amount of women. Hence there are hardly any womanless mafiosi or drug dealers. Women love status and men who hurt or can hurt other men.
See. 
Well that can be the case as well, similar to status, which has no moral component for exciting women. Doctors have status. So do gang members.
imagine what it felt like to feel rewarded for doing the wrong thing when you are only 19-20. Emboldening… Not that I blame the women for my misdeeds. I alone had a tendency to make stupid decisions back then. I had a lot of insight into those decisions and I knew I was doing the wrong thing yet did it anyway. Thankfully I never did anything too serious, it was just antisocial tendencies/an urge to “not follow the rules” and honestly I do not know where it came from
I don’t know if that’s better or worse… I think worse as many teenagers don’t have that sense of right or wrong (bad parenting, generally oblivious etc) but I always had this compass of “what would my parents think if they saw me do this? They wouldn’t like it? It’s bad…”
You’ll also find sometimes criminals (murderers etc) serving life sentences find wives. Lyle and Eric Menandez found wives in prison. There are also entire websites dedicated to finding women in prison boyfriends/partners. Prison pen pal programs to my knowledge are not legal in Australia.
Then again nothing is legal here… we just made owning a machete illegal (dangerous weapon) because this country is run by retards and our public is full of retards who have a miniature orgasm (very crude terminology I know) whenever something is banned in the name of public safety.
The problem at hand here is kids are stabbing one another (who are part of street gangs)… not machetes… what’s next? Ban chefs knives? One incidence of kids hacking at one another at a shopping mall is terrible but the question we need to be asking isn’t “why are machetes available”, it’s “why are kids doing this in the first place” because it’s not illegal to buy an axe, a chefs knife, crowbar, bow and arrow… I can go on…
This is off topic… But Australia often has these knee jerk reactions of banning everything. You can’t even own a sword for ornamental purposes (need something akin to a gun license to do so). Pepper spray? Dangerous weapon… Australia has lost the plot compared to the country it was 30 years ago.
and these bans are soooooooo effective… it’s not as if I can’t buy a machete or a katana online… Not that I would as I have no interest in breaking the rules for the sake of breaking the rules BUT I can admit some of these rules are absolutely draconian and make zero sense.
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Your post is a very sensible one, but a twenty something year old penis has a will of its’ own. Even now in my mid to late forties MF isn’t going down withouth a fight. I have to beat it into submission sometimes to get some work done.
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Check this out
I know you’ll find it interesting (and the results of study probably won’t surprise you)… except for the autism part, I found that interesting/suprising
Let’s see if these results are replicated consistently over time
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The average age surprised me. I had assumed it was predominantly younger guys.
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Underated comedian.
I read it. I’m not surprised. The vast majority of womanless men aren’t harming anyone.
I’ve interacted with William Costello on X.
If and when I continue this, I will respond in another thread about sexuality to not further derail this thread.
Kind of back on track with the prison topic…
This might not interest most of you, but with my wife being locked up, I find it interesting. Trump appointed a former inmate as Deputy Director of the Bureau of Prisons.
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I read that. It is an interesting story. The guy turned himself around.
I still don’t understand why casual sex is a character flaw.
Plus, you can’t have an ex entitled to half your shit if you never married her 
I’m at a stage in life where some of the weddings and bachelor parties I went to years ago are now divorce parties and there is a loootttttttt more crazy surfacing than I remember in my younger, wild and free years 
And I feel like we are confusing sex and marriage here.
We likely define “crazy” very differently…
Edit because I’m too lazy to search the post now but I meant to snip more of the vetting description before sex between two sexually attracted people… have sex
I’m not at all saying it is. The context was “baby trapping,” and my response is geared to reducing the risk of that and the other terrors bedeviling men in the current era. And women, of course.
A woman may well be DTF without necessarily being loose, lazy, gold-digging, etc. And some men may be discerning enough to tell the difference. That gets a big “whatever” from me.
For the people less sure of indicators of good/bad, getting to know the potential bedmate is the lowest-risk way to go about it.
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Very frequent casual sex is almost always character flaw (male or female)
Think of the men you might know who are rampant womanizers… what kind of person are we looking at?
I agree with what you’ve said. I’m on the spectrum, and tend to find it hard to gauge character on first glance
I have always avoided one night stands like the plague with one exception when I was in my teenage years. Not to say that I haven’t hooked up as I’m only human, but I saw a lot of issues arising from tons of casual sex amongst my peers and friends growing up.
And generally it was exactly what you’ve outlined. Two people are attracted to one another and they fuck… immediately, followed by tons and tons sex over the next week or so (that I may have to hear if it’s happening at my place… that ruined one friendship when I was younger and I couldn’t kick them out because it was a family member from overseas who was staying with me)
But oops… one of (or both) of them are crazy/have serious issues and one month down the line friendships are strained, feelings are hurt etc
Or even worse perhaps one is pregnant… was it worth it? No… at least I don’t think so
I believe sex should generally be confined to legitimate relationships. I’d never force my views on anyone even though I do not like “hookup culture”.
Ah, Fargo,