Posting stuff like that is a surefire way to let the receiver know that you care.
When you don’t care about something or someone, you don’t interact.
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I was expecting a comment like this. Now let’s have a bunch of people like your comment in agreement. WHOO HOOO.
I don’t understand why you have a topic asking for tips and then get upset when you receive them.
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Not to sound like a wussy. I feel torn down more than encouraged.
Omy God grow up! You know what? This is exactly what one of my trainees did! He’s fucking 17, I told him to do it and you know what? He went up to this girl, that is not in his class, that he’d never spoken to, and (according to him) is hot, and chatted her. Not only that but she was amongst her friends. And you know what? It went really well. By the way he did a 180kgs trap bar carry at 70kgs BW today
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It’s ok man. Some day you’ll look back on this with nostalgic fondness.
Because even though you’re working yourself to death you’re always broke. And that wonderful baby has turned into a monster that eats everything in the house and converts it to angst. And the wife. The wife! She’s the reason your broke! She spends every last dime on bon-bons, mu-mu’s and palm readings. TOO BAD it doesn’t say “Get off of the couch and eat a piece of lettuce once in a while!” across her palm, cuz she won’t shut up about every damn word that gypsy charges her for. And that fucking amway bullshit…
But I digress. It’s all well intended advice.
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Basically… don’t start a family
Nah. That’s just a parody of adulthood.
I’d not dissuade nor encourage any individual to take on something that big, even irl. Way too big and way too many factors.
what is it with you today? “Don’t start a family” “don’t have kids” “Asian women are the worst drivers” … sheesh
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Sorry, it’s just that I’ve heard so many horror stories on this forum about family these past days. @flappinit’s shit story really struck a chord.
Props to him for taking the initiative too. My dad would never have done that. He would’ve left it to my mom and I don’t expect any potential future husband to either. At the same time, I’m unwilling to bear those responsibilities, so for me, it seems the best option is not to have kids.
Ha! I said this in (partially) in jest. I also fully admit I’d be worse than the stereotype if I were to drive
Every parent (at least that I know of) has one of those.
Like, you ain’t even really in the club until you do.
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If you’re interested in a husband who will be a genuine partner to you, choose one of that sort. Easy. Deciding whether you want kids is less so.
You have a hypothetical future husband who leaves his child lying in a pile of shit? Yeah, don’t have kids just yet.
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I was thinking right along those lines
I’d be surprised if the person I married didn’t just call for me to clean up the mess
I hope college gives you some insight as to what you, as a woman in today’s world, deserve from a partner. Plenty of girls grow up imagining Prince Charming as their husband, so at least you’re not going to be let down, but I am a bit saddened that you can’t even imagine a decent guy for yourself. I do understand, though, that this is largely a cultural difference.
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You could get the best of both worlds and marry @tlgains who would probably pick the kid up and give up halfway through, only to notify you of the situation via meme in your DM.
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Ha! Should I make a meme for that 
(I still don’t really get memes)
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I was about to say similar.
Don’t have kids with a guy who won’t be prepared to deal with a bit of shit. Parenting can be far more difficult than a bit of shit.
Pro tip: if someone’s more concerned about getting a bit dirty than the health and wellness of their own child, they will not make a good life partner.
Yes sir that’s me. The failure of romance. Who could never get a date. Reporting for laughingstock and lost of total confidence duty sir.