[quote]Patch2 wrote:
[quote]Mascherano wrote:
[quote]MaximusB wrote:
Yes Patch, I just saw your pics, and that WOW was a very good WOW…[/quote]
btw, this! this! this!!
You got all the right curves, Peaches. All of em!! And it makes me very, VERY happy that you’re feeling good about them! You should 
This is kinda pathetic, but I’ve started giving myself daily affirmations re: my body since I’ve been so mean to myself lately (I’ve been a weird headspace lately, so fucked up). It goes:
“This is the body that god gave me. It hasn’t failed me yet.”
lol! so far its been working… :)[/quote]
Being is complicated, isn’t it? I’ve never been able to understand people who just don’t care. I always tell people I’m a bundle of insecure with a thin wrapping of ‘go fuck yourself.’
I’m glad your affirmations are working, it’s a weird balance. Being insecure enough to have the drive, but not so insecure that you’re paralyzed.
I’m feeling good about my progress, but I still feel like I have forever to go. I’m at the place where I’m transitioning from feeling like a blob all the time, to feeling good in clothes. I still have a while until I’m feeling good naked.
When it comes to training goals and aesthetics I always think of Frost:
The woods are lovely, dark, and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.[/quote]
I know that’s a lot of quoting ^^^ but I just feel all of this. I have never understood how some people just seemingly don’t care about what their body looks like, or aren’t aware enough of their body to feel the bloat etc we all complain of. What is it about us that makes it almost an obsession? It IS such a weird balance. Too much insecurity can be debilitating, yet we are not so insecure to put on spandex and bounce around the gym.
Masch-I totally do the daily affirmation thing too. A friend of mine told me ages ago that it only works if you say it out loud, so when I’m driving I’m talking to myself like, “I am strong, my body is powerful, I am thankful for what my body can do for me.” Seriously, people probably think I’m a big whack job (but a more confident whack job!)
Patch-you should feel good about yourself and I’m glad that you do. I wish for one day we could all see ourselves how others see us, you know? (Im’ pretty sure I stole that from hallmark). Love that poem by the way, how true.
Also for the neck issue-I duct tape two tennis balls together (yes, it’ll look like a nut sack) and then let that hang underneath your skull, that’ll get both sides.