Nope.
Clearly whoever wrote that ethnic Chad list has never met a Portuguese person ⊠clearly is should be Joao
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Any proper guitar player would know to skip the bullshit and start strumming out the immortal âKiss Meâ by Sixpence.
I would be very curious to hear the genetic argument for not-getting-laid-itis.
Iâm no scientician, but Iâve always found my boners to be a guiding star of sorts. Have I wandered a bit? Sure, but I always know how to find True North.
You two âŠYou really think playing the guitar brings on a âsex farmâ? It was never this way, and it is definitely not this way now.
Playing the guitar at a young age never got you the popular girl in school, it rarely got you any girl outside of band class. Chics donât like musicians, they like the fame and fortune musicians get.
Playing an instrument is hard work, and it is repetitive. Creating a song on a guitar can be daunting, especially for a chic sitting there listening to someone play the same bar of music 100 times over until the next one is created. Bitches donât care for all that nonsense.
Funny thing is most of the guys that make it were nerds in high school, because It takes a nerds dedication to get good at something.
These guys donât stop being nerds either, they donât magically start appreciating women, or know how women work, they just have drugs and money to throw around.
Ever known a guy in a band that had temporary popularity outside of small clubs? I have. A few. Once their temporary hot trendy emo punk scene shattered to the ground and they fell back to earth holy fuck did they fall. Especially in the whole âsex farmâ aspect. They go back to being âweird bandâ guys in the eyes of 99% of the females they come around.
Nope.
Youâre free to have your ideas, even if they fly in the face of guitar-playing dorks routinely peeling away the most desirable female specimens from the jocks or whoever else you think is pulling in all the tail. I think you need to get your pitchfork out and poke some hay. Plow some fields. Spread your seed. Go to work on a real sex farm.
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Thanks for the mention.
I give a lot of beliefs pretty wide berth because I know that there is such a wide variety of family experiences and models ranging from the traditional, same sex, and even state managed situations.
Mine started out as the traditional type, but after 5 kids and both parents fully immersed in drug addiction and alcoholism fractured into my dad having custody, mother going off on her own, and eventually ending her own life. All of which, to me at least at the time, was ânormalâ.
My response to it was not though. First I had to get sober and stabilized, then Very Carefully find a woman with whom to build a life/family with.
So I find these relationship things very interesting. What people are responding to, how they respond, etc. Some people try to re-create or long for the environment they came from, others try to take it in a different direction.
I can understand why the subject can evoke such strong emotions though, and actually expect to see some incivility. These types of subjects that form the core of our identity can do that.
People might have some shit lurking in them. They might even know it, and know that it really is shit.
But damn it, itâs Their shit, and donât you get near it!
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This thread was worth it just for the Chang Thunderwang 
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Oh the irony, again.
Offended by everything, ashamed of nothing.
Is Jason Statham an incel? 
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Speaking from experience?
Playing the guitar adds value to an otherwise average person in school whom may lack the confidence to pick up chicks. It also creates increased an social standing with peers if youâre good at it, and more opportunities to meet chicks if youâre getting gigs at school events, or public events attracting chicks of the desired demographic.
This is the point. Adding value and creating opportunity. The rest is up to the individual. If he still canât score, then thereâs something else wrong with him which need to be rectified.
Which is why I donât understand this:
Why does picking up the guitar to increase your social value translate into getting the âpopular girlâ?
Then you describe the anti-social dorks who further distance themselves from others learning complex songs that nobody listens to other than his drummer who thinks heâs Deen Costranovo.
Then you go on and on about professional musicians, losers playing in clubs and money and drugs.
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The problem with you fellows is that you think in extremes.
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Correct, there has been consistency. You have not been nice, and the winky faces are and have previously been incongruent with the nasty things youâve said, and now done. They donât make ugly comments okay, they make them weird, and yes, malicious and creepy. You and I donât âbanter,â and we never have. Another tin ear issue you have. I have disagreed with your take on life, said so, and explained the bases of my thinking. Initially I did have some motivation to see your life improved by shifts in attitude, but greenboy, itâs been a very long time since thatâs been at play. I donât like you, and stopped exhibiting interest in your wellbeing somewhere early in the beta orbiter thread. I believe I announced this shift at the time. You seem to think I âlectureâ you, but in fact I barely engage you, having determined there to be no point. Iâll only bother if I believe I can influence someone else, a collateral target. Mostly I speak of you as a reference point for poisonous attitudes.
I have not asked for your picture thousands of times, lol, and I doubt I have been the most frequent caller, but that really does not matter in the least. What matters is that I would like you to leave me alone. Thatâs it! Just leave me alone. Send your Shutterstock photos to someone else.
Weâve never bantered. NEVER. There has never been a friendly overtone to our conversations. We lack the mutual respect necessary for that. You really should rethink. Your time is poorly spent looking for solutions societally and itâs definitely wasted in calling me stupid as fuck when we both know I am not.
No need to reply, thereâs nothing to argue here.
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That would be me 
Which reminds me, come on @greenboy letâs see this beastly physique youâve got, lad.
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Its paraphrasing the great Vince Lombardi
âWinning is a habit. Watch your thoughts, they become your beliefs. Watch your beliefs, they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your habits. Watch your habits, they become your characterâ
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I think this is lost on some people ⊠they donât understand why theyâre miserable and attribute it to some external force, when really they have the power to change their outlook by examining these things critically âŠ
I know I notice my mood degrades when I engage in negative thought, which influences, ultimately, my action and character. Since routinely developing habits that force me to examine my thoughts, and making improvements/changes as needed my life has improved significantly.
It is helpful to point out, though, that these changes happen on small increments and noticeable changes shouldnât be expected to occur overnight or relatively quickly. The rates of change can be compared to glaciers carving the Great Lakes or the Colorado River carving the Grand CanyonâŠ
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I agree with what you said here. I only responded that way because some people, and this is true, think that the actual instrument is what females like.
Do you think thatâs not a fair statement? Do you think people donât think this way? Because I assure you, they do. Especially teenagers.
Iâve given guitar lessons many moons ago to teenagers that clearly had no talent, and the first question I asked was " why are you doing this?" The talentless ones would almost always respond with something about some girl bleh bleh.
Only dudes look at another dude shredding and say âwow thatâs fucking awesomeâ simply because of the act of shredding, not anything else that may come of it like âadding valueâ to yourself. lol
Correct, there has been consistency. You have not been nice, and the winky faces are and have previously been incongruent with the nasty things youâve said, and now done. They donât make ugly comments okay, they make them weird, and yes, malicious and creepy. You and I donât âbanter,â and we never have. Another tin ear issue you have. I have disagreed with your take on life, said so, and explained the bases of my thinking. Initially I did have some motivation to see your life improved by shifts in attitude, but greenboy, itâs been a very long time since thatâs been at play. I donât like you, and stopped exhibiting interest in your wellbeing somewhere early in the beta orbiter thread. I believe I announced this shift at the time. You seem to think I âlectureâ you, but in fact I barely engage you, having determined there to be no point. Iâll only bother if I believe I can influence someone else, a collateral target. Mostly I speak of you as a reference point for poisonous attitudes.
I have not asked for your picture thousands of times, lol, and I doubt I have been the most frequent caller, but that really does not matter in the least. What matters is that I would like you to leave me alone. Thatâs it! Just leave me alone. Send your Shutterstock photos to someone else.
Weâve never bantered. NEVER. There has never been a friendly overtone to our conversations. We lack the mutual respect necessary for that. You really should rethink. Your time is poorly spent looking for solutions societally and itâs definitely wasted in calling me stupid as fuck when we both know I am not.
No need to reply, thereâs nothing to argue here.
Absolutely brilliant. Everything I have been saying all rolled up into one post and topped off with the typical âno need to reply because Iâm the female and I get the last word!â
hahahah fucking masterstroke.
Correct, there has been consistency. You have not been nice, and the winky faces are and have previously been incongruent with the nasty things youâve said, and now done. They donât make ugly comments okay, they make them weird, and yes, malicious and creepy
It is also creepy that you constantly asked me for pics. Do you see me going on about it? No. Winky faces are passive aggressive gestures. Passive aggressiveness is practically the entirety of your posts to me and others like @BrickHead.
You and I donât banter? Thatâs fine. You take a more serious tone out of all of this, you let it upset you. I donât. I could careless outside of internet fighting.
Initially I did have some motivation to see your life improved by shifts in attitude, but greenboy, itâs been a very long time since thatâs been at play. I donât like you, and stopped exhibiting interest in your wellbeing somewhere early in the beta orbiter thread. I believe I announced this shift at the time. You seem to think I âlectureâ you, but in fact I barely engage you, having determined there to be no point. Iâll only bother if I believe I can influence someone else, a collateral target. Mostly I speak of you as a reference point for poisonous attitudes.
And BAM. There is. The crux of the problem. Who the fuck asked you for support? Did I tell you I was speaking about myself or my observations? Did I ever come out and say âFolks, help me, I need life coachingâ You took it upon yourself to do this, and not only to me, to others in here that asked you nicely to stop and explained to you they were speaking from a different place. But of course, like most females =D you donât listen, and you continue to create your own narrative in your head.
I have not asked for your picture thousands of times, lol, and I doubt I have been the most frequent caller, but that really does not matter in the least. What matters is that I would like you to leave me alone. Thatâs it! Just leave me alone. Send your Shutterstock photos to someone else.
This right here folks is psycho female 101. At the same time trying to play off their insistency for a picture, they come back with âyou need to leave me aloneâ while also taking a last second stab at the picture âShutterstock photos.â Bravo, I donât know if it gets better than that.
And truthfully I do kind of think youâre stupid. You sure as hell arenât some beacon of grand intelligence. Youâve never said anything remotely profound, eye opening, or even the slightest bit interesting. You come up with the same typical shit anyone could get by opening up instagram and going to some 23 year old thots page for inspirational quotes. But thatâs my opinion and you can choose to care about it or not.
But really, no need to reply to this, I wonât even tag you in it. So, no need to come harass me when Iâm simply telling people to be ok with their bodies. August '19 Photo/Video Check-In - #83 by EmilyQ
Says the guy who was looking up wikipedia pages to help prove that black people are less intelligent, more primitive, and more prone to violence, when a white supremacist and a holocaust denier made their way into the thread.
And you sound exactly how youâve been pegged on here by every single user except one - angry, resentful, hateful, bitter, and aggressive towards women.
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