Wooooooo oh boy do I love the opposite sex. Ya boy got rejected again. Only it’s more embarrassing she didn’t even bother to open the text. Wow 4 rejections during my highschool year. I’m keeping a tally.
Maybe it’s you.
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No I don’t think it’s me. It’s them. Maybe I just go after the wrong girls.
Right. That’s the problem.
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How am I the problem? There’s nothing wrong with me.
I didn’t say you were the problem. I said not thinking it was you was the problem.
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Can you explain that Mr.Pwnisher?
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If you start thinking you are the problem, you may start approaching things from a better angle.
I don’t get it man I’m pretty confident in myself. I thought you shouldn’t take rejection personally. Am I supposed to question what I’m not good enough in? Couldn’t there be a million reasons to why I got rejected?
Screw this I’m gonna grow as a Christian and become a 200 lb beast. “nOt GoOd eNoUgh” when there’s nothing even unique about these girls in highschool.
Could be.
Or it could be one.
If you’re communication with the other three girls is similar to the one you posted, it’s definitely you.
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I thought it was laid out for you before this post, so I’m sorry to bring this up again, but you are absolutely the most awkward conversationalist I have ever witnessed in my entire life. Your text exchange with that other girl was cringeworthy. If you even consider for one second the possibility that your failures with women are due to anybody but yourself, then you are doomed to an eternity of solitude.
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I am Christian. Not a perfect person. I am not arrogant those other two are a different story.
Awkward conversationalist? How? She wasn’t engaged? Man. You guys are confusing. Don’t do this, don’t do that.
Oh crap maybe I am arrogant
Perhaps this was god’s way of showing me I’m not ready for a relationship yet. Like I said, i’m going to grow as a Christian
Ouch truth hurts
go up to the hottest 10 girls in your school and ask them if they like guys who ‘send memes’ or blurt out crap about politics in Sudan??
-every time they say yes …ask them out for ice cream
-every time they say NO/ Ewwww/get away from me loser …punch yourself in the nuts. Repeatedly.
I’m no expert at this stuff, but yes, your conversation that you showed was very cringeworthy. Compliments are good, and I don’t really remember what you said, but some of it was extremely cheesy and just awkward. And the girl obviously wasn’t reciprocating. Whoever mentioned earlier that a sign that she wasn’t interested was that she said she would literally NEVER have time to meet up made me laugh pretty hard.
Honestly, dude, stop texting girls. Talk to them in person. Sit next to them in class, at lunch, whatever. Just learn some real conversation skills, learn how to make a person laugh in person, and you can get an idea if they’re interested in you. If they are, you can text them. If not, you just saved yourself some girl making up the worst excuse ever to not talk to you.
Becoming a 200lb beast sounds good. Do it. Get big, strong, and fast.
To be fair, @flappinit , no Christian is perfect. Ignoring flaws and doing nothing to work on them is completely against the teachings of Jesus, but being lustful is something you could probably say to 99.99% of men, regardless of religious beliefs (or lack of). I personally think the biggest thing is how you treat others - nothing screams non-Christian to me than my black friend going to Bible studies and having to leave because the other white members are making him uncomfortable with their opinions towards POC’s, or disagreeing with homosexuality to the point you feel the need to shame/mock/disrespect others for their lifestyles. Arrogance is a sin, but I’d rather tell my friend he’s a prideful dick, than to tell him he’s a racist bigot.
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What’s the right way to text girls? I thought there wasn’t