[quote]Tampa-Terry wrote:
It does help psychologically, yes, and it doesn’t hinder a person’s progress. One meal will not negate 34. If it does, the problem doesn’t lie in the cheat/treat/free meal … it lies in the diet itself.
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Yes, one cheat meal would not negate the other 34 meals. However, Let’s say that for that one meal, I overeat by 1750 cal, and bad calories at that (can eat “whatever” right?), doesn’t that mean I’ve gained 1/2 pound back? And, since we’re aiming at losing about a pound a week with our diet, wouldn’t that be “taking half a step back”? Does this mean that we’re actually aiming at 1 1/2 pound loss per week after accounting for the 1/2 pound we’d gain back from the cheat meal?
Well, maybe it’s not as straight-forward as the calculation above, since I’d imagine the body is smarter about handling a specific event like a once-a-week cheat meal. I just don’t see how a cheat meal would have no detrimental effect at all, albeit probably a small effect compared to the rest of the diet.
[quote]Tampa-Terry wrote:
I’d actually encourage you to allow yourself one meal a week, too, jthsiao. The only “rule” is that you’re not allowed to jump on the scale the next day. (grin)
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The not jumping on the scale is probably a good advice. I usually weigh myself on Sunday mornings. This way, I can adjust my calories and plan my portions for the upcoming week. Having a cheat meal on Sundays would still make sense for me, since I’ve just weighed myself that morning and wouldn’t do so again 'til the next Sunday.
[quote]Tampa-Terry wrote:
Having a cheat/treat/free meal isn’t a breakdown or a lack of discipline. It’s a planned-for event. Personally, I like to have my cheat/treat/free meal at the end of the day. When I wake up the next morning, I’m back on track, following my plan.
Properly done, a cheat/treat/free meal puts the “quality” back into “quality of life.”
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As mentioned above, I’m still a bit iffy about the cheat meal idea. For someone who needs the psychological relief and/or socializing event, I think it’s a good idea.
How about as an alternative to an all-out cheat meal, have “cheat meals” the way Chris Shugart prescribed in his Velocity Diet? That is, have a sensible meal with good macro combinations depending on the time of day and the activities around the meal, and adjust your diet around your planned “cheat meal”? Wouldn’t that also add some variety into one’s life without “taking half a step back”?
