Hello,
So what are people best pick up lines or best way to pick up a girl.? I’ll admit it, I’m very shy and a totally outward person with strangers. It takes at least a dozen beers for me to get the nerve to ask the chick at the bar that I find cute. The problem with that program is that about over a dozen beer is the point when I start going down hill. Some people have a drunk stage inbetween I’m sober and fine to I’m pissed drunk and passing out. Well that window for me is about ohhh 30 seconds. What makes it worse is Ive cut down my drinking to 4 beers a night. So pretty much there goes my program.
Any pieces of advice would be nice? Maybe I’ll get lucky and I’ll girl will say yes lol.
thanks again…
keep on lifting and watch out for the flying dumbells!
First off, you’re placing too much importance in the result. That’s paralyzing you.
Also, do you have as much trouble striking up conversations with men? Practice starting up conversations where ever you go. Just talk to people. You’ll likely never see a lot of them again, so it doesn’t really matter if you’re a total goofball or not. But in time you’ll get good at it. At that point, the world is your oyster. And guess what? The same skills that go into striking up conversations (and building people up) is the same set of skills that make the difference between the guy who sits at a desk his whole career, and the guy who makes it to the corner office.
there was this site i went to a while back that had a rule of 3 seconds from when you see a girl and you say soemthing to her even its just hi if you apply it actually works kinda well and you dont talk yourself out of doing it which is likely what your doing
Paul Chek would argue that a proper core conditioning regimine would assist you in picking up a young lady. Because weight distribution is dependant on several individual variables (These including bust and hip size, height, and overall body fat placement) the action will require you to make a judgement and adjustment in accordence with each unique female. Or you could try nailin’ 'em over the head with a club and draging them out of said drinking establishment. Renegade trianer Coach John Davies would employ sled drags for such a goal. Until then, I suggest avoiding any such undertaking that requires beer as a motivating catalyst. Lata.
“MBE: Keepin’ his 'ho in check. So long as she doesen’t read this and become cross. Since 1981. JADABB Founder, 2002.”
Excellent observations, as usual. I might add that this also accounts for the universal female tendency to want to be “thinner”, as this facilitates grip placement when being picked up. There’s nothing worse than trying to clean and jerk a woman whose neck and ankles are too thick to really get a good grip on. (Of course, those new ankle cuff/handles, to be reviewed next week in the “Stuff We Like” column, may render this problem obsolete. But, call me a purist, I still think that using them is cheating!)
On the other hand, if you’re a powerlifter and she’s fat enough that you can really dig into the scruff-flesh and get a purchase, then that’s okay. Ditto for having really meaty calves so that you can latch onto the soleus “plate”. These are actually, IMHO, the best women to train with.
Couple of things. 1) Grow some balls. Girls don’t just come up to you
and ask you out- just like in LIFE, you have to go after what you want.
I’m not trying to be a judgmental prick, like so many a**holes on this
website, and I have been in your situation and I am sympathetic. But you do have to grow some cojones. 2) As mentioned before, don’t give a
shit what happens, what her reaction is. If she’s cool, great. If she’s a
bitch, just think to yourself “What a cunt, I’m glad I found out right
off the bat what kind of person she is”. If she’s shy, be polite and try
to make conversation. Treat all 3 outcomes the SAME. 3)Its a cliche BUT
still a valid exercise: think to yourself, “What’s the worst that can
happen?” NOTHING can possibly happen that can prevent you from talking to a woman you don’t know. 4) As mentioned before, PRACTICE talking to strangers, men and
women,because you WILL become quicker and sharper with your responses. Try to
make jokes, to be humorous, FORCE your mind into being creative with whomever you’re talking to. 5) You need a lot of help, and you should probably look for or purchase materials from Ross Jeffries aka the SPeed Seduction guy. You can download a lot of his writings for free on KAZAA, or go to his website. Also read Doc Love’s columns on Askmen.com.
DocLove sells a book but I haven’t read it so I can’t recommend it. But go read all his archives, the man knows what he is talking about, esp. his points on how a woman has to have a certain interest level in you
for there to even be a chance of something happening. 6) Make no excuses
for your needs as a man, don’t be ashamed of being a man, and don’t let women manipulate or control you. Don’t take a girl out a on a first date and drop 100 bucks on her- take her to the park or for coffee and figure out if she’s cool, a cocktease, a psycho or what. 7) This may be the most important point of all- if you are shy and can’t approach girls,
YOU NEED TO HANG OUT WITH GUYS WHO DO! You need to be with guys who are
good icebreakers and who you can hang out with and copy from. And these are never your good looking, ripped pretty-boy buddies, chances are they are your nerdy, short buddies. I have 2 close friends, 1 is tall, well built and good looking, and he might approach 2 girls in 1 night. In fact, girls will probably approach him BEFORE he has the balls to approach them. Another 1, short, skinny, average looking, will talk to 2 girls in the first 5 minutes at a club. Guess which one I meet more
girls with? Guess which one dates more? The average looking guys have to
increase their skills to play the game, while the good looking guys are lazy and get by on the fact that they are good looking enough that women will approach them and date them based on looks alone. OK, this response
has gone on long enough. Good luck, and go to askmen.com NOW!! What are you waiting for? Download Kazaalite NOW!! What are you waiting for? Good luck!
Christ you don’t half give this subject a lot of thought, in England my chat-up line is “get your coat you’ve pulled” works like a charm! You don’t need a bloody degree in estrogen for gawd sake, get the beers in and go with the flow.
It is Askmen.com – it’s one of The Player’s old articles – and it’s not that you only give three seconds from seeing the girl. It’s three seconds after you see she’s giving you the “approach me” vibe.
actually that 3 second rule was off of pickupguide dot com and most of that askmen advice comes from sites such as that their articles are nothing original i mean shit have you seen thier fucking workout plans ?, doc love or whatever on askmen is kinda good advice i suppose but after you read enough of that shit its all the same
Not to be a jerk, but ya either got it or ya don’t. I for one have always been succesful in that area. Why? Confidence. If I saw a woman I was interested in I would walk right up to her and start talking. The worst she can say is get lost, no biggie.
Waytoshy- Hey, do you hear what we’re telling you? An acknowledgment for all the advice dispensed would be appropriate. Don’t be shy now, its anonymous. Have you checked out Ross Jeffries or Doc Love?
Yawnfest- The site you claim The Player tole his material from, is that a good site to check out? Any good info? Which writer in particular should I look out for? Thanx
hmmm im not too sure which writer id say to go for i cant really even say ive applied any of those techniques i mean their all pretty lame trying to set up some story and then anchor it sounds like a pile of shit you would only be able to pull with a girl that was already needy/lonely/nothing youd want to have i guess it has some kinda neat tidbits of info sprinkled throughout i basically only came across it through this forum and reading ross jefferies (sp) hes kinda amusing and gets me motivated to get women i guess ? maybe someones read his tapes and actually sepnt the 100 some odd dollars ? shrug doubt any have though