I agree this is playground bullshit of “he said this and she said that and you called me this”
It is stupid. I"m not sensitive in any way shape or form. Like I already said above I roll with the punches but people seem to always want to get personal.
The incel phenomenon would be funny but for the fact that some of these young men really are damaged and some of them do indeed carry out mass murders. Some of them have been arrested after stating their plans on the internet.
If you’re hating women and updating the incel Wikipedia instead of using any of the myriad of ways to meet girls what can be done?
How many incels are one because they want to be one? Because they’ve found a “home” with the other incel Wikipedia updaters and general filth of the internet.
The internet’s ability to normalize and perpetuate radicalization is alarming. Beforehand, when you expressed these ideas in society, you were told you were stupid and weird, and you’d just have to bring that home and sulk in it. Now, they get online and find a community that goes “not only are you right: you have no IDEA how much more there is to learn about it”. The echo chamber forms, and there you go.
Very true and scary stuff no doubt. The issue to I get hung up on is we’re using incels almost to suggest that if only these people had female companionship they would not be this way. I disagree with that. White supremacists, male supremacy, mass murders are not that way only because they aren’t getting laid. Some are that way before and after having sex. It’s almost like a way for them to say “I’m damaged and women are the reason.”
I’ll stick by feeling like the vast majority of people who identify and hang out on these incel forums have zero desire to be with a woman and tons of desire to hate women.
The way they talk about women, I wonder why they want to be with them in the first place. But it isn’t about being with a woman; it’s about being in a position of power over women. It’s how they view masculinity.
Unfortunately this is the harsh reality men need to deal with today, in our darkest days. The era of women valuing passive-aggressive men who blame others for their problems is now in the past. It’s not like back in the day when you could get laid left and right by offering reassurance that you aren’t anything like the guys who will offer her thrills and completely ravish her body. Back when society had its priorities straight, women could see past the superficial pleasure of passionate sexual gratification and seek out the men who would be nice to them.
And I don’t just mean nice. I mean really, really nice.
Or, like that Carbidius asshole with the pistol squats braggadocio, you get banned, wear it like a badge of honor, and move on thinking you’re a badass, confirmed. Or, you dis-respect someone by calling them names, and are shocked, shocked when you’re treated with equal disdain…
IRL, I guarantee you the worst offenders never talk to people like that. Because somebody would’ve punched them in the face a long time ago, and they would’ve realized that “consequence” is not just a word with more than one syllable.
(psa: I have this obsession with “punch in the face”, because Mike Tyson)
I never cultivated the fields of the sex farm that is guitar-playing. But it’s definitely one of the easier ways for dorks to get women. You can be a drug-addicted asshole with no income and still have women lining up to bang you and be your next trainwreck relationship.