[quote]texasguy wrote:
“You can’t pick and choose.”
fuck yes you can. when a woman says she wants to massage your muscles you take her home.
when a dude says the same, you whip his ass. [/quote]
I think he was referring to getting checked out by guys, not being felt up. What he meant is that it’s a little strange to expect every woman you meet to put up with you staring at them, and not be prepared to do the same.
Interesting thread. Thought I’d add my 2 cents.
Back story: I am a former gym rat myself, having gone from skinny 155lb nerd to buff and lean 190lbs, in a little over 3 years once I got my training and eating right. Then I got a spinal injury from a bad car accident and lost all my gains during my year-long recovery. I’ve had several years now to reflect and settle into a perfectly average physique, wondering sometimes where I’d be if I hadn’t been interrupted.
Now, I am not gay. I do however notice bigger, built guys standing out in a crowd, and sometimes catch myself looking at an obviously muscular guy with admiration and perhaps jealousy. I’ve even imagined what those muscles would feel like…usually from the p.o.v. of the bodybuilder himself, not someone feeling or “worshiping” another guy (though the idea doesn’t really bother me). I guess when I realized it’s not in the cards for me to get huge like that myself, for a while I became somewhat obsessed with wanting to be one of those guys so bad…so that wanting to feel another dude’s flexed bicep doesn’t seem all that strange to me.
I hope if I ever met one of you in a bar or alley, I wouldn’t get my ass kicked because I looked at you too long and made you feel threatened somehow. I personally would be thrilled to be admired that way, by either women or men. (In fact when I was at my peak, I had several secure and straight male friends and acquaintances comment on my newly muscular arms or whatever, and some even wanted to feel me flex. What’s the big deal??) So I guess I’m kinda shocked by comments from what sounds like a bunch of self-centered jersey shore stereotypes all amped up with (natural or artificial) testosterone getting offended so easily by some dude, straight or gay, noticing them! But then, maybe I’ve lost my man card and have more in common with the “sexually ambiguous” fellow who started this thread, thanks to a broken endocrine system and clinically low T counts diagnosed after the accident. Go figure.
I guess the apparently less-manly qualities of tolerance, compassion and understanding come from maturity and “life experiences” (i.e. scars and disappointments), not from pumping iron and posing in the mirror at the gym.
Peace
Getting offended by a guy who’s most likely a troll saying he wants to feel guys up doesn’t make one a “Jersey Shore Steroetype”
If you are gay and like muscle, just get over it and enjoy it I guess…don’t make it someone else’s fault.
and you searched for this… what wacky keywords were you thinking of and using to get this 4 year old thread dug up???
^look! a real life goblin!
So you used your 1st post to ressurect a 4 year old thread that’s gayer than the Twilight series & Justin Beiber combined?
Anyway, it’s not about being looked at - the OP is clearly a closet homosexual who wants to rub and massage a muscular guy - big difference from someone just “looking”…
Cant…go…on… …too…much…gay.
On a nice note, the OP wouldnt have to be gay for this to be a fantasy of his but even I know thats bullshit.
what’s up with this post HAHA dude, you are gay. Nothing wrong with that though but unless your friends are gay you’re gonna lose em.
