I’m just gonna move my seat next class and pretend she doesn’t exist.
Don’t.
This doesn’t require ANY action. Just deal with it and move on. She doesn’t care anymore, neither should you. It didn’t go anywhere and nothing happened.
Move her seat and pretend you don’t exist instead.
Mind games.
what the hell kind of school did you go to???
Couple different kinds. Small private one and a normal public one. It happened at the public one. Dudes there were totally normal, just thought penises were funny or something.
As a guy that just turned 40 and doesn’t have many great high school memories to look back on, my advice is to be bold and ask out any girl you’re interested in. Ask confidently, and if you get rejected, don’t let it hurt your self esteem and try again with someone else. I liked a bunch of girls in high school and never had the balls to ask any of them out, and I found out way after the fact (well into my 30’s) that some of them were interested in me. Don’t wind up like me. When you get older, you’ll find that you’ll regret the inaction you took in your past, a lot more than the action.
That’s literally the opposite of “Be cool, honey bunny”
Your heart is in the right place, but you need to go back up to the top of this thread and read through all 500+ posts.
Sending him on a fool’s errand I see
Couldn’t be bothered to find the text conversations, but they are epic. I feel like if he printed out hard copies of the messages and really explained those memes to her, face to face, she’d give him an under-the-table class-handy immediately.
Yeah, going to go ahead and not do that. Stick it in her pooper?
Actually, the way to have dealt with this is introduce her to the other two people at the table as “This is NAME. I am totally horrified to sit across from her because I liked her a year ago and tried to flirt by sending her stupid memes. And now my mistake is starting at me across the table. To her credit, she hasn’t totally outed me as a stupid dork. She’s been very cool about my disability.”
They would laugh. She would laugh. And now she would think of you as confident. She would also view you as a fish (perhaps an undesirable fish, but still a fish) and no woman can deal with the fish that got away. They have to catch them all.
I don’t get it
He’s too young to know what Fonzie was like.
Isn’t that the reason you started this thread?
Yo there’s a cute girl in my pre-calc class.
When there is a strong confident dude sitting in your chair in pre-calc, you will be good.

