Need help with weight loss

Hi everyone,

I am currently 125kg, 191cm height and 37 yo, with a job that includes 8-10 hours of sitting in front of computer. My goal is to lose 20-25kg for a year, so approximately 5kg in 3 months. I am aware that if I go really hard maybe things could go faster, but my goal is to maintain it, and not just quickly lose weight. All this happened during covid, when my lifestyle completely changed and I still can’t get back on track.

I would appreciate any advice on how to start and what to do in order to reach my ultimate goal and also my short term goal of 5kg in 3 months. What kind of exercises, how to regulate diet, etc.

Thanks a lot in advance.

What are you doing right now?

What are you currently eating in a day (weekday and weekend)?

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I hope I answered you questions with enough detail.

In terms of exercise, nothing, except for playing basketball couple of times per week. In terms of eating, I have couple of times per week some junk food usually at the office during lunch.
Generally I eat 2 meals, one around noon, and one around 8pm. I just don’t feel hungry in the morning, so I rarely have breakfast, like maybe once in a week and it’s like a banana, or oatmeal with some fruits, but I can’t even finish like half portion. Usually I try to have mix of everything in a meal, protein, carbs and vegetables. I drink 2 coffees per day, one in the morning, and another two hours after lunch.
I think that nutrition I can put in order easier, but I need more help in building some workout plan. I hired a coach for a month and paid him like 800$ but all the guy did was showing me random exercises each training and never gave me any written plan, so I just canceled.

Do you have any experience lifting weights?

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Yes of course, I have been going to gym many times before.

If you have experience lifting weights, it’s just as simple as cleaning up your eating a bit and choosing a plan.

Pick a style of eating that works for you and stick with it. Pick a style of exercise that works for you and stick with it.

For now, consistency is most important; though you can and should make adjustments along the way.

I’ve always enjoyed Waterbury’s 10x3 for fat loss. Maybe you will, too?

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Hey man, I’m really sorry my delay. Anyway, at this stage, I personally think you should start building some sustainable habits that will carry you for the long haul. Activity (good on you for playing basketball!) and diet are going to take you the farthest.

I have my own thoughts on diet, but let me tag @QuadQueen here because she is significantly more qualified.

For activity, keep up that basketball! Thats awesome! I would also make sure you get 10,000 - 12,000 steps in each day (that’s just a hair under 5 miles for most of us). I also work a sedentary job, so it takes me maybe two dog walks and some errands to do this. A lot of folks will take a 10-minute walk right after eating, which adds up. I also like the advice to go for a quick walk every time you get bored and feel like snacking - great appetite suppressant. Anyway, don’t underestimate it just because it feels “easy” - moving more is an incredibly powerful tool.

For the training, @barley1 linked a great one. This site is full of plans. I would steer you towards something that has you lifting 3-4 days a week, with slightly less volume than you think you need (it’s easy to add more later). What kinds of things do you enjoy doing in the gym? Do you want to jump and throw like an athlete? Do you want to keep adding numbers to a barbell lift every week? Do you want to destroy a muscle and feel it burn and swell? Do you prefer machines or moving in space? Etc. If you have some idea what might be fun for you, I can maybe steer you to something you might like.

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The most effective strategy for sustainable fat loss is a change in habits.

1. Make protein the cornerstone of your meals. Increase your amount of lean protein and try to ingest your protein first with every meal. The easiest way to do this is to have a protein shake about 10 min before your main meals. This will fill your stomach up and reduce hunger, helping you eat less. I like Metabolic Drive protein because it’s 1) thicker than most proteins, so it fills you up more 2) it is digested more slowly because of micellar casein and 3) it tastes great.

Here’s how I would structure the 3 main meals of the day:

Protein shake, then…
Solid food made up mostly of protein (animal products), then…
Veggies, then …
Starches or fruits, if you are still hungry

Just structuring your meals like that will go a very long way in helping you lose fat.

2. If you want to snack, either a protein shake or lean protein foods (tuna, low sugar greek yogurt, lean cheeses, protein bar, etc.)

3. Drink plenty of water (shoot for almost a gallon per day)

  1. Move more. I’m not talking about training, but about moving/walking more. @TrainForPain talked about increasing your step count and I absolutely believe that it should be the first exercise strategy you implement. I understand that you have to spend a good period of time at work, but here are a few strategies you can implement:

  1. Use Active Rest Periods

This one doesn’t require more time. Let’s say you’re resting two or three minutes between work sets. Typically, you’d just stand there. Instead, turn those 2-3 minutes into an active rest period. Basically, walk for most of that period. If you have two minutes of rest, walk for 90 seconds. If you have three minutes of rest, walk for two and a half minutes. You can walk on a treadmill or walk at a decent pace around the gym. I prefer the first option, which allows me to use a slight angle, but the second option is more practical.

Remember, this is still a rest period. You shouldn’t see it as exercising, just as walking normally. It shouldn’t tire you out. If you walk at your normal pace, it won’t interfere with your recovery. Let’s say you do 20 total sets in your workout. That can easily add 2400 to 3000 steps to your day.

2. Try the Efferding 10-Minute Post-Meal Walk

After you finish each meal, take a 10-minute walk. It’ll add another 1800 to 2200 steps daily (if you do it after three meals) and improve digestion.

3. Aerobic Warm-Up and Cool-Down

This should be part of a good training session anyway (mostly the warm-up). Many people skip it because they’re too eager to hit the weights or think it wastes time. But if your goal is to increase background physical activity, it’s very useful, and it might even improve your workout.

Start your workout with a 10-minute walk on the treadmill on a slight incline. It should be slightly more difficult than normal walking, but you should still be capable of having a conversation without being out of breath. Then finish with a 5-10 minute cool-down at the end of your workout using a similar intensity level. That’s good for another 1200-1500 steps without much effort.

These first three strategies will increase your step count by at least 5000, likely more.

4. Warm-Up Circuit

I started doing this when I started boxing training, but now I use it before every workout. I use the circuit to warm up my shoulders, arms, torso, and legs and also to get used to doing work for 3-5 minutes non-stop to help with boxing endurance. Basically, I do 6-8 exercises as a circuit. I go for 30 seconds, giving me 3-4 minutes of work. (For brevity’s sake, I did each station for 10-15 seconds in the video.)

5. Take the Long Way

Whenever possible, put yourself in a situation where you have to walk more to get somewhere. For example, if you’re going shopping, park as far as possible from the store. If you have to go a few floors up, take the stairs. These little things don’t seem like much, but they add up!

Also, “walkable” cities/neighborhoods (where everything is within walking distance) have a significantly lower rate of obesity, diabetes, and other metabolic disorders. So, whenever you can, walk. Going to the convenience store near you? Instead of a 3-minute drive, take the time and do a 15-minute walk. Just don’t get hit by a car because that’ll make your caloric expenditure drop significantly.

6. Do a Recreational Sport Weekly

This is a great way to rapidly boost activity levels and energy expenditure without it feeling like a chore. I do three martial arts classes and one boxing class per week. I enjoy it so much it doesn’t feel like exercise. Choose what you love and what you won’t get injured doing: basketball, pickleball, hockey, golf, or whatever you like, as long as you’re moving and enjoying yourself.

7. Get a Dog (Really)

Unless you’re a lousy dog owner, you’ll walk your dog daily. It shifts your priorities, forcing you to take the time to go walk instead of watching one more episode on Netflix.

  1. Do weight training 3-4 times a week.

See those as a change in lifestyle not as something you do to lose the fat.

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Hey, no worries, it’s holiday season. :slight_smile: Thanks for the tips. I definitely need to implement those walking tricks whenever possible. I spend today reading for like 2-3 hours and taking notes, but I feel so overwhelmed with information. I like doing squads, deadlifts, bench press, and I love those exercises that involve full body, like when you do squat and then push with dumbells, medicine ball, ropes. My problem is that I don’t know how to structure the plan. Overall I would like to try and do something in the morning that involves whole body, like sprint, jump ropes, pushups, and exercises that won’t take me too much time and I can do it as circuit outside on the court. And afternoon to do some lifting and exercises in the gym.

Thanks a lot for this detailed explanation. I have couple of questions. Is it safe to take whey protein before each meal? I am asking this because I don’t know if there’s like allowed daily intake limit. And second, could you give me an example of warmup circuit? I would usually just do regular stretching and warmup with 5-10min treadmill walk. Regarding dogs, I have 2 dogs back home, but unfortunately where I live now, climate is not very dog friendly, so I couldn’t bring them with me.

Absolutely. Whey is nothing more than concentrated food.

And protein itself is pretty much impossible to store as fat.

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So, I really don’t have a lot to add after the great summary @Christian_Thibaudeau provided. I would only maybe add non-starchy veggies to the list of important things to add - they’ll provide both nutrients and volume to your meals. Hit the lean protein and add plenty of non-starchy veggies to each of your meals and run with it. Keep ay carbs you eat around your workouts (pre/post) and don’t get crazy with the portion sizes. I’d also recommend focusing on carbs like sweet potatoes, potatoes, and oats as opposed to processed/refined carbs like breads, crackers, etc. Any fat that you add/cook with should be used sparingly - sprinkled in as a condiment.

Keep us posted on your progress and we can drill down more specifics based on your results.

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As someone who wasted his prime physical years overanalyzing every detail of exercise and diet, I sympathize with this.

I ended up starting impossibly complicated plans, then burning out over a few months, never making any real progress.

Advice to younger me: there is no perfect plan. Get started and stick with it. In the end, that’s all that matters.

Great! Many fat loss plans focus on these lifts. Waterbury’s 10x3 for Fat loss, for example, focuses on the big lifts, including these three and two variations thereof.

There are plenty of others that do as well.

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