[quote]Gambit_Lost wrote:
Instead of “not posting” and “not talking about it,” people from both sides should KEEP showing the other side these types of events/things. Do it right when they happen and have people actually denounce it. All too often both sides pretend that it’s only “the other side” or that “well…the other side is MUCH worse.” I think there should be more threads that point out the extremes of both sides to keep them on the periphery. If this doesn’t happen, one risks having, for example, Sarah Palin as a VP (or president).
Shit, look at the violence thread I started. People actually are denying that those events took place. Others are saying that violence against children “makes sense.” These people SHOULD be brought out in these type of conversations. They should be exposed and denounced.
In threads on PWI I’ve seen regular posters on this site advocate for mass deportations (from the USA) of Muslims. I’ve seen the worst kind of personal attacks leveled against homosexual posters. The list could go on and on. Why shouldn’t these type of people be brought to the front and ostracized? If it isn’t done from “the other side,” I don’t think it will ever be done.
BTW, IMO this is the value in FOX/MSNBC. When they go after the worst elements of “the other side,” they force change where otherwise there might not be change. [/quote]
Wrong. It is counterproductive to continually point out the flaws in the opposition party when both major parties, as well as the Tea Party, are all guilty of the same behavior. They should be brought out to the front, but by themselves and their peers, not the opposition. It leads to accusation after accusation without resolve. Bickering only begats more bickering. I had an incident with my neighbor yesterday that illustrates this point.
I was playing the drums in the garage and my roommate opened the garage door to move some shit in from outside. I continued to play, knowing that my whole street was being bombarded by the sound of the drums with the door open. It took about ten seconds of this for my asshole neighbor to come over and scream at me to “shut the fucking door! I’m sick of that shit!” This is extremely typical of the way he interacts with everyone else on the street. I shut the door and then played as loudly as I possibly could until I snapped a drumstick and had to stop.
In retaliation, my neighbor decided that it would be a good day to get out his chainsaw and cut up some wood, except that he did so at 9pm right up until 10pm when the city ordinance requires excessive noises to cease.
Now I could go over there and scream at him about his dog barking outside my window at all hours or his chainsaw usage and so on, and he could retort by screaming about the drums or revving my dirtbike in the driveway or playing loud music while I lift in the garage. And he would be right: I make noise sometimes, but so does he. But nothing will get resolved because anytime I call him out on his shit, he can simply call me out on mine.
I want to live in relative peace and comfort and so does my neighbor. But I’m not going to expect him to stop by continually yelling at him about his shit. I’m better off making attempts to limit my noise myself out of my own interest. I don’t respond well to jerks yelling at me about my transgressions regarding the drums. Extremism is our own worst enemies, so if I want any foot to stand on if he complains about an isolated incident, I should make sure that at the very least I make less noise than him. If I can’t shut myself up, how can I expect to shut him up? Am I making any sense here?