[quote]malonetd wrote:
phil_leotardo wrote:
I have also been physically attacked and verbally attacked/harassed/intimidated because of my skin color. The hatred that some blacks have for whites in this country can border on the psychopathic.
And…? The hatred that some have for in this country can border on the psychopathic. The hatred can go in any direction.
Many people have been attacked by members of other racial and ethnic groups. I got my ass kicked during the Rodney King trials. So what? That’s life. If I had let that, or a few other incidences, shape my perception and opinion of blacks, I wouldn’t have had any friends or family growing up.
I understand some blacks out there will hate me for my skin color. I’m ok with that. Blacks should understand that there are going to be some whites that hate them solely for their skin color. They should accept that, too, as long as there is still equal opportunity.
I think part of the problem with a discussion like this is that “pride” isn’t quite the right word. To me pride denotes almost a boastfulness. I don’t think that’s quite what identity pride is about.
For a long time many blacks lived with shame of their skin color and envy of whites. With changing times, attitudes shifted from shame to, well, something opposite of shame and envy. Racial pride is more about accepting identity regardless of outside opinions of that race. It’s not supposed to be about “in-your-face, better-than-you” boasting.
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You shouldn’t have to explain that. When James Brown came out with “I’m Black and I’m Proud”, my mom told me it became an anthem for blacks in this country. Up until that time they had been socially degraded yet here was this guy on the radio that was getting air play on all stations suddenly making it ok to be proud of who you were.
Whites in general have never faced any of this. To act as if “black pride” is the same as some boasting “white pride” only shows how ignorant some people are of history.
That study done in the early 80’s where they asked children of both races which doll was “bad” (while showing them a black and white doll) comes to mind. The fact that you would hopefully get a completely different response today shows the need for “black pride” in this country.
This should be common knowledge, however. You would have to have been raised like a mushroom to not be aware of this in this country.