Oh yeah these are all solid reasons man. I’m getting the thoughts that I shouldn’t overly compliment a lass just to keep her interested. Just inflating her ego. There is millions out there. Who cares if I get rejected or fail with one? I shouldn’t. By the way guys I’m doing cold showers, NoFap and meditation. Opinions for these with regards to girls?
will not help. I spank the plank and get girls just fine.
Don’t overthink it. Be confident, friendly and make them laugh without being ridiculous (no one gets friendzoned faster than a clown).
That’s really all there is to it.
The only people I know that do this are weird people on the internet. Those people tend to be pretty small and weak too.
If you want to be like those people, it would be a good approach to take.
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Where in the hell do people get these ideas?
Doesn’t want to complicated then complicates by doing stuff that has no importance for getting women.
Thoughts
- Meditation. It is healthy, but there are mental-basketcase men who do not meditate or wouldn’t ever think to but have women. Most men, mentally sound or not, who have women, do not meditate.
- No fap. Not a bad idea. God gave you something to use with a woman, and if not masturbating gives you some impetus to get laid, then so be it.
- Cold showers. I have no clue how taking these can help one land a woman.
Trust me I’ll do that when I reach that point haha.
I’d do some research on it. Cold showers are great for improving focus and so on. NoFap has some too. Giving both a try for 30 days to see how it goes.
Yeah apologies for going slightly off topic Brick. That’s a part of the reasoning behind it. I’ll have more drive to get out there and so on.
Was only something I thought to add. Let’s sail back on topic folks.
as was already alluded to, you’re sailing dangerously close to internet weirdo with all this nofap and whatever.
Don’t be that guy. Being an introspective weirdo who tries weird shit he read online will not get you girls.
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His goal should be to get a woman in a shower. He is only sixteen though, so I don’t think he should worry much.
aesthetically-oriented lol … is that newspeak for shallow and superficial?
yep - be genuine - be yourself. Be confident in yourself. Achieve THAT first and the rest will fall in line.
Get out of your head - it’s one thing to be self-aware and be aware of how other may perceive you … it’s another thing to be hyper sensitive and over thinking. It’s a balance.
Me too! 
It took me til a few years later.
Jesus dude you write a lot…stop overthinking it seriously