[quote]Digital Chainsaw wrote:
All due respect (and I do think you are a pretty smart guy), it seems like it has become mine and jjblaze’s job to keep grabbing your head turning it back to center; you tend to drift, man. Neither of us ever mentioned work ethic, or that immigrants are thieves, or anything even remotely close to those statements.[/quote]
Sorry, but when you give folks shit about not learning the language even though they have enough on the table already, it just seems to me like there’s a value judgement happening there. I wasn’t trying to put words in your mouth, but I guess that’s how it came out anyway. Oh well. And really, I’m not all that smart, but it doesn’t stop me from trying. ![]()
[quote]A little anecdote, just to calm any fears you may have about me not seeing the human interest side of the equation:
Sometime around 10 years ago, about a week before Christmas, my mom and I were having lunch at a diner and hadn’t seen our waitress for a very long while. The busboy, a young Hispanic kid, was nearby and I asked him if he could bring us a shaker of salt. He stared at me, and wrinkled his brow as if he didn’t understand, and I repeated the question. He replied, “salt?”. I said “yes”, and he nodded and went back to the kitchen. He came back and gave me my… Silverware, which he laid down in proper order onto a fresh napkin in front of me. I realized what was going on and just said, “thank you”.
I didn’t want to embarass or humiliate the guy; he was busting his ass at a low-paying job, but, more importantly, he was making an effort to communicate with me in English. So he got it wrong this time, big deal. He tried, and that is all I am asking of anybody.
As we were leaving the restaurant, I went up to the guy, palmed him ten bucks and said, “Feliz Navidad, amigo”. Know what he said? Not “gracias”, but “thank you”. That’s what I’m talking about.[/quote]
Cool story. You see, this is giving them a chance like I was saying. And BTW that very was nice of you, I hope Santa hooked you up that year. ![]()