[quote]chinadoll wrote:
I completely agree with you 100%. It’s a sign of the times.
The lack of quality time today’s adults recieved as their parents were busy working and/or pursuing careers and the like, a lot of people don’t have a strong foundation for interpersonal values and ethics, accountability to the next person, etc., as less time was able to be given to them to teach these values. The foundation for values starts at the very beginning, at home, with the parents and nuclear family.
Also, sorry to sound a bit jaded, but my theory is all the amphetamine-type drugs that have been epidemic to this country have fried a lot of peoples’ brains and also their sense of empathy/others, and it’s so evident now. Case in point the Craig Titus murder case and other bizarre things around the country…the crime rate is up, more people have bad psychiatric disorders because of organic or secondary reasons, domestic violence and child abuse are up, single parenthood is epidemic, substance abuse is epidemic, etc… People have a lack of a sense that we’re connected to one another. Another example of that is the divorce rate and families breaking up, neighbors fighting with one another or not even associating with each other.
I also believe it’s a sign of our materialistic culture in the land of plenty. There’s much less of a sense of COMMUNITY in a lot of American towns and cities. I feel the pain of this when I hang out with friends from second and third world countries who have emmigrated here. They naturally are community-oriented, considerate of others, will see their neighbors moving heavy items and will run over to help them, will cook extra food and bring it to their elderly neighbors’ houses and spend time with them, etc., much more than I’m used to. It reminds me of how much American society has lost in terms of Community.
I hope not to offend anyone. But the breakdown and near loss of the concept of Community of the whole of society affects everyone and I believe is one of the main causes that society has become so interpersonally selfish.
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I know what you mean china. And here might be one of the causes. Or an effect?
(Btw, don’t bother reading any of Juan Blanco’s other posts.)
(Millennial Narcissism)
http://www.T-Nation.com/readTopic.do?id=1474428&pageNo=0#1474717