I liked your post because it seems you’re committed and want this to work. However this is not good. Important matters between you and her should stay between you and her.
Do you want to marry her?
I’m not a psychologist but there are surely a few more steps between verifying what someone tells you and a Netflix crime drama.
I went through something very similar to what your going through many years ago at about your same age.
If you need help deciding if this girl is easy or some other derogatory term I would have to say no dude that’s being way to judgmental. I read most of the post and sounds like you got answers to all your questions. I fully remember being in college and asking a few girls this question. Most said around 3 to 8.
I graduated from a private and ritzy high school in 97’ and most of the girls I hung out with had definitely lost their virginity by the time they left high school some of them had rebound relationships. My guess is most we’re probably with 1or 2 by graduation. I think more of the guys were virgins than the girls.
Like some of the other posters said if by the time a woman graduates college and her count is a little under/over 8 your fine. If you’re #4 and she’s in college, take a breath dude it’ll be ok. Like I said I was in a similar situation years ago so I’m not making fun of you You’re good and she’s good. Best of luck.
You joined this site just to post that crap?