No Alpha Males?

One thing I think is important to mention, assuming there indeed are alphas and betas in our species, is that the leadership tends not to be general but rather determined by the situation. The professional is usually the leader amidst amateurs. The most capable person in a given situation takes charge and others also probably wish him / her to do that too, if they have no clue of what they are doing.

When you know your shit you tend to be confident, brave and certain, thus better representing the stereotype of a leader.

Of course, high level of testosterone can be a general attribute of a leader. But I believe leadership is mostly situational based on skill and capability.

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

Technically our govt serves the people not the other way around so your first point is moot.

As you mentioned, in business or any job, you do have structure with alpha/beta mentality. You feel like it’s forced on you which tells me you fill a beta role or less, which explains why you would use false logic to denounce the existence of alpha males in human social structure.

Using your work example, I can promise you that in a free market business owners and corporate executives do not feel “forced” to accept their role. Know why? They created the roles people fill below them, enticed people to sell their labor as employees and created the structure their employees are subjected too.

Go to work and challenge the rules. Challenge your boss directly too. You will leave without a job. His boss may fire him for his inability to control employees and so on, who ever is at the top of that chain of command is the alpha and this is simply fact.

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The fact that the government serves the people and not the other way round does not make my point moot. It is in an alphas interest to serve his pack. He does however do this in order to benefit himself. This is the same in politics The Political party will appear to be serving their people in order to best benefit themselves. Consider the banking crash where some of the Goldman Sachs bankers responsible for the crash were given places in the government.

Again in the work example consider this: I go to work and I am inferior within the workplace to my boss. However we then happen to be within a club and in this situation I am his superior. You did address this in your post:

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

I think the real confusion today is that each human is involved in multiple “packs”, even on a daily basis. You serve various roles depending on who you are with which muddies the alpha/beta water.

Look at a specific “pack” (business, team, social organization…) and you will see dominant and subservient members, no question.

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An Alpha is and always will be an Alpha in the animal kingdom unless challenged and banished by a rival (consider wolf packs).

You can argue that because we are intelligent beings that this allows us to interchange who is Alpha based on the social situation and circumstance. This however raises the question that being alpha can have a lot less to do with attitude and social dominance than it does hard work and success in a given field.

I myself would reason that we have evolved beyond the alpha and beta and have a much more complex form of Social heirachy.

The people who perceive Alphas and Betas will always themselves be at a disadvantage to those who don’t. This is because they live their lives or part of their lives according to the actions of primitive unintelligent animals. If a human wastes 0.5% of his or her lifetime reflecting on how alpha he/she is is that time not better spent on a more human pursuit such as education.

How about the men be men and we leave this alpha/beta bullshit to the dogs?

[quote]Animal Within wrote:

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

Technically our govt serves the people not the other way around so your first point is moot.

As you mentioned, in business or any job, you do have structure with alpha/beta mentality. You feel like it’s forced on you which tells me you fill a beta role or less, which explains why you would use false logic to denounce the existence of alpha males in human social structure.

Using your work example, I can promise you that in a free market business owners and corporate executives do not feel “forced” to accept their role. Know why? They created the roles people fill below them, enticed people to sell their labor as employees and created the structure their employees are subjected too.

Go to work and challenge the rules. Challenge your boss directly too. You will leave without a job. His boss may fire him for his inability to control employees and so on, who ever is at the top of that chain of command is the alpha and this is simply fact.

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The fact that the government serves the people and not the other way round does not make my point moot. It is in an alphas interest to serve his pack. He does however do this in order to benefit himself. This is the same in politics The Political party will appear to be serving their people in order to best benefit themselves. Consider the banking crash where some of the Goldman Sachs bankers responsible for the crash were given places in the government.

Again in the work example consider this: I go to work and I am inferior within the workplace to my boss. However we then happen to be within a club and in this situation I am his superior. You did address this in your post:

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

I think the real confusion today is that each human is involved in multiple “packs”, even on a daily basis. You serve various roles depending on who you are with which muddies the alpha/beta water.

Look at a specific “pack” (business, team, social organization…) and you will see dominant and subservient members, no question.

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An Alpha is and always will be an Alpha in the animal kingdom unless challenged and banished by a rival (consider wolf packs).

You can argue that because we are intelligent beings that this allows us to interchange who is Alpha based on the social situation and circumstance. This however raises the question that being alpha can have a lot less to do with attitude and social dominance than it does hard work and success in a given field.

I myself would reason that we have evolved beyond the alpha and beta and have a much more complex form of Social heirachy.

The people who perceive Alphas and Betas will always themselves be at a disadvantage to those who don’t. This is because they live their lives or part of their lives according to the actions of primitive unintelligent animals. If a human wastes 0.5% of his or her lifetime reflecting on how alpha he/she is is that time not better spent on a more human pursuit such as education.

How about the men be men and we leave this alpha/beta bullshit to the dogs?

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People become alpha or beta due to inborn traits, action and mental/physical/intellectual prowress compared to those around them. The cream of the cop will always rise to the top and as intelligent humans leverage influence, control and prominence to control “weaker” players.

The “cream” are the alpha in which ever pack they happen to dominate. There isn’t much introspection or self identification titles involved, only natural competition and dominance.

[quote]Animal Within wrote:

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

Technically our govt serves the people not the other way around so your first point is moot.

As you mentioned, in business or any job, you do have structure with alpha/beta mentality. You feel like it’s forced on you which tells me you fill a beta role or less, which explains why you would use false logic to denounce the existence of alpha males in human social structure.

Using your work example, I can promise you that in a free market business owners and corporate executives do not feel “forced” to accept their role. Know why? They created the roles people fill below them, enticed people to sell their labor as employees and created the structure their employees are subjected too.

Go to work and challenge the rules. Challenge your boss directly too. You will leave without a job. His boss may fire him for his inability to control employees and so on, who ever is at the top of that chain of command is the alpha and this is simply fact.

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The fact that the government serves the people and not the other way round does not make my point moot. It is in an alphas interest to serve his pack. He does however do this in order to benefit himself. This is the same in politics The Political party will appear to be serving their people in order to best benefit themselves. Consider the banking crash where some of the Goldman Sachs bankers responsible for the crash were given places in the government.

Again in the work example consider this: I go to work and I am inferior within the workplace to my boss. However we then happen to be within a club and in this situation I am his superior. You did address this in your post:

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

I think the real confusion today is that each human is involved in multiple “packs”, even on a daily basis. You serve various roles depending on who you are with which muddies the alpha/beta water.

Look at a specific “pack” (business, team, social organization…) and you will see dominant and subservient members, no question.

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An Alpha is and always will be an Alpha in the animal kingdom unless challenged and banished by a rival (consider wolf packs).

You can argue that because we are intelligent beings that this allows us to interchange who is Alpha based on the social situation and circumstance. This however raises the question that being alpha can have a lot less to do with attitude and social dominance than it does hard work and success in a given field.

I myself would reason that we have evolved beyond the alpha and beta and have a much more complex form of Social heirachy.

The people who perceive Alphas and Betas will always themselves be at a disadvantage to those who don’t. This is because they live their lives or part of their lives according to the actions of primitive unintelligent animals. If a human wastes 0.5% of his or her lifetime reflecting on how alpha he/she is is that time not better spent on a more human pursuit such as education.

How about the men be men and we leave this alpha/beta bullshit to the dogs?

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Also, if you and your boss got in a squabble and “banished” each other, he would actually hurt your life but you wouldn’t affect his livlihood too much.

If push came to shove, you would submit to him.

You can not compare animals social behavior to humans… Reason number one, you have females in leadership positions. This pretty much shits on any sort of basic logic on animalistic hierachy.

[quote]Evolv wrote:
You can not compare animals social behavior to humans… Reason number one, you have females in leadership positions. This pretty much shits on any sort of basic logic on animalistic hierachy.
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Until a qualified male decides he wants the leadership role.

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

If push came to shove, you would submit to him.[/quote]

Completely situational.

Suppose this club he and I belonged to was of more importance than his job.

Also the point isn’t that he and I were in a club it was that the ‘Alpha’ position can change many times within day to day life.

Therefore I can argue that you cannot apply it to the human race.

I could become Alpha just by wielding a gun where no others possess the means to overpower me.

I could become Alpha by creating a company through re-mortgaging a house and employing staff beneath me. The business may be failing but I would be at the top of the ladder and would be seen as the Alpha because I would hold ultimate power as wage payer. (Granted the business would not last but the point is there: I can create a false/temporary Alpha position for myself.

Because the ‘Alpha’ position is so susceptible to change within the human society. It cannot be observed with consistency as it can within the animal kingdom.

If I were to kill another fathers child it would be for a different reason than that of a wolf.

Why?

Because I am able to apply reason and logic to make informed decisions. I would not be making an animalistic decision to ensure the survival of my gene pool and allowing MY young to receive 100% attention from the mother.

And left to natural devices, with history as guide, women are not leaders. It took legislation and a minority status to get a handful of them in charge.

[quote]Animal Within wrote:

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

If push came to shove, you would submit to him.[/quote]

Completely situational.

Suppose this club he and I belonged to was of more importance than his job.

Also the point isn’t that he and I were in a club it was that the ‘Alpha’ position can change many times within day to day life.

Therefore I can argue that you cannot apply it to the human race.

I could become Alpha just by wielding a gun where no others possess the means to overpower me.

I could become Alpha by creating a company through re-mortgaging a house and employing staff beneath me. The business may be failing but I would be at the top of the ladder and would be seen as the Alpha because I would hold ultimate power as wage payer. (Granted the business would not last but the point is there: I can create a false/temporary Alpha position for myself.

Because the ‘Alpha’ position is so susceptible to change within the human society. It cannot be observed with consistency as it can within the animal kingdom.

If I were to kill another fathers child it would be for a different reason than that of a wolf.

Why?

Because I am able to apply reason and logic to make informed decisions. I would not be making an animalistic decision to ensure the survival of my gene pool and allowing MY young to receive 100% attention from the mother.

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I’m willing to bet your organization is not more important than your job in day to day existence. You just alluded to the fact that alpha does exist, largely through the control of resources which is essentially money for us and I agree.

I do believe that there is heirachy but not in the Alpha/Beta way.

To apply the social aspects of an inferior species to our own is insulting. Ours is far more complex.

You can have an essentially ‘Beta’ human be ‘Alpha’ through resource. You can also have the opposite.

You can have multiple ‘Alphas’ or you can have none.

To assign a title to another human being based on how a pack of dogs interact is to insult our species.

… Besides most people I have heard call themselves ‘Alpha’ are complete tools who have no standing in society.

Wolves, gorillas, birds, humans et cetera all share different traits but every species on the planet has its leaders and followers defined by specie dependent traits, including human alphas. If you don’t like the title alpha, play semantics on it but it is what it is and alpha exists in humanity.

Alpha assumes that the alpha has absolute dominance. This can never be the case as in human society heirachy is far more complex and situational.

We have evolved beyond animalistic heirachy.

[quote]Animal Within wrote:
Alpha assumes that the alpha has absolute dominance. This can never be the case as in human society heirachy is far more complex and situational.

We have evolved beyond animalistic heirachy.

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Our “packs” just share territories in closer proximity than nature. Every human group has its dominant leader and who controls resources controls decisions across groups.

Using your boss again, if push came to shove and you didn’t back down, he would fire you, nullifying your ability to pay dues and travel to your group which would end your false sense of shifting power you mentioned. Your boss would be just fine.

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

If push came to shove, you would submit to him.

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Very true.

Every time I get anywhere near shove submission starts happening all around me.
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Touche!


The most alpha of alphas are in a select group with other, like-minded people. I am one of them, and this is our exclusive club.

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

[quote]Evolv wrote:
You can not compare animals social behavior to humans… Reason number one, you have females in leadership positions. This pretty much shits on any sort of basic logic on animalistic hierachy.
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Until a qualified male decides he wants the leadership role.[/quote]

Women allow men to think they are in charge.

[quote]Christine wrote:

[quote]HoustonGuy wrote:

[quote]Evolv wrote:
You can not compare animals social behavior to humans… Reason number one, you have females in leadership positions. This pretty much shits on any sort of basic logic on animalistic hierachy.
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Until a qualified male decides he wants the leadership role.[/quote]

Women allow men to think they are in charge.

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Whatever helps you through the night I guess.

You are aware that the dominant sex when it comes to mammals is usually the one with the higher testosterone level?

Not necessarily the male animal, just the one with more testosterone.

I was part of the reason a ‘boss’ of mine was fired once.

He wouldn’t listen to me, and thought I should do what he wanted simply because he considered me his ‘subordinate’. He simply couldn’t admit that he didn’t know everything. Typical wanna be Alpha Male type. Ex military police, ex cop and became ex employee.

I was actually told that management was disappointed that he couldn’t get along with me. We got into a couple of heated discussions.